You aren't wrong - according to the social scientists and mick jagger - "you can't get no satisfaction"

as in happiness the emotion is fleeting, but we like to chase it anyways. I am reading Arthur C Brooks and he breaks happiness into enjoyment (memory PLUS people)+Engagement with Family+Type of Friendships (REAL not transactional - transactional being you want something like you buy random and expensive stuff in order to make the SA like you)+Faith(A higher purpose, not necessarily religion, and not spending to beat the band)>>>> So in H terms happiness = Using your QB at dinner with family and friends to build memories with the people and events you associate with joy, and having a purpose that is more than scoring the next one!