I have a swollen and badly bruised hand from just removing my jade bangle. My daughter had to help me take it off. I’ll put it back after I lose the dreaded Covid-19.My hand hurts but I’m missing it already!
I hurt for you just thinking about it. Hope your hand feels better quickly.
Don't know if you had tried this but maybe for future reference ... I was told to put a sheer stocking over my hand OR lather with lots of lotion (lotion can be washed off jade right away) but be careful taking it off for it will be slippery so do it over carpet/soft surface. These ideas I heard from my jade dealer and actually from other non-jade jewelers also.