… because I still love it and I applied for 2 months everyday for that appointment + the SA said she picked it out specially for me based on what we discussed. Have you bought one? If you have then you might know that the first time you’re really excited and you don’t go through every scenario in the world such as “can I wear this bag to dinner and the ballet as well as the office?” I don’t get your question? There are literally tons of blog posts comparing birkin sizes. Sounds like you’re implying it’s an issue for me to discuss the size. It’s pretty normal. Also if you read what I wrote, I said “I’m suddenly worried” meaning I’m thinking about it now. I’ve never owned a Birkin before. How would I know how heavy it might feel in my actual hand after a day based on a size even if I’ve seen them. It’s a pretty normal discussion point to ask someone else with a B35 that’s owned it longer if they don’t mind it. Do you actually have a B35? If so what do you think after a day holding it?
I think that we can all understand the excitement of getting not just an appointment but an offer. The first offer is truly special, memorable and a sense of disbelief that this long anticipated event manifested! Did you know that FSH allows has floor models for you to try out? I have been there several times when clients have been trying them on and someone in housewares or jewelry comments on how lucky the person is to be given a choice of Birkin or Kellys as they have 2 or 3 models-not understanding that the bags are not on offer.
If the offer comes in Paris you may have to compromise. In preparation for that first appointment I scoured the internet for information and I also carefully researched my options. I knew before going into my appointment that I would not accept a Birkin 35 or 25. Why? I don't like strictly hand carry bags, especially heavy ones and there is tons of forums on how the 35 can be too heavy- Jane Birkin herself said she did not like the bag because it caused shoulder issues- that removed it from my consideration.
The Birikin 25 is very small and strictly a hand carry- can't put in the crook of the arm so no flexibility- that removes it from my list unless it were in a very special colour like Rose Sakura or Bubblegum.
In my book a B35 is a work/travel bag. Birkin are very casual and I don't see going to an event or a formal dinner in a Birkin be it a 25 or 35! No bag even one that costs 10K + is going to work for every occasion. Why did you want a Birkin? Does the 35cm work for that purpose?
In Paris your offers depend on stock. It is expected that you should have an idea of what you want before that all important offer.
My first Kelly was a 32 returne- I had wanted a 28 Sellier but colour trumped everything and I told my SA that. I was given the option of a K28 sellier in Blue Nuite or a K32 retourne in Raisin in Clemance leather. I had wanted a raisin 28 box sellier but if I wanted raisin I had to compromise. I was concerned it would be too heavy and I told the SA this but but I was in awe at first sight- she is now a ride or die in my collection and I will have her till the day I die!
Some on this forum may be concerned that you are now going to sell your bag for a profit, because you have decided that it is too big and you really wanted a 25 cm. It can be aggravating to hear this as the appointments are so hard to get and there is another one that sold the bag for profit. If you are not sure then leave the bag- it is someone's dream bag!
From reading your posts and your initial excitement I think you may be experiencing a bit of buyers remorse, which you can have even if it were the perfect bag in every way! The first Hermes bag can be hard, let's face it these are very expensive. I think it is very natural to experience second thoughts. I experienced the same thing. Maybe my experience may help you.
In the first few months of purchasing my bag, I was worried that it would be too heavy, or that I would ruin the leather because I live in a rainy city. I had some guilt over how much money I spent on a handbag. I started to regret that I had not looked at the Blue Nuite Sellier -everyone told me that was a fantastic offer how could I possibly have turned down such a fantastic offer. It really made me question my decision. Ohh the angst can be real! With hindsight it was the right bag for me and will always be in my collection. I am also glad that I purchased my 32 when I did because the larger the bag the bigger the price tag in the boutique- by my K32 cost me about the same as a K25 today. You got your B35 just before the price increase- small bags are in today but the larger bags will come back and you will have saved yourself a pretty penny by purchasing your B35 in 2022!
Give yourself some time- live with the bag and then make a decision.
