My husband and I made a deal when we got married, that all our income goes to a joint account we use to pay our joint expenses off, like house, cars, now also anything the kids need. Off of that account comes a monthly allowance for each of us, that we spend on whatever we like. It feels fair, because I used to make much more than my husband and he never had to feel bad about it. Now, that I only work parttime and take care of the house the kids and him of course, and he has moved up and earns Way more than I do, the allowance got bigger, but is still the same amount for each of us. So he doesn't care at all, what I spend mine on. We Never had a fight about money.
