Babi said:I'm 38...turning 39 soon!
I had to pass through a hard period, for sentimental and job (my family's tradition went lost) reasons.
Now things are going a little bit better (I'm even considering the idea to recreate my family's activity), but in the last couple of years I've been very rational, as wasn't sure of my future. I enjoyed buying tons of books, while having the time to read them and forgot about bags for a while.
Now I want to stay rational even if my future is less uncertain.
So I don't want to waste money anymore buying "it bags", and try to focus on my style and long term choices.
I prefer to be patient, save my money, buy what I "need" (also if to be honest, we don't need designers' shoes, clothes and so on) and choose carefully, preferably spending for things that will stay with me for the longest time.
I started buying an Hermes massai a couple of years ago, and I love it.
Now I bought a 31 bolide mou. Both preowned.
Next one is going to be a red Kelly. I'll take my time, go to the store to try on the 28 and 32. I'd love a rouge H. box Kelly retourne, but I've also seen gorgeous rouge H. on other leathers (like chevre de coromandel and palladium hardware!). But no hurry: Hermés is always there, and hope it always will. Meanwhile I'll enjoy what I have.
I'm very moved by your philosphy, I absolutely agree with what you said. Sometimes we get caught in the whirlwind of "it bag" & excitement of acquiring material things, & we forget to be patient. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.