Thank you. He passed away from colon cancer in 2013.
Yes, I could tell you some stories about her brother & his wife. They're a piece of work. And they don't have a problem bringing up their "financial difficulties" in front of anybody. They stopped saying anything in front of me when they asked her to buy them a new car right after my brother passed. I was shocked at first but when she told them they were crazy & they started making comments about how she wouldn't miss the money because of my brother's insurance money, I went through the roof! I cursed them up one side & down the other & threw them out of her house! They had the audacity to say what they said in front of my mother! My sister in law just stood back & let me have at it. She said after they left that she was tired of dealing with them & was glad I threw them out. My mother, while not particularly pleased with the language I used, said it needed to be done. My sister n law rarely speaks to her brother now & not at all with his wife. They will usually speak at Christmas & that's about it. They just a bunch of mooches. They have even tried to get their mother to give them money by taking out a mortgage on her home. My sister n law put a stop to that. She now has her mother's power of attorney so they would have to go through her. I think the only person in her family that she has anything to do with is a nephew & his wife. They don't have much to do with his parents either. Apparently, they have been asked for money as well.
My deepest condolences to you about your brother.
Money destroys families, unfortunately. My father always says that if he wants to make my brother and I hate each otger, he would leave one more money, that it is as easy as that. It is funny when you hear it in theory but no so funny when you read the effects of it...