Well, the big lesson to learn is that you can't control others' behaviors.

I understand you, i'm just saying to remember to pick your battles.

In all honesty, this is one of the reasons I don't buy from re-sellers of new-with-tag. (Part of the reason, not all, because I've only bought from FOS once so have no personal issues there, and I've had decent luck at the outlets. Heck, I fell into a gathered Lindsey barely days ago at outlet (buh?!?!?! ... let me pick myself up from the floor first). I think the rest of the reason boils down to some sort of personal perception, but that's another topic.)
So yeah, if you don't like re-sellers,
the only real vote you have is to not purchase from them. On the few occasions where I've wanted an already retired item, I've purposefully purchased excellent/good used condition. I once had a history teacher who pretty much nailed it --- the only vote you really have is with your wallet. Use it.

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