2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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#436
Gabs007 said:
Totally love that, you know hubby and I are in the process of moving countries, I have so much stuff, really good quality bags with quirky designs and such which I just collected because I do love strolling through flea markets and charity shops, perfect for destressing (and less expensive than buying at a whim because you feel frustrated...) a lot of them are totally fab but I don't use them and don't want to throw them out, If you want, PM me, I shall take pics when I am on my "clear out, make pile of items you are not going to take" kick, if you like them I just put them in a cardboard box, send them to you and you can customize to your heart's content. It's not high end stuff, often little known artisans, but just things I liked the look and the quality, some will need some work, but sounds like they would be going to a home where they are appreciated, if you don't like them, you can always chuck them out.
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Aww how lovely! Thank you so much for thinking of me! Will try to figure out how to send a PM.
Most of my bags are flea market or ebay finds- quirky, good old quality vintage- how I love to find them! I´ve been experimenting with bag repairs, touch-up jobs and painting on bags- either to change the colour completely or to add a decor.
 
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#437
papertiger said:
The leather speaks for itself even in the photo.

I had a bag-free day. It was great because since DH made go go for a walk after work (working from home today) I wasn't carrying any money or my phone so DH kindly paid for (an impromptu) dinner :rolleyes:
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Thank you papertiger :hugs:
How lovely to go completely bare - no phone no money, and what a nice treat from your DH. :flowers:
I hope you’re enjoying your new role and finding it challenging and invigorating!
 
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Cookiefiend said:
That's great! It seems that as time goes on, it's harder and harder to make new friends - so good for you on getting out and actually meeting real live people! (I should take note and do this myself!)

I have only purchased some summer clothing items - 1 linen sheath dress, 3 pairs of shorts, and 4 sleeveless silk blouses. I'm still needing a pair of medium blue shorts, and once I find them I will be done for summer clothing!

I've been tempted by purses and scarves but haven't purchased any so far this month. Yay!
I am looking for a nicer, small, black crossbody bag - I don't have one and I could use one. I have an old Coach that I use for walking the dog, but it's really beat up - it serves its purpose though so I keep it. I'm considering an MZ Wallace Micro Sutton in the black lacquer (more dressy looking and I absolutely love mine in Punch), a Gucci Soho Disco Camera bag (not as fond of the look, but all my stuff fits) or the Ferragamo Mini Studio Bag (I love my small Studio so I know I'd like this, but I don't know if my stuff will fit). We'll be in FL next week, so I may be able to check the Gucci and the Ferragamo out while there.
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I love my black lacquer micro Sutton. One of my grab go bags specially on rainy days.
 

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cowgirlsboots said:
Aww how lovely! Thank you so much for thinking of me! Will try to figure out how to send a PM.
Most of my bags are flea market or ebay finds- quirky, good old quality vintage- how I love to find them! I´ve been experimenting with bag repairs, touch-up jobs and painting on bags- either to change the colour completely or to add a decor.
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Funny enough, just found a Clarks bag in my pile that could be worn cross body or over the shoulder, superbly made, could do with a bit of leather wax and has tons of space you could paint on, since you figured out PMs and we are actually not that far away and there are good delivery services, I definitely shall take pics....
 
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papertiger said:
What bag was it?

I have a few wedding and occasion bags and although use them very rarely when these events do happen, OMG I am so pleased I have something. OK, quite a few. My favourite med clutches (long dress) or handheld, structured, small top-handle (cocktail)
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It was the chanel mini reissue in black with shiny gold hardware. I just felt like I am not at the point where I could have a bag I spent $3500 on sit in the closet 99% of the time. I'm more into using my items while I know may find their happiness in having a collection.
 
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Rhl2987 said:
A lot you had New Year's resolutions or commitments in areas other than shopping. How are you doing with those now that we are halfway through January?

My two biggest commitments this year, outside of shopping, have been to spend more time outside and also to build relationships and a larger community where I live. I spent the first week in January outside every day for at least an hour, in Colorado in the middle of winter. I got sick from this and have spent over a week not getting outside at all! Tomorrow we will start back up again but be more cautious and ensure we're warm enough. I've also been spending so much time getting to know people I've met through neighborhood Facebook Mom's groups, mutual friends and shared interests, and time networking for business/work. Last week I had a "date" every single day, this week I have had something everyday for half of the week, and next week I have something everyday again. I am getting close to starting work, so I've truly enjoyed making connections with people and putting myself out there in a way I've never done before.

As for shopping, I bought a cashmere cardigan from Hermes (1 of my 6 non-ethical/sustainable clothing or shoe purchases for the year) and my Kelly 25 so far. I have resisted a number of Chanel and Louis Vuitton bag purchases, which I think I'll continue to do. No sales, but I don't currently have much listed. Once I have a job, I'll be purchasing some new workwear items from Everlane and my friend's sustainable clothing store. I will also need a work bag and I'm eyeing one from Dagne Dover.
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I don't make resolutions because I feel it is setting myself to fail. But I would like to maintain my weight this year so I've been trying to watch what I eat. I'm also making an effort to continue with physical therapy on my own.

I would also like to make a better effort to clean my house before it needs it by doing a little every day. I bought wipes for the bathroom counters so I can wipe them down as we use them. Part of the problem was that every time I wanted to wipe the counters I had to go get the cleaner and a cloth from another room, so having the wipes right there should make it easier. I'm trying to come up with other tricks like this to make cleaning easier.

As far as self control in buying, I've been terrible! I've already bought 5 things this year, and one of them is a bag. I got it half price, it is sold out, and I think it was a great deal. I really love it. What I've noticed about myself is that it is easier to stop buying completely than it is to control myself after I've bought something, especially if that purchasing experience was a good one. Having a good outcome from a purchase just encourages me to buy more. I ordered a wallet based on another tpfer's posts. Actually I wouldn't have gotten 4 out of 5 of these purchases without some tpf enabling, not that I'm blaming anyone for my weakness, just pointing out that it is easier to stay on a ban if I stayed off tpf.

I sold one bag and one SLG so far this year so I guess I could count the new bag and wallet as replacements. The other items I bought were a sweatshirt and 2 pieces of costume jewelry.
 
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cowgirlsboots said:
Aww how lovely! Thank you so much for thinking of me! Will try to figure out how to send a PM.
Most of my bags are flea market or ebay finds- quirky, good old quality vintage- how I love to find them! I´ve been experimenting with bag repairs, touch-up jobs and painting on bags- either to change the colour completely or to add a decor.
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We'd love to see your projects in the Coach rehab club. They don't have to be Coach bags. It's a fairly active thread so people come there with other brands too. https://forum.purseblog.com/threads/coach-rehab-and-rescue-club.833400/
 
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Gabs007 said:
Look, a bag will never make you happy, with what you describe the reward is even bigger because you make a bargain, the odd seller who found something in a thrift shop and doesn't know what they have. Don't laugh but the things in my wardrobe I cherish most are bargains and steals, makes it so much more valuable to me, so much more attached to them than items I paid full price for.

Being able to afford a fabulous bag, great, but again. that quick fix does not make your life better, if you lust after a particular bag, nothing wrong with it, really, lusting after luxury items pushed me to do well in university and business, but at the end of the day they are just that, luxury items. The 1st Prada wallet I bought as a student, from an outlet, doing extra shifts waitressing, it meant so much more to me than any bag I could afford, I cried when it was stolen (after more than 10 years of wear), not because of the money I had in it or the hassle of replacing the cards, just the sense of achievement and that I had a real Prada item and paid for it myself, never bought simply another one, as it would not be the same (though a fab wallet).

Bags and such are nice, but they are just the icing on the cake, if your life sucks no bag on earth will make it better, if your life is good, that bag is just another reason to smile, basically, as well made as they are, as beautiful as some of them are, as high the prices the designers slap on them, in reality they are only worth what somebody is willing to pay for them.
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so true!
 
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