2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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A lot you had New Year's resolutions or commitments in areas other than shopping. How are you doing with those now that we are halfway through January?

My two biggest commitments this year, outside of shopping, have been to spend more time outside and also to build relationships and a larger community where I live. I spent the first week in January outside every day for at least an hour, in Colorado in the middle of winter. I got sick from this and have spent over a week not getting outside at all! Tomorrow we will start back up again but be more cautious and ensure we're warm enough. I've also been spending so much time getting to know people I've met through neighborhood Facebook Mom's groups, mutual friends and shared interests, and time networking for business/work. Last week I had a "date" every single day, this week I have had something everyday for half of the week, and next week I have something everyday again. I am getting close to starting work, so I've truly enjoyed making connections with people and putting myself out there in a way I've never done before.

As for shopping, I bought a cashmere cardigan from Hermes (1 of my 6 non-ethical/sustainable clothing or shoe purchases for the year) and my Kelly 25 so far. I have resisted a number of Chanel and Louis Vuitton bag purchases, which I think I'll continue to do. No sales, but I don't currently have much listed. Once I have a job, I'll be purchasing some new workwear items from Everlane and my friend's sustainable clothing store. I will also need a work bag and I'm eyeing one from Dagne Dover.
That's great! It seems that as time goes on, it's harder and harder to make new friends - so good for you on getting out and actually meeting real live people! (I should take note and do this myself!)

I have only purchased some summer clothing items - 1 linen sheath dress, 3 pairs of shorts, and 4 sleeveless silk blouses. I'm still needing a pair of medium blue shorts, and once I find them I will be done for summer clothing!

I've been tempted by purses and scarves but haven't purchased any so far this month. Yay!
I am looking for a nicer, small, black crossbody bag - I don't have one and I could use one. I have an old Coach that I use for walking the dog, but it's really beat up - it serves its purpose though so I keep it. I'm considering an MZ Wallace Micro Sutton in the black lacquer (more dressy looking and I absolutely love mine in Punch), a Gucci Soho Disco Camera bag (not as fond of the look, but all my stuff fits) or the Ferragamo Mini Studio Bag (I love my small Studio so I know I'd like this, but I don't know if my stuff will fit). We'll be in FL next week, so I may be able to check the Gucci and the Ferragamo out while there.
 
That's great! It seems that as time goes on, it's harder and harder to make new friends - so good for you on getting out and actually meeting real live people! (I should take note and do this myself!)

I have only purchased some summer clothing items - 1 linen sheath dress, 3 pairs of shorts, and 4 sleeveless silk blouses. I'm still needing a pair of medium blue shorts, and once I find them I will be done for summer clothing!

I've been tempted by purses and scarves but haven't purchased any so far this month. Yay!
I am looking for a nicer, small, black crossbody bag - I don't have one and I could use one. I have an old Coach that I use for walking the dog, but it's really beat up - it serves its purpose though so I keep it. I'm considering an MZ Wallace Micro Sutton in the black lacquer (more dressy looking and I absolutely love mine in Punch), a Gucci Soho Disco Camera bag (not as fond of the look, but all my stuff fits) or the Ferragamo Mini Studio Bag (I love my small Studio so I know I'd like this, but I don't know if my stuff will fit). We'll be in FL next week, so I may be able to check the Gucci and the Ferragamo out while there.
Great work on almost rounding out that summer wardrobe! And also on no purchases on the purse and scarf front so far this month! I've been attracted to the Bottega Cassette bags, for a smaller crossbody. I don't think I will buy one, but I admire them nonetheless. You named off some great options, and black crossbody will be very functional. I hope you find something useful and beautiful in FL.
 
Great work on almost rounding out that summer wardrobe! And also on no purchases on the purse and scarf front so far this month! I've been attracted to the Bottega Cassette bags, for a smaller crossbody. I don't think I will buy one, but I admire them nonetheless. You named off some great options, and black crossbody will be very functional. I hope you find something useful and beautiful in FL.
Thank you! I had to zip off to check out the Bottega Cassette bag - very cute!
 
Totally love that, you know hubby and I are in the process of moving countries, I have so much stuff, really good quality bags with quirky designs and such which I just collected because I do love strolling through flea markets and charity shops, perfect for destressing (and less expensive than buying at a whim because you feel frustrated...) a lot of them are totally fab but I don't use them and don't want to throw them out, If you want, PM me, I shall take pics when I am on my "clear out, make pile of items you are not going to take" kick, if you like them I just put them in a cardboard box, send them to you and you can customize to your heart's content. It's not high end stuff, often little known artisans, but just things I liked the look and the quality, some will need some work, but sounds like they would be going to a home where they are appreciated, if you don't like them, you can always chuck them out.

I know what you mean about "collecting" cute and interesting bags. I am always partial for leather and exotic, especially the vintage ones. Most are not high-end brands, purely for their looks and amazing craftmanship on some (how could you pass up a $3 leather bag in good condition, right?... :giggle:)
I slowly letting some go. Guess it is also part of my resolution every year, to let go bags I don't use.
 
Good for you and you imparted some very important information - so I thank you!
If the shoulder strap for the Evie is too short for you, I am certain it would be too short for me. No more thoughts about "Gee - would I like an Evie?", because now I know the answer!
I hear you on the structured bag love - i :heart: them!
I like seeing all the soft, squishy, puddles of beautiful leather, but i know they aren't for me. I have finally learned my lesson! Give me structure!
I wouldn’t be too sure about the strap length for you—I’m a much larger-sized woman so more for the strap to have to wrap around crossbody, leaving the evie closer to waist height than hip.
 
So ladies I have returned from Vegas and decided two things. 1. I must get Kelly 32-need to decide on color and leather. 2. I need a Lady Dior. I can so close to purchasing the Dior but I couldn’t decide on the size. The medium I loved handheld but didn’t like it crossbody. The small I loved crossbody but didn’t particularly care for it handheld. Also I couldn’t figure out what color Here are the two mod shots

Red in whatever size!
 
@missie1 I vote medium. It is more practical. But I think you have to ask yourself if you tend to wear crossbody more or handheld more and that may lead to the answer.


Ladies. So my HG from many years ago appeared in great condition for a great price, but I already bought my 1 bag and the other bags I've listed aren't moving :*( what to do (it's a miu miu medium coffer in mughetto for less than $300). I'm very torn.

I'm reading this late (it's Friday) and not looking at the updates so this response may be redundant. I would go for it. I know the purpose of this thread and I really don't mean to enable you but I bought 3 bags last year (instead of the 1 only) but hey, some bags are not optional extras.
 
Starting off the year by letting go of a bag that I was keeping because it was expensive and because it was "rounding out my collection". However, the only way I could use this bag was in the off chance I was going to a wedding, which rarely happens anymore, and as a smaller bag in a larger tote, but with the chain strap it was so heavy all by itself.
I feel bad not having it anymore, but hope someone else can put it to good use. It seems pointless to have it sit inside my closet to never see the light of day...

What bag was it?

I have a few wedding and occasion bags and although use them very rarely when these events do happen, OMG I am so pleased I have something. OK, quite a few. My favourite med clutches (long dress) or handheld, structured, small top-handle (cocktail)
 
Thank you, it is easier for me to cope with the loss than mom, when it was clear that dad had taken a turn to the worse, I headed over and was so shocked in which bad shape he was and how much he suffered, so (I feel quite bad about it, but I hope you know how I mean it) I was almost glad that the suffering ended, because I simply didn't want him to suffer and I can console myself with that. I sometimes still catch myself reaching for the phone and wanting to call him about something.

For mom it is more difficult, dad didn't want her to work, though she did later in life a part time job in a boutique (dad always joked she spent more there than she earned, that's why they had her) and he loved being the one in charge, she loved being the pampered wife, wouldn't be my thing but it worked for those 2, so not judging. So apart from missing the person she shared most of her life with, it's also that a lot of things that were normal for her are now missing. Dad simply loved being the macho protector and mom loved being the adored wife, she never had to do normal stuff like bother with banking, insurance... So just giving her a bit of the "pampered" feeling back, plus I can encourage her to go shopping for herself, anything to bring her out a bit.

:hugs:
 
Lovely outfit msd. I hope you are able to recover from your December incident and find a way to move forward. On a lighter note - it’s awesome you can wear a skirt at this time of year. We are experiencing a cold snap, this morning it was -29C/-20F or -41C/-42F with windchill. Brrr, frostbite is a real risk. I am layering with cashmere and my arctic parka .... and spending our evenings at hockey rinks! :lol::rolleyes::biggrin:

My mantra this month has been “no extras”. I’m doing the January no (extra) spend challenge and the January consume what’s in my freezer/larder/pantry challenge. I picked up one of my bags from the boutique, post spa treatments, and put the blinders on (don’t look at the scarves, don’t look at the scarves). :angel:

Shopping my closet, what goes great over a puffy winter coat - my Hermes Massai Cut 40.
What are you carrying?
Be well everyone!
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The leather speaks for itself even in the photo.

I had a bag-free day. It was great because since DH made go go for a walk after work (working from home today) I wasn't carrying any money or my phone so DH kindly paid for (an impromptu) dinner :rolleyes:
 
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A lot you had New Year's resolutions or commitments in areas other than shopping. How are you doing with those now that we are halfway through January?

My two biggest commitments this year, outside of shopping, have been to spend more time outside and also to build relationships and a larger community where I live. I spent the first week in January outside every day for at least an hour, in Colorado in the middle of winter. I got sick from this and have spent over a week not getting outside at all! Tomorrow we will start back up again but be more cautious and ensure we're warm enough. I've also been spending so much time getting to know people I've met through neighborhood Facebook Mom's groups, mutual friends and shared interests, and time networking for business/work. Last week I had a "date" every single day, this week I have had something everyday for half of the week, and next week I have something everyday again. I am getting close to starting work, so I've truly enjoyed making connections with people and putting myself out there in a way I've never done before.

As for shopping, I bought a cashmere cardigan from Hermes (1 of my 6 non-ethical/sustainable clothing or shoe purchases for the year) and my Kelly 25 so far. I have resisted a number of Chanel and Louis Vuitton bag purchases, which I think I'll continue to do. No sales, but I don't currently have much listed. Once I have a job, I'll be purchasing some new workwear items from Everlane and my friend's sustainable clothing store. I will also need a work bag and I'm eyeing one from Dagne Dover.

I'm doing fine coz I haven't had time to shop. This is especially good coz I'm still broke from Christmas.

I will have to pick up a bespoke MTO silk shirt from Gucci soon (whenever I get the chance). I've paid half so it won't be terrible but it'll still be a dent. I wanted to go to H to see the new season's scarves but the shirt is coming out of my scarf money. Can't have everything. At least not all at once.

I bought one thing in the sale. A grey 100% merino wool cable knit cape with hood by Natallia kulikouskaya. It was 50% off and I was freezing the day I bought it so wore it out the shop. I've been wearing a lot so feel really happy with it. Someone already asked me if they could buy it off me if I ever got tired of it. Er, not a chance :D

Why don't you consider Hermes sustainable or ethical? I consider Hermes to be one of the most sustainable brands in my wardrobe.
 
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