I totally agree with you. After buying for a few years and buying a lot these past two years, these days I am happier with resale. If you buy second hand in great/excellent condition from a few years back, you can find a B25 at 1.5 for example.UO: in countries that require prespend, unless you genuinely want to own and keep all of your prespend items, then prespend above 1.5:1 is a total waste of money and an unwise financial decision because you can get a new bag in the exact specs you want in the secondary market for a total price that includes the equivalent of a 1:1 prespend (give or take).
But if you can get the exact bag you want from the boutique for 1.5:1 or less in prespend then it’s still a lovely experience and worth it. Any higher of a prespend ratio than that and it becomes more financially beneficial to buy from the secondary market instead of sinking $20-$60K into other items just to be offered a bag.
So far, 43% my H bag collection was acquired from H boutiques with about a 1:1 prespend and 57% of my H bag collection was acquired new on the secondary market for a total price encompassing the equivalent of a 1.5:1 prespend or less. I notice a lot of SAs will milk you as much as you let them to maximize commissions before offering a bag and it feels exploitative and I want no part of it. I only buy items I truly love from the boutique and refuse to buy more than what I want or need as a prerequisite to acquiring the bags I want. This requires a lot of patience with the boutique route and also acquiring some bags on the secondary market if wanting to build a collection at a pace faster than what the boutique offers. Bags and other pretty items are nice but so is maximizing savings and financial investments for future financial health. I do enjoy and buy other H items besides just bags but there are only so many other items I need before it feels like wasteful obligatory spending for the sake of getting a next bag, which I can get without wasting as much money at the boutique.
Basically — what’s nicer than having bags is having those exact same bags with more money leftover in my pocket.
I figured out nowadays it will take me a long time, even if a spend a lot, to get to the level of being offered the very coveted blue boxes, as Faubourg for example, since I travel a lot and buy from different stores. Nowadays it is difficult to get the leather bags in store, let alone what I want.