Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
The only one large bag I have is a tote bag, and I only use it when travel and going big shopping.
I have regular rogue, that's a good size for me on weekdays going to work, and I normally carry my dinky on the weekends. I really wanted to love double-swagger as daily bag but I can't handle that size, so I returned it. Where I live, people drive to everywhere so there isn't really a needs that I have to carry a lot of things.
So, yes, I think I don't like big bags. If it has to be that big , I'd prefer a backpack.
But I do understand the feeling, sometimes I buy a bag and I am satisfied, I don't even use them. Just thinking of that I have that bag, I am happy. I think this is called collector.