I had mine pierced 6 years ago with 2 other girls. And I LOVED it!! I didn't regret it for a second. But a year ago I had to take it out because I noticed it was growing out for some unknown reason (I never had any problems with it otherwise). The amount of skin between the 2 holes was becoming thinner and thinner so I figured it would be best to remove it before it accidently "tears" off. It happedn to someone I know and I was afraid. =P Overall it was a great experience, there is a bit of scarring but I dont really notice it. For me, the timing was great! I had it all through college and it started to grow out a year after I got out of college. Honestly, I do miss it but i feel that I'm passed the age to get it repierced and dont really have the occassion to wear bikinis and go to the beach anymore. If I had to choose again, I would DEFINITELY do it again.
With regards to pain and caring for it. It was a breeze for me. The amount of "pain" you feel REALLY depends on the person who does it for you. Must I stress the "REALLY" again. As I stated before 3 of us got it pierced. One girl and I had it pierced by the same guy, he was very experienced and did it free hand. It was just a pinch, much, much, much less painful than I expected. The 3rd girl had it pierced by someone inexperienced and it was painful for her. Caring for it wasn't bad at all for me. I just cleaned it carefully twice a day or so as instructed and I was fine. So was the 2nd girl. (But I did get a little worried the 3nd week or so because it became a bit swollen, dont worry its natural) The 3rd girl had to remove hers because it got terribly infected. She didnt clean it as instructed.
My advice to you is to go to someone whos good and dont be afraid to ask for a specific person. And make sure u clean it!!