Maintaining an H relationship

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Hi~~ I was curious if SA will only allow you to put in a wishlist when they deem you worthy to be eligible for a QB? Im about 1:1 so far and have hinted about my dream bag but my SA just said "you will get there!" but hasn't really taken notes or anything about a wishlist. I was curious if they only take it in when they are more serious about it, or if you can get started on a wishlist earlier on in the journey. I know there probably isn't hard or fast rules on this, just wondering what other people's experiences are!
Have you shared the specs you would like for your dream bag with your SA? You should definitely make sure you have a wishlist started. I brought up my interest in a birkin during my first visit and my SA told me the first step was to create a wish list and he took notes of the size and color I wanted right then and there, and I was able to get my birkin 30 in less than a year. Good luck!!
 
Hi all, I recently just got offered a mini C in alligator by another SA out of state while I was asking for constance to go. With no hesitation I said yes! This was my very first offer. I have been working with SA in my home boutique but so far has no luck (she’s still new, my former SA quit last year).

I do have a wishlist for B, the SA who got me the C has updated my wishlist and he’s willing to work with me. Now my question is what do I do with my home boutique SA? Have anyone worked with 2 SAs ? TIA
 
Hi all, I recently just got offered a mini C in alligator by another SA out of state while I was asking for constance to go. With no hesitation I said yes! This was my very first offer. I have been working with SA in my home boutique but so far has no luck (she’s still new, my former SA quit last year).

I do have a wishlist for B, the SA who got me the C has updated my wishlist and he’s willing to work with me. Now my question is what do I do with my home boutique SA? Have anyone worked with 2 SAs ? TIA
What color is the mini c? Any color in croc sounds fantastic. Would love to see some pics if you have any. Congrats!!

If I were in your shoes I’d stick with the sa that gives me bags.
 
What color is the mini c? Any color in croc sounds fantastic. Would love to see some pics if you have any. Congrats!!

If I were in your shoes I’d stick with the sa that gives me bags.
Thank you!! It’s the Rose Mexico.

So couple days ago, my home boutique SA just texted me checking and said haven’t seen me in awhile. This was a first. She usually slow in responding text, sometimes didn’t even answer me back. I’m sure she knew that I shopped somewhere else

Honestly I feel more connected with the SA that got me a bag. I’m happy to stick with him but also felt bad with my home boutique SA (she’s sweet and friendly, but new).
 
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Thank you!! It’s the Rose Mexico.

So couple days ago, my home boutique SA just texted me checking and said haven’t seen me in awhile. This was a first. She usually slow in responding text, sometimes didn’t even answer me back. I’m sure she knew that I shopped somewhere else

Honestly I feel more connected with the SA that got me a bag. I’m happy to stick with him but also felt bad with my home boutique SA (she’s sweet and friendly, but new).
I think it slightly depends on whether your out of state SA is in one of the tourist boutiques like Hawaii and LV
 
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Thank you! It is in tourist boutique
I saw your post in the Vegas thread. I also shop in Vegas (although I'm local). I have a friend who used to live in Vegas and moved away. She continues shopping in Vegas, but she has to fly in to pick up her QBs. Are you willing to do that? I personally prefer to deal with a local SA just because of that.
 
Thank you!! It’s the Rose Mexico.

So couple days ago, my home boutique SA just texted me checking and said haven’t seen me in awhile. This was a first. She usually slow in responding text, sometimes didn’t even answer me back. I’m sure she knew that I shopped somewhere else

Honestly I feel more connected with the SA that got me a bag. I’m happy to stick with him but also felt bad with my home boutique SA (she’s sweet and friendly, but new).
While it’s a beautiful bag, I personally wouldn’t see an exotic C offer as an indication that bags will be easy from an SA. Exotics are much harder for the store to move due to their price point (they’re also more difficult to flip, making them less desirable to resellers who shop at the store). It actually might hurt you in the near future for further bag offers (quota bags) because theoretically you’ve been “satisfied“ with a bag already so there is less priority to offer you another one over other clients who have gotten nothing. I would also suspect that you will now be offered quite expensive pieces (Diamond fine jewelry, leather RTW, full exotic non quota bags) to keep your profile fed. Keep in mind that since covid, the brand seems much more motivated to offer bags to clients who are physically in the store as a surprise and are less and less often calling remote clients with bag offers, even if they know that client is willing to drop everything and fly in tomorrow. This fact probably helped you get the original C offer but will hurt your chances of getting future offers unless you travel there in person often anyway.

That being said, I agree that your home SA likely contacted you because she saw you shopped elsewhere and made a very large purchase. While bag nominations are up to the SA, approvals come from the SM who will review your profile before signing off and it’s very likely, imo, that your recent purchase elsewhere will be strongly held against you by management. The best advice for *easiest* relationships with H is to choose one SA at one store and stay fiercely loyal. There are definitely cases where people successfully maintain two SA relationships at two different stores within the same country (US) however they probably spend enough to make it worth each store’s trouble of looking the other way.
 
... your home SA likely contacted you because she saw you shopped elsewhere and made a very large purchase....
Seen posts before saying the same but I am curious how the SA will notice. With them being so busy with customers at the boutique and other responsibilities, how would they find time to scroll through client profiles to see outside purchases?
 
Seen posts before saying the same but I am curious how the SA will notice. With them being so busy with customers at the boutique and other responsibilities, how would they find time to scroll through client profiles to see outside purchases?
If they don't have time to scroll through your profile then you're not on their mind aka aren't getting a bag anytime soon. As soon as your SA and the SM consider you for a QB, your profile will be looked at for approval.
 
Seen posts before saying the same but I am curious how the SA will notice. With them being so busy with customers at the boutique and other responsibilities, how would they find time to scroll through client profiles to see outside purchases?
OP said her SA is new so she probably doesn’t have too many clients yet and was likely checking her profile because an item came in that she thought OP might be interested in. Could have just been a Calvi or a rodeo or something but they check to see what you’ve gotten before to remind themselves if it fits your vibe (”oh that’s right Susie likes pinks, not greens” or “were these the right size orans that Susie asked about?”) or what she has on her bag/non bag wish lists.
 
While it’s a beautiful bag, I personally wouldn’t see an exotic C offer as an indication that bags will be easy from an SA. Exotics are much harder for the store to move due to their price point (they’re also more difficult to flip, making them less desirable to resellers who shop at the store). It actually might hurt you in the near future for further bag offers (quota bags) because theoretically you’ve been “satisfied“ with a bag already so there is less priority to offer you another one over other clients who have gotten nothing. I would also suspect that you will now be offered quite expensive pieces (Diamond fine jewelry, leather RTW, full exotic non quota bags) to keep your profile fed. Keep in mind that since covid, the brand seems much more motivated to offer bags to clients who are physically in the store as a surprise and are less and less often calling remote clients with bag offers, even if they know that client is willing to drop everything and fly in tomorrow. This fact probably helped you get the original C offer but will hurt your chances of getting future offers unless you travel there in person often anyway.

That being said, I agree that your home SA likely contacted you because she saw you shopped elsewhere and made a very large purchase. While bag nominations are up to the SA, approvals come from the SM who will review your profile before signing off and it’s very likely, imo, that your recent purchase elsewhere will be strongly held against you by management. The best advice for *easiest* relationships with H is to choose one SA at one store and stay fiercely loyal. There are definitely cases where people successfully maintain two SA relationships at two different stores within the same country (US) however they probably spend enough to make it worth each store’s trouble of looking the other way.
Thank you for the tips and insight from one of the OG , I’m fairly new to this so this is helpful! I really appreciate it.
 
If they don't have time to scroll through your profile then you're not on their mind aka aren't getting a bag anytime soon. As soon as your SA and the SM consider you for a QB, your profile will be looked at for approval.
OP said her SA is new so she probably doesn’t have too many clients yet and was likely checking her profile because an item came in that she thought OP might be interested in. Could have just been a Calvi or a rodeo or something but they check to see what you’ve gotten before to remind themselves if it fits your vibe (”oh that’s right Susie likes pinks, not greens” or “were these the right size orans that Susie asked about?”) or what she has on her bag/non bag wish lists.
Yes that makes perfect sense
 
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