Maintaining an H relationship

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Please focus on the title of this thread rather than each other, TY

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jenaywins said:
Just. Stop.



This.

@Justlikewhatilike - *please* stop clogging this thread with negativity. You've made your woes and dissatisfaction more than apparent on numerous occasions.

Everyone has and will continue to have a different experience with Hermes. That's it.
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While @Justlikewhatilike is reasonable for being frustrated, it stops short given the spirit of this thread. In this instance, what are the options to navigate or escalate this situation while still ‘maintaining an H relationship’? what guidance can be sought? What lessons have been learned to share with others? This is missing and negatively drags the forum along with her experience.
 
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Dear all, I have posted a few times in the past about my journey. My lesson is I went to a very competitive store, kept going with the relationship even thought I knew it wasn’t the right one, even tried to purchase a big ticket RTW item to spark some attention but got nothing. After a year of waiting and 15k into the store, I’ve decided to cut the losses and leave as I found my angel SA at a tourist city, I got offered, the same week as I started spending, my very first beautiful “quota bag”! I’m beyond excited and am ready to fall in love again and baby a new relationship. I find this relationship much more honest and open to any questions and discussions. I love this forum and I love all the suggestions you guys give. Thank you.
 
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It's easy to read justlikewhatilike's situation and think what she seems to have done wrong.
That can be a lesson to learn, or possibly to recognise if you find yourself going towards that slippery slope.
I despair that people need advice on how to treat others decently.
But that is not what this is thread is really about - it's really how to get a Birkin.

post#7058 expressing the response from her SA - the perspective from the other side
 
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neodoc said:
Dear all, I have posted a few times in the past about my journey. My lesson is I went to a very competitive store, kept going with the relationship even thought I knew it wasn’t the right one, even tried to purchase a big ticket RTW item to spark some attention but got nothing. After a year of waiting and 15k into the store, I’ve decided to cut the losses and leave as I found my angel SA at a tourist city, I got offered, the same week as I started spending, my very first beautiful “quota bag”! I’m beyond excited and am ready to fall in love again and baby a new relationship. I find this relationship much more honest and open to any questions and discussions. I love this forum and I love all the suggestions you guys give. Thank you.
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CONGRATS! Please share the bag. Also did you ever share your previous store experience with your new SA?
 
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WhiteBus said:
It's easy to read justlikewhatilike's situation and think what she seems to have done wrong.
That can be a lesson to learn, or possibly to recognise if you find yourself going towards that slippery slope.
I despair that people need advice on how to treat others decently.
But that is not what this is thread is really about - it's really how to get a Birkin.

post#7058 expressing the response from her SA - the perspective from the other side
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7058? Which thread?
 
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Crapples said:
CONGRATS! Please share the bag. Also did you ever share your previous store experience with your new SA?
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I did mention to my new SA that the shopping experience at home store haven’t been successful and I never felt valued even after spending 15k. I might have shared my experience in the location specific thread. My new SA indeed told me that I will unlikely get anything at my home store (im still far away) as it has been notoriously competitive.
 
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