Well I'm in the minority here, and I do not mean to sound snotty at all, but my boyfriend makes a great living, and he owns his own business and I own my own business, so we decided together to get his daughter a pochette accessories. She loves it, and if she gets all A's on this report card she is getting a small
Coach tote that she wants for about $120.
I don't mean to sounds *****y but I work my butt off and so does my boyfriend, and if we have the money and are privileged then I see nothing wrong with giving your child a sense of wealth. You don't see adults *****ing when they are in debt up to their eyeballs with houses, expensive cars, etc. Plus we have no debt, we pay only cash.
The reality is if you have the money there is nothing wrong with giving your children whatever you desire for them to have. And believe me, by boyfriends daughter is a very well grounded young lady, she does chores, which she gets paid for, she doesn't just get money handed to her, each chore has an assigned dollar value, if she completes the chores then she gets her money at the end of the month. She doesn't do anything out of the ordinary, she makes her bed, puts the dishes in the sink, etc. She gets $30 a month. She buys her own little things out of that. Clothes are the parents responsiblity so we buy those.
I just think if parents are priviliged then there is nothing wrong with giving your children nice things, just because some adults can't afford it doesn't mean your child shouldn't have it. And if I'm a millionaire when she turns 16 and she wants a BMW, then she'll have one. If she wants a used VW Beetle, which she loves right now, then she'll have one.
Not trying to offend anyone but the reality is people that make more money have nicer things, there is no reason why their children shouldn't also.