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DH and I watched a couple of Marie Kondo episodes on Netflix and we were both motivated to do some cleaning. I ended up going though my makeup/hair stuff, my clothes, and my bags.
DH made me bring all of my bags into our living room. He could tell I was overwhelmed, so he suggested sorting into 3 piles- Love, Like, and sell. After I did that he told me to pick 5 bags from the “like” pile to keep, bringing my total to 33 (3 of those are small crossbodies like the soho). I now have 13 bags to list! It feels good to have an organized closet.
I think from here I will speed date my other bags and sell/keep accordingly.
I’ve noticed that my other problem areas with “collecting” includes earrings, bikinis, makeup, and shoes.
I hope you all have a great week!
Great Hubby! I could not do this with my DH. He does not have patience and wants things done in a few minutes...
 
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I bet the jewelry costs a bundle too! The complete outfit may cost more than my entire collection!
I read a comment awhile ago on another thread where someone said they could take a chance on buying a $300 purse because it was cheap, and wouldn't be a big deal to donate if it didn't work out. They said it was just the cost of a nice dinner.
I don't know if that comment makes me want to laugh or cry... The price of a nice dinner... :shocked: I have obviously never had a nice dinner....:amazed: I have had really good food, though. :nuts:
 
I sold a bag! It was the one I had listed the longest. I only have 2 things that have been listed longer but they aren't bags. I'm so happy!
Wohoo! Congrats! What a great feeling it must be to get rid of something listed forever.

I get the shoe and earrings deal. I just got back from a drive to Nordstrom 90 minutes away and returned a PILE of items. I also returned many items to Bloomingdale's. I have two more pair of boots to sell and 4 more bags plus I just gave two bags to a friend. Speed dating is a great idea, and I think I need to do some of that with my shoes/boots!!
Wow, you went really far away to make returns. I bet it feels great to have it all out of the house.
Speed dating shoes is a great idea! I did it last year and got rid of a whole bunch more than I thought I would.

I read an article in the New Yorker and heard a segment on NPR today about overloaded Goodwill and consignment stores because of Kondo's store. Obviously, we are not along with our stuff!
hmmmm... makes me wonder how many great bags are making it into consignment and thrift stores.... ;)

At least it’s all out of the house! I’ve been using one bag a week since the beginning of January (Neverfull GM, Speedy B25, and Pochette Métis). This week is the start of the 4th bag (Chloe Roy Bucket). I find it to be much less stressful than when I would change out 2 to 3 times a week. I’ve been cheating a little in that I’m using bags I know I love to use often.
I also gave my Kusama Neverfull to my cousin for her 20th year celebration. So now I’m down to 11. Woo boo!
Wow! you're down to a really great number! Congrats! ( I don't know that I could go down so low.... hoarder that I am. :blush:
 
At least it’s all out of the house! I’ve been using one bag a week since the beginning of January (Neverfull GM, Speedy B25, and Pochette Métis). This week is the start of the 4th bag (Chloe Roy Bucket). I find it to be much less stressful than when I would change out 2 to 3 times a week. I’ve been cheating a little in that I’m using bags I know I love to use often.
I also gave my Kusama Neverfull to my cousin for her 20th year celebration. So now I’m down to 11. Woo boo!
Yes, much less stressful. The weather wasn't the best, but I wanted the stuff out, and in store returns are faster.
11 bags! That's terrific! I want to get back to 15, and I think I can do this. Well, maybe 16.
 
Oh no!! That’s terrible.

Thanks! He really helped hold me accountable, and I love him for that. That being said, he is also my biggest enabler when it comes to buying bags [emoji23]
It was sobering to see all the bags spread out in the living room. After sleeping on it I have a little more motivation to downsize my collection even further!

Thanks! Don’t be too hard on yourself, it took me over 6 months to be motivated to sell again. Watching Marie’s new show definitely helped.

Oh wow. That’s such a long drive to make returns, especially in the cold weather you’re having.
Good luck with your speed dating and sales!!

Putting the show on my list! I’ve already read the book a couple times.
 
Where is @LauraTracy ? Come back, LT! We miss you! Hope everything is ok with out fearless leader. Maybe we are behaving too well this month.... :graucho:

Yes, I miss LT, hope she is ok, and can come back soon. In fact, Joe misses her too (see the picture of his sad puppy eyes below).
 

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Wow! you're down to a really great number! Congrats! ( I don't know that I could go down so low.... hoarder that I am. :blush:

I’m happy with it at the moment but it’s not a number everyone is comfortable with. I would have a hard time figuring out which of your beauties should go/stay.

I’d also like to sell some SLGs but that’s another beast on its own lol.

Yes, much less stressful. The weather wasn't the best, but I wanted the stuff out, and in store returns are faster.
11 bags! That's terrific! I want to get back to 15, and I think I can do this. Well, maybe 16.

I love that free space in the car as your driving away
 
I don't know if that comment makes me want to laugh or cry... The price of a nice dinner... :shocked: I have obviously never had a nice dinner....:amazed: I have had really good food, though. :nuts:
I know.... the few times we spend over $100 I feel like we have certainly splurged, and that is a rare occurrence. And that number includes wine, tip and everything. I am not sure what you get at a restaurant that totals $300. lol
 
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