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That’s awful. Sorry to hear that. Perhaps it’s time to explore another SA?Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
I think a mini Kelly is easier right now than a b25, especially one in sellier. It still requires a 2-3:1 prespend though. I have never purchased a Constance but I have been offered some. I don’t think those should be too hard?Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
Hear! Hear!Thanks for sharing your update!
That is disappointing. Was your SA's tone 'i loved this jacket on you and if I were you, i'd get it!' or truly more of a quid pro quo statement?
Either way, sounds like you should return the jacket and keep saving for your dream bag. No one (even your SA) wins if you are staring at a pricey mistake in your closet - you'll resent yourself, him/her, and the process, and have less $ to spend when something you truly love (bag or otherwise) comes along.
I know this particular brand can have a unique effect on psychology, but I firmly believe your loyalty is to yourself (as other, wiser, more seasoned folk here have emphasized)![]()
Aww I hate to hear that. Don’t play games, especially when it comes to your money unless you have an unlimited supply of it!Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
Agreed all the way especially the returning the jacket part! Part of building a healthy relationship of any type is being honest and probably has more weight than spending money on something not really on the list!Thanks for sharing your update!
That is disappointing. Was your SA's tone 'i loved this jacket on you and if I were you, i'd get it!' or truly more of a quid pro quo statement?
Either way, sounds like you should return the jacket and keep saving for your dream bag. No one (even your SA) wins if you are staring at a pricey mistake in your closet - you'll resent yourself, him/her, and the process, and have less $ to spend when something you truly love (bag or otherwise) comes along.
I know this particular brand can have a unique effect on psychology, but I firmly believe your loyalty is to yourself (as other, wiser, more seasoned folk here have emphasized)![]()
so disappointing for you and sounds very confusing. Did your SA really like the jacket on you or was she hinting to you that you needed to spend more to get a bag offer? I thought she had hinted in a prior conversation at the old Madison that you would be getting a bag offer soon? If you are not sure about the jacket you can return it. Just be aware that you will most likely get a store credit and not a refund to your cc. If you end up with a store credit, check to make sure that you can apply that store credit to a bag if you are offered one in the future. So sorry it didn’t turn out the way you had hoped.Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
I’m so sorry. i did think she hinted that a bag might be possible for you based on your post prior to the appt. But, in any case, it is really up to the SM. IMO, Only buy stuff you love. Don’t buy stuff that you don’t. I agree with @Tykhe that the bag that’s scarce is the B25 sellier, but, in general, I thought the mini K is reserved for those with strong purchase histories. Or for those whose spending history is on an upward trajectory irrespective of QB. It might be less expensive in the long run to buy reseller if you decide that you don’t love the other lines. (I buy both boutique and reseller)Just an update to those who were keeping along with my story.
No success..
I went in today and looked around with my SA. When I brought up if there was any chance for a bag she was like “no that’s not how it works. You need a leather appointment, many weeks ahead of time after a request. Send me a text with the colors requested.” I said “not even a Constance?” She said “ You can request anything even a mini Kelly (which my eyes lit up because a mini is my dream). And I really suggest you buy that jacket you were looking at”
So I bought a coat that I probably shouldn’t have because I’ve been saving up for a bag. And the coat ate into those funds. Feeling pretty bummed and not hopeful that these efforts would help.
I think I struggle with the .. for lack of a better word.. lies? I understand that there are games to this, that it’s a business catered to people with lots of money… but previously she said a mini Kelly can’t be my first qb and now she implied it could. Then when I texted her my mini Kelly wishlist she brought up the Constance instead.
I don’t know how much I can keep playing these games, especially because I really don’t have so much money to throw the way I know others do… not sure if I should just give up
Really? Mini Kelly is easier to get now? I hope that’s what my SA has for me this weekend!I think a mini Kelly is easier right now than a b25, especially one in sellier. It still requires a 2-3:1 prespend though. I have never purchased a Constance but I have been offered some. I don’t think those should be too hard?
I have no idea . But it seems like there have been quite a few offered lately even just in this thread alone.Really? Mini Kelly is easier to get now? I hope that’s what my SA has for me this weekend!
Thanks @880.@speckle , @mimi 123 ,
i believe that H madison has hired new SAs, and i would recommend walking in and asking the concierge for an available SA. Re the SAs of longer tenure, at least mine have refused any new referrals, even of IRL friends and family, bc they cannot accommodate new clients. Good luck!