Ahh. . .the ring search. It was really fun in the beginning when you are trying to decide what style you like and playing "dress up" with all the rings. . .but when you pinpoint what you like and you start to TRULY look, that's when the pressure, stress, and heartache from disappointments come in! I went to all the Tiffany stores in the So Cal area (8; not including San Diego) and I also went to all the stores in Las Vegas (3) during my sola search in TWO WEEKS' time. Every store I went to, I had an SA do a search for me, and each and every time I would get inconsistent results - it drove me nuts.
My search is a little different from your (and whoop's) experience, so I can only imagine how frustrating it must be to not see the diamond or ring in person before the purchase!! I wish the two of you the best of luck! I am really glad the two of you are involving your bfs; this event is such a special event in your life, it only makes sense to share it with the one you're going to spend your life with.
Lec - when are you planning on buying the ring? Anytime soon or are you still taking your time deciding?