Yeah, that's good advice!
Turn the tables on them, ask them for their PF ID, and then YOU can PM them at your discretion, and say "Look, here I am!"
That's going to be my practice going forward! Woo hoo!
Great advice, moi et mes sacs!
I agree with this idea. But I do think if you state you are a member, be prepared for people to ask. Otherwise, don't say that you're a tpf member if you are not willing to share the information. If you say you won't give your name out, you appear fraudulent. But the advice that sarahloveslouis gives is a good idea.