Here's an odd case. I sold an item early last week and sent it out the next morning. The buyer is brand new to eBay and apparently joined to buy the item. She lives in the Bronx and she did not include her apartment number in her address. The postal carrier did not deliver the package to her building due to the missing apartment #. It comes up as "Insufficient Address" when you check the tracking number. She filed a buyer request and I have been exchanging messages with her for almost a week. The tracking indicates that the package will be sent back to me, however, it has not moved since the 8th. I have asked her multiple times to go to her post office because I believe they are holding it for her, but she has not tried to pick it up because the eBay tracking says the package will be returned to me.
I got the phone number of the Bronx post office from my local post office and have tried calling them but they don't answer their phone. She claims she still wants the item but she's not willing to make any effort to go get it even though it was her fault for not providing her full address to eBay. She seems to be under the mistaken impression that I will pay for shipping out of my pocket to send it to her again if USPS sends it back to me. To top it off, because she put in a buyer's request, eBay is sending me automated messages asking me to resolve the situation by Saturday or they may rule in her favor and refund her. I sent her yet another message asking her to go to her post office but I haven't heard back. Anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation?