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i have a buyer who is in the UK, bought my bag but hasn't yet paid for it and wants me to ship it to an address in the us. i spoke to someone at ebay and they said once the buyer pays i can go in and edit the ship to address. i have never done this. am wondering if anyone on the forum had done this?
I have bought many times from the US and had items shipped to an address within the US. I am in Canada. Your buyer needs to add the US address to her PayPal account before she pays. I have never heard of the option that e bay is giving you. I didn't think the seller could edit where they ship?
 
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i have a buyer who is in the UK, bought my bag but hasn't yet paid for it and wants me to ship it to an address in the us. i spoke to someone at ebay and they said once the buyer pays i can go in and edit the ship to address. i have never done this. am wondering if anyone on the forum had done this?



I have bought many times from the US and had items shipped to an address within the US. I am in Canada. Your buyer needs to add the US address to her PayPal account before she pays. I have never heard of the option that e bay is giving you. I didn't think the seller could edit where they ship?
You can do it, but I wouldn't recommend it. The buyer needs to change her "ship to" address on eBay and Pay Pal before paying. If you ship to a different address without her having done this, you lose your Seller Protection. Make sure she corrects the address before paying.
 
I have a buyer that claims her item is missing. The tracking number says it's been delivered. I asked her to check with her post man and she never gave me a clear answer if she did. She said the post man delivers so many packages that he isn't going to remember 1. I also asked her to go to her local post office and let them know it wasn't delivered and see if they can open a lost item case. She didn't give me a direct answer about that either, no case number or anything. Just that she hopes it shows up. It's now been 2 weeks and she wants a refund.
I don't want to refund her because for all I know she has the item. She said I should file a case with USPS. It was a $25 item shipped first class mail and it wasn't insured. I know I won't be getting any money back. Is there a way to prove the item is really lost? If it's really lost, I have no problem refunding her. I plan on asking her for more information before even offering a refund like the case number for the lost package, who she spoke with at the post office, and which post office she went to.
Does USPS investigate if the item says delivered but it wasn't? Does the case have to be opened by the sender? If this is mail fraud, I don't want to be involved in claiming it wasn't delivered if it was. Will USPS admit the package was lost?
Tia for any advice.
She will lose any claim. The tracking shows the item was delivered so you aren't responsible. She is the one who should follow up with the post office if she wants to find it. I don't think I would tell her this but the post office can check the tracking and find the gps location where it was scanned delivered. So if it was scanned delivered but delivered to someone else or not really delivered, they would know that. There are cases where a postal worker scans items as delivered when they are still at the post office. Most likely it was put in the wrong mailbox. I had this happen to a buyer recently and after over a week, he found it.
 
She will lose any claim. The tracking shows the item was delivered so you aren't responsible. She is the one who should follow up with the post office if she wants to find it. I don't think I would tell her this but the post office can check the tracking and find the gps location where it was scanned delivered. So if it was scanned delivered but delivered to someone else or not really delivered, they would know that. There are cases where a postal worker scans items as delivered when they are still at the post office. Most likely it was put in the wrong mailbox. I had this happen to a buyer recently and after over a week, he found it.

Thank you! That's good info to know. I didn't know they have gps locations.
Luckily she just messaged me that it arrived today! I didn't even respond to her original message yet. I was going to wait until the end of the night.
 
What to do?
So i purchased a item on 10/5. It's free shipping and the seller only has 3 feedbacks, I message her on the 11th and yesterday and still no respond. I try to file a DNR but I couldn't since she hasn't accept my money by paypal. So my question is can I cancel the transaction or whats my other options? Thank you.
 
I have a buyer that claims her item is missing. The tracking number says it's been delivered. I asked her to check with her post man and she never gave me a clear answer if she did. She said the post man delivers so many packages that he isn't going to remember 1. I also asked her to go to her local post office and let them know it wasn't delivered and see if they can open a lost item case. She didn't give me a direct answer about that either, no case number or anything. Just that she hopes it shows up. It's now been 2 weeks and she wants a refund.
I don't want to refund her because for all I know she has the item. She said I should file a case with USPS. It was a $25 item shipped first class mail and it wasn't insured. I know I won't be getting any money back. Is there a way to prove the item is really lost? If it's really lost, I have no problem refunding her. I plan on asking her for more information before even offering a refund like the case number for the lost package, who she spoke with at the post office, and which post office she went to.
Does USPS investigate if the item says delivered but it wasn't? Does the case have to be opened by the sender? If this is mail fraud, I don't want to be involved in claiming it wasn't delivered if it was. Will USPS admit the package was lost?
Tia for any advice.
you, as the sender, have to file the lost case with USPS and *hope* that she assists you on her end by following up with her postman/post office, too. the sender always has to file b/c they are the ones who purchase the original postage (which may/may not have insurance and etc. that can be refunded). start calling the post office/postmaster (in her city where it says it was delivered) immediately, time is of the essence when a package goes missing. the longer you wait, the less likely it is to be found. i think you have to wait maybe 14-21 days before you can officially file... until then you have to call daily, pretty much, and ask people to hunt down your item. if it's truly lost then tell her you'd be happy to refund after the USPS closes the case and issues you a refund for the insured cost or whatever. at least that way (if she's not legit) she doesn't get the item and money, too. but don't assume she's dishonest. i've had many items say 'delivered' and they were delivered... to wrong addresses and etc. postal people make lots of errors. 2 weeks is already a lot of time wasted and if it's truly lost you could probably file right away.
 
you, as the sender, have to file the lost case with USPS and *hope* that she assists you on her end by following up with her postman/post office, too. the sender always has to file b/c they are the ones who purchase the original postage (which may/may not have insurance and etc. that can be refunded). start calling the post office/postmaster (in her city where it says it was delivered) immediately, time is of the essence when a package goes missing. the longer you wait, the less likely it is to be found. i think you have to wait maybe 14-21 days before you can officially file... until then you have to call daily, pretty much, and ask people to hunt down your item. if it's truly lost then tell her you'd be happy to refund after the USPS closes the case and issues you a refund for the insured cost or whatever. at least that way (if she's not legit) she doesn't get the item and money, too. but don't assume she's dishonest. i've had many items say 'delivered' and they were delivered... to wrong addresses and etc. postal people make lots of errors. 2 weeks is already a lot of time wasted and if it's truly lost you could probably file right away.
Not correct.

When appropriate (i.e., when a package is eligible for an insurance claim), either party can file a claim. However in this case, with tracking showing delivery, no claim will be paid out.

I believe that there was a time (several years ago) when it did have to be the purchaser/sender who had to file a claim but that was changed a long time ago.
 
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What to do?
So i purchased a item on 10/5. It's free shipping and the seller only has 3 feedbacks, I message her on the 11th and yesterday and still no respond. I try to file a DNR but I couldn't since she hasn't accept my money by paypal. So my question is can I cancel the transaction or whats my other options? Thank you.

This happened to me. Most likely there's a problem with the PayPal email address that she used in the listing. She won't get paid until she fixes that.

You can go to your Pay Pal account and cancel the unclaimed payment.

https://www.paypal.com/selfhelp/article/FAQ637
"Here's how to cancel a pending payment:
  1. Log in to your PayPal account.
  2. Under the Summary page, locate the pending payment.
  3. Click Cancel under the pending payment.
  4. Click Cancel Payment.
Note:
  • You can only cancel an unclaimed payment that has a "Cancel" link next to it.
  • A pending payment is automatically canceled if the recipient doesn’t claim or accept it within 30 days.
  • If you paid with a debit or credit card and the payment is canceled, the money will be refunded to that card. It may take up to 30 days for the refund to appear on your card statement.
  • If you paid with your bank account and the payment is canceled, that money will be refunded to your PayPal balance. It may take up to 3-5 business days for the refund to appear on your PayPal account."
 
I just got into buying handbags to hopefully sell on eBay. I'm a long time established seller with a profitable toy selling account. Reading all these issues makes me nervous. It's easy to sell a used toy from the 70s in used condition but a handbag is a different level of expectation.
 
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I just got into buying handbags to hopefully sell on eBay. I'm a long time established seller with a profitable toy selling account. Reading all these issues makes me nervous. It's easy to sell a used toy from the 70s in used condition but a handbag is a different level of expectation.
It depends on the price range to some degree. If you don't know your brand well, you are going to have problems. Buyers are unpredictable though. I've sold purses that were fantastic condition that I got complaints about and others that were sorry looking that the buyers loved.
 
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Trust me, I understand . Every time I send out a vintage toy with a solid description and good photos I get nervous that they won't agree with my description and leave negative feedback. I've been at it for a while and haven't had a blemish on my account to date however it's bound to happen because you cannot satisfy anyone. I know my brands for handbags but not every way to authenticate a bag. I'd be more of a vintage seller.
 
Trust me, I understand . Every time I send out a vintage toy with a solid description and good photos I get nervous that they won't agree with my description and leave negative feedback. I've been at it for a while and haven't had a blemish on my account to date however it's bound to happen because you cannot satisfy anyone. I know my brands for handbags but not every way to authenticate a bag. I'd be more of a vintage seller.
I authenticate for Coach. We see lots of fake vintage Coach so be careful. Just because something is vintage doesn't mean it isn't counterfeit.
 
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I usually say just because it's dirty that doesn't mean is old...it's just dirty :). I'm trying to get someone to give me some info on a 1950s Saks Fifth Avenue handbag I just got. No one seems to be jumping at the question.
 
anyone w/ an answer, please? i sold an item via best offer and she contacted me within a few seconds with a lame cancel request that she initiated. i went ahead and agreed to the cancel request that she initiated. so why does her name and the item still appear under my feedback section, as though we could leave feedback for each other? i thought when the buyer asks for a cancel there should be no feedback option?
 
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