I would call my post office. Every time I've had a problem, I call and complain. One time the manager made the carrier come back for my packages. I just heard today that my carrier decided my route was too difficult so I'm going to get a new carrier. The temporary guy is wonderful, he scans my packages when he picks them up, but he doesn't think he will get the route since he doesn't have seniority.I am fed up with USPS in my new area. The postman just skips days that I ask for pickup whenever he feels like it. I now have two days worth of boxes waiting for pickup and tomorrow it will be three when I box up the new sales. Its gonna totally suck for me to have to take one hour out of my work day in order to head to the post office every day or every other day, but that's clearly what I am going to have to do, since he just determines when he will and wont come by. I would hate to see my rating go down, but thats gonna happen if I expect the service that they offer.
On a happier note, my ebay sales seem to be going well. I cant wait until September when I have more time to invest in my refurbishing and sales venture.
That annoys me too. If they don't give feedback within about a week, I'll ask for it but the request often goes ignored. I've also noticed that a lot of sellers will withhold their feedback until the buyer posts their own ( at least that has been my experience as a buyer). If the buyer paid on time I don't see why the seller wouldn't consider it a 5 star transaction.
If I take returns, I wait until the return period is up before I give feedback to a buyer unless she leaves me feedback first. I don't want to give good feedback and then have a problem return, and I don't want to remind them to return it if they hadn't thought of it. When I don't take returns, I wait a week to make sure they aren't going to complain. I used to give feedback immediately but I stopped that once I had a few problem buyers. I don't want to reward buyers who are PITAs.