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Lol! That made me laugh! Good one. To answer the question posed - yes I do. Myself and my daughter whe we go we like to look nice. In the winter months I always carry a nice bag. But I do the hair makeup and dress nicely with boots , jeans and sweater. In the warmer months we wear dresses - sandals etc. I def try to look nice when going to a boutique for shopping or even browsing.Unless I'm planning on dating my SA ...
i like clothes and all the various ways things work together, so going out is another opportunity to create. Some places you head to might pose restrictions on what might be appropriate but shopping is completely open. I see it as an opportunity to be as out there with fashion as you can be since you are heading to fashion central. Particularly at high-end stores. Most people working there love fashion and everyone shopping is there for the same thing. It's fun. I've met some interesting people shopping and it usually starts with comments about what one of us is wearing.
On the other hand it is cool to dress down, but it doesn't feel as engaged.
I always dress down to shop--no makeup, no jewelry, jeans/sweater, beat-up old loafers. This is because: (1) it's practical for trying on clothes without thoughtlessly staining/damaging them; (2) it seems absurd to me to waste energy attempting to impress people whose job is to help me and not vice-versa; and (3) I strongly prefer that salespeople leave me alone and let me think for myself until I actually ask for their help. But I'm a big introverted geek like that.
I always dress down to shop--no makeup, no jewelry, jeans/sweater, beat-up old loafers. This is because: (1) it's practical for trying on clothes without thoughtlessly staining/damaging them; (2) it seems absurd to me to waste energy attempting to impress people whose job is to help me and not vice-versa; and (3) I strongly prefer that salespeople leave me alone and let me think for myself until I actually ask for their help. But I'm a big introverted geek like that.
I don't think it's always about the way you dress. I often go out in a blazer, tee, jeans & flats with minimal make-up. I carry a designer bag every day of the week but most of the them are subtle like mulberry which has a small logo & so I'm not sure if its noticeable. Anyway, I find that once I start speaking people want to help. I'm quite well-spoken as we had elocution lessons at school. I've found many a times like when complaining or requesting something that way in which I speak rather than dressed has helped get me the outcome I wanted x