Do you feel you have to fix yourself up to go to the boutique?

Do you have to look a certain way to go to the boutique?

  • Anything goes! They are getting *my* money.

  • I feel like I should fix myself up and look nice to go to the boutique.


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I don't care too much. There is usually a familiar face at the boutiques i go to so i dont usually have a problem with service. If it is someone new or i dont know any of the SA's its their loss if they want to stereotype and judge my "worthiness" on what I am wearing. In saying that, i do carry a designer bag everyday of the week.
 
I used to care about dressing up because I wouldn't get service at boutiques otherwise - but that was the only reason I cared. I am 29 but I look like I'm 18 or 19, so I would get ignored if I wasn't dressed up and/or wearing designer stuff.

Now I've stopped dressing up because if they are merely judging me from what I am wearing, what kind of customer service is that?!? I am loyal to an amazing SA because he approached me when I wasn't wearing or carrying designer stuff and struck up a lovely conversation with me. He is not snooty at all. I now buy all my stuff exclusively from him.
 
Here's a trick I've learned...
Get yourself some nice diamond studs (they can be CZs) and maybe a nice ring or watch and wear those when you go shopping. Along with a nice handbag, as long as you're not wearing PJs or something you will look somewhat polished and not like a "poor person." I rarely wear make-up or do anything fancy with my hair other than put it up in a bun or ponytail, but if I have on a little bit of classy jewelry and a nice handbag I pretty much always get nice service, or at least I rarely get snubbed.

Also, realize that SAs are people too. Some are snobs, some are not and that will reflect on the way they treat their customers. They may judge me as a waste of time for not looking like a fashion model, but I'm judging them right back as a lazy SA for using their prejudiced judgments rather than their skills to do their job.
 
Yes I used to. Now I live somewhere where I feel totally out of place if I'm dressed up and have makeup on!! Crazy I went from fort Lauderdale land of the rich and famous to key largo Florida land of the even richer but no one knows and no one cares if your rich or famous!
 
I confess, I always dress like a bum when going to the mall but I confess I feel so self conscious sometimes. I almost feel like I have to buy so the feeling goes away.

I mean I have walked around Nordstrom and Bloomingdales dressed in sweats and screaming *stereotypical college kid*

They always treat me nicely though.
 
I realized that when I "dressed up" (hair, makeup, styled outfit with jeans), I buy more because the merchandise looks better on me when I look in the mirror. Uh oh.

I also feel more outgoing and happy and have a stronger desire to "celebrate" which translates into purchasing, even if it is just lunch or coffee or a treat.

If SAs react to how you look, that may be a reason. I wonder if there are stats to show whether or not dressed up people buy more.
 
No. Everytime I go shopping I don't necessarily plan on going to high end boutiques, I never dress up anyway. I wear casual clothes , jeans and a nice jacket most of the time.
I have rarely been ignored by SA's. I think that all that matters is a good education.
Say hello or good afternoon when entering a shop, goodbye when leaving even when you have not bought anything. It seems obvious but....
 
I always do. Part of it is that I am under 18 and want to be taken seriously, but most of it is for me. Back in the 1950s women dressed up to go anywhere. I think it's polite to dress nicely in public. The SAs work hard and it is respectful to dress nicely.
 
I used to care about dressing up because I wouldn't get service at boutiques otherwise - but that was the only reason I cared. I am 29 but I look like I'm 18 or 19, so I would get ignored if I wasn't dressed up and/or wearing designer stuff.

Now I've stopped dressing up because if they are merely judging me from what I am wearing, what kind of customer service is that?!? I am loyal to an amazing SA because he approached me when I wasn't wearing or carrying designer stuff and struck up a lovely conversation with me. He is not snooty at all. I now buy all my stuff exclusively from him.

Your SA is truly a gem. I can see that he has build an emotional connection with you, being genuine and best of all he doesn't judge a person how he or she wears. It's really sad when there are SAs that think only people who dressed up will spend more.
 
Your SA is truly a gem. I can see that he has build an emotional connection with you, being genuine and best of all he doesn't judge a person how he or she wears. It's really sad when there are SAs that think only people who dressed up will spend more.

Thanks, I agree he's a gem :) He just isn't concerned about commission, oddly enough. I mean, he likes it when people buy stuff but he also just gives me tours of things even when I tell him up front I'm not buying anything that day (he knows when I say that, that I mean it).

It's good that you dress normally for boutiques. It brings out the best SAs, because the ones who help you likely don't judge based on how dressed up a person is.
 
I try presenting myself well and have something designer on me but it's no big deal. The only time I've felt uncomfortable was when I went into a Chanel boutique in Hong Kong and everyone had Chanel's and Hermes'... I had my 3.1 Phillip Lim bag but I was wearing my Nike Frees... LOL! >.<
 
I think it is normal to look at least decent when going shopping especially to nicer stores. Running grocery shopping is different but I would personally not go into a store wearing sweats (except I once when by car in running clothes and shoes to a grocery store but that was a nice outfit too albeit sporty). I think that we should respect others by dressing up to the occasion too, not meaning fancy necessarily. However, I am European and in Europe everyone dresses up more, I also lived in CA for 9 years and no one here would go out to the streets wearing sweats and slippers. Here in Europe they also judge you by the way you look for sure, which is often wrong of course.

That said jeans and flats and clean hair and decent skin but not necessarily made up and done hair should suffice too in my opinion. Accessories do dress up a person more than anything else, that is very true. Wearing an expensive watch or piece of jewelry, a pair of nice shoes or a nice bag is often enough. Even though they might think it is strange and I would not do it myself because I would not feel comfortable, I think there is something trendy about someone dressed up in a quality jogging outfit and one expensive piece and mixing styles and/or price range works. All depends on the person.

SAs are, however, most often trained to judge customers when they enter the store to assess whether they are likely to buy or sadly here they are often not trained at all and would have no clue if someone is wearing an expensive watch for example.

On the flip side I only once visited an LV store locally and was treated very badly. At that time I was wearing a casual short suit, heels, had my hair done and makeup on. I promised myself to never return or buy anything there. I went with the intention to buy and when asking questions they told me to look online and decide, like how am I supposed to even try on the bags online?

I shop at Burberry next door to LV and even if I only go there twice a year, they greet me by name and treat me great. They also often compliment me on my outfit even if they are not designer or not their brand. All depends on the SAs but when going for an exchange or return I would probably dress up a bit more to receive respect for sure except if you are a return, well-known customer like I am at my local Burberry store.
 
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