Bag Insults - Ever Had One?

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Bakeacookie, always be true to yourself and wear only what you like no matter what people say :smile1:...People are so mean and jealous nowadays...It drives me nuts :mad:

I often get the same slap as you but I care less. I just keep my chin high and mind my own business. Next time you should go bigger...just to annoy the crap out of them!


I know the girl who commented is jealous of my bags. Always has been. But it's been awhile since I heard a comment directly from her. Usually I hear it through the grapevine.

I don't care. I spend my money the way I want to. It just happens to take form of vacations and designer handbags. They'd be even more jealous if they knew how much I have in savings too. Lol
 
I know the girl who commented is jealous of my bags. Always has been. But it's been awhile since I heard a comment directly from her. Usually I hear it through the grapevine.

I don't care. I spend my money the way I want to. It just happens to take form of vacations and designer handbags. They'd be even more jealous if they knew how much I have in savings too. Lol

I love they way you think and act :woohoo: Never allow others to influence your decisions or your lifestyle in any way and live your life as you like to. We are all born equals but it takes guts to be different and true to yourself!

All of us should be more aware that life's too short to waste it on being mean with one another. Instead I recommend leaving the jealousy alone and work harder to get what you want. Brains and money are made to be exploited and spent on pretty things which makes us happy :p:smile1:
 
I love they way you think and act :woohoo: Never allow others to influence your decisions or your lifestyle in any way and live your life as you like to. We are all born equals but it takes guts to be different and true to yourself!

All of us should be more aware that life's too short to waste it on being mean with one another. Instead I recommend leaving the jealousy alone and work harder to get what you want. Brains and money are made to be exploited and spent on pretty things which makes us happy :p:smile1: [\b]



My work philosophy. Lol
 
I've been told that my Coach bags were ugly and overpriced, and that they all look the same (uh, NO). One person even told me that they would never pay more than $20 for a bag. What's funny is that same person told me to hang onto a specific Coach I was carrying because she might want to buy it from me in the future. I don't know if she was expecting me to let go of it for $20, but if she was she can just keep steppin'! :cray:

...and I can't imagine carrying a $20 (new price) bag!

I guess she is saying you have good taste, and now wants to take advantage of your generosity. NICE.
 
"You should buy fake bags" LOL.

You may be showing off your expensive bags but at least you're not buying cheap a** fakes and trying to show off but without paying the $$! Not to mention feeding an industry that has no respect for intellectual property and does not follow fair labour and trade practices.


Yes she encourage me to get fake designer handbags and keep on convincing me like there's a top quality fakes bag that no one can tell that if its real or not.

Im not trying to be show off I simply enjoying the fruit of my labor. I work hard and save up for each and every handbag I got. I deserved to enjoy it right :)

This type of reaction from people is so annoying, especially in a country like mine where fakes are everywhere and people keep buying them all year long and blatantly wear them in public. I don't understand them! If you can't afford a designer item then raise money or simply wear something nice in your budget without being a copy and a joke to the work of these designers who worked all their life to create iconic pieces. I for instance have to raise money to buy something with a label but I would never wear fakes because I have appreciation and respect for the fashion houses out there. If I don't have the budget I work harder, I don't choose the easy way out. There is a saying in my country: I am too poor to wear crappy things! - fake things in this case - :laugh:

Anyways back to the subject: God forbid to have a designer bag or a shoe...then you're a snob and condescendent with people...I don't even take notice of people who think that I'm a snob just because I like my money to be spent on a designer item rather than on a junk of stuff which I'll eventually throw because they are of questionable quality. Friends like in this case who think so poor of me I prefer not to keep. I'm very on edge when it comes to my friends and I only have by my side those who understand me as a person and who are not so superficial to consider me a nasty person just because I have an addiction to expensive purses & shoes. Also don't forget that luxury is not for everyone, you have to have good taste to know to appreciate it and enjoy it! :smile1:


I live in Hong Kong and this friend often go to ShenZhen, China where she get her suitcase loads of counterfeit items. She just new pair fake designer shoes or bags everytime her stuff ripped or damage and shes very proud of it.

She always tells me that Im not using my money wisely but this is the very reason why I buy authentic item i am payin the QUALITY. Something I know can last for a very long time.

I'm not a rich person, im just ordinary person who have a job and like stuff like designer handbags and buy it with own money. It just really annoying when somebody like my friend come to me and say stuff like that. I mean I don't scold her when she buy a fake item which is good as stealing.
 
I am in the same as you! I'm not rich, I work very hard for my money but I would never buy fakes!

Another thing which bothers me is when people judge and think that you buy designer items just because you need these pricey things to feel special or better than them. No, I buy them because I love the quality and the story behind them. I was once accused that I am superficial and that I only live for shoes and material things. That person got a very snide remark from me and a dirty look!
 
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Oh since I started spending on me especially my bags, my friends and random strangers have felt the need to comment on my bags.

Friend to me in front of another friend
Her-tell her how much you paid for that bag!
me-why? neither of you paid for it.
her to friend- she's going NUTS with what she pays for bags

same friend with her lover at my house
her-where did you go last weekend?
me- hubby took me to coach to look for a bag
the look she gave me OMG it was horrible even the guy was taken back, he says "her husband took her to look for a bag, not a sex slave" LOL

With strangers they like my bags, they ask where I bought it, I tell them the designer and the comments that come after :rolleyes: always about what they think I paid for the bag or how expensive the designer is, did I ask for a commentary on my shopping habits?

"Her husband took her to look for a bag, not a sex slave." LOVE HIM!!!
 
Nope but I have had a few dirty looks, I'm guessing people are assuming I must be some snotty b**** just because I worked hard and bought myself a nice bag. It's alright they can hate. I'm personally an admirer when I see someone with nice things I just admire sometimes pay them a compliment. :)
 
Nope but I have had a few dirty looks, I'm guessing people are assuming I must be some snotty b**** just because I worked hard and bought myself a nice bag. It's alright they can hate. I'm personally an admirer when I see someone with nice things I just admire sometimes pay them a compliment. :)
I am the same...I compliment others a lot! Why be jealous? I am a bag lover...I love mine, and admire others' bags as well!
 
I'm in college (age 17) and my friends always say "where do you get your money from?" in a shocked way. I usually just say "I dont know" and change the topic, I hate talking about money, it's boring.
 
So sorry for the ladies who got 'ugly' comments, it's never right to behave that way.

I didn't have any of the stuff said to my face about my bags, but I am now in a peculiar situation. I live in a city where there are no brand boutiques. In fact, the closest Celine corner is 550 miles away in the capital and the closest Chanel boutique is in another country.

So, I didn't have any big designer name bags at all for a long time. Couple of years ago I bought my first fancy bags - Mulberry and Alexander Wang - while travelling. By that time I have been dreaming of Celine Luggage for a year or more. I waited and waited and did not give in to the temptation. At the time there were many Chanel fakes around, and of course LV, but no Celine look-alikes because, as I mentioned, we're not a fashion-forward city :)

So, last October after certain family and work trouble I finally caved in and bought a Celine Luggage Mini. I had to organise the purchase from the boutique in Italy and had it sent to me from my mother's friend, so even that wasn't easy. Finally I got my baby. I couldn't have been happier.

When the courier arrived, I was at the office, and of course I needed to unwrap it :) I work for the IT company, so my colleagues are mostly male, but there are a few girls too. When guys saw the bag, they became curious and Googled it. After that office erupted in chaos. Some guys started to count how many fancy car tires they could get for it, others compared it to the top Apple Macbook Pro laptop, one of the guys instagrammed the bag with the price next to it, and so on.

My friend (male) who knew how I wanted the bag went into this sarcastic mode, like, 'you should put a throw on the taxi seat before putting your Celine there' and 'if you get out and it rains, you should take off your coat and cover the bag' and stuff like that.

But the craziest part was next day. One of the guys gets into the office ALL EXCITED and shouts 'I just saw a girl with your bag!'. I am of course very skeptical, but he says, I even got a picture of her because I knew nobody would believe me. And he proceeds to show me the photo on his phone of the girl with a very fake Celine Luggage Mini outside of our office. I am all down at that point because it looks like I've waited for too long and now there are fakes sold in city.

But even that is not the end of the story :) that night I am coming out of the office and I bump into that girl with the fake in the building entrance! She looks at my bag, makes a disgusted face and sound and then goes to the street where she sits down into a very posh Lexus waiting for her. But her bag is so obvious a fake, that in addition to the fancy Lexus does not make sense at all.

So, now it's the sport of the people in my office to come and tell me of the stores where they spotted the fakes being sold, at what price and that I "shouldn't go there".
 
I bumped into a friend earlier and the first thing that came out of her mouth was : "A new bag again? How much did it cost?". I tried my best to avoid her reiterating questions about my bag until I finally gave in and told her the price (after pestering me for the umpteenth time). Her response- "wtf! Just for a stupid bag? I can buy like xxx amount of xxxx with $xxxx you just spent... Blah blah blah.." I just winked and said "by all means, go ahead. I won't judge you if you do so" :P
 
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