Bag Insults - Ever Had One?

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I bumped into a friend earlier and the first thing that came out of her mouth was : "A new bag again? How much did it cost?". I tried my best to avoid her reiterating questions about my bag until I finally gave in and told her the price (after pestering me for the umpteenth time). Her response- "wtf! Just for a stupid bag? I can buy like xxx amount of xxxx with $xxxx you just spent... Blah blah blah.." I just winked and said "by all means, go ahead. I won't judge you if you do so" :P

I love your response. Very classy :giggles:

I sometimes get remarks from a co-worker about one of my designer bags. Actually, I think she is under the impression that I splurged on just this ONE bag and doesn't know that I've been collecting bags over a decade or so. She would say things like, "Where did you get your bag?" insinuating that it might be a knock-off and "Do you have any money in your wallet or did you spend it all on the bag?". Another time, she saw my bag on sale at a designer website like Bluefly and Gilt. She emailed me a photo with the price and said, "Whoa! An investment!" Clearly, she can't seem to get over that I spent over $1K on a bag. I just try to ignore her comments. But, at the same time, I can't comprehend why she is fixated on what I spend my own money on when she likes luxury items herself. She has a Rolex, drives a luxury vehicle, wears substantially sized diamond jewelry, etc.

Which is why I love your response and I hope you don't mind if I use it one of these days ;)
 
I haven't really had one in real life, mainly because in my family and in the office, they know DH and I make good money so they don't wonder why or how I buy my bags. If anything, they've asked why I don't buy more :laugh: In the office, the worst is already some teasing from fellow executives who are male (and majority of them are male, since IT is still a male-dominated industry) - saying my handbags cost more than the one-month salary of some of the people who work under us (that's a gross exaggeration since those who work under us make more in a month than what one of my premier bag costs). I chalk it up to ignorance since they actually aren't so aware about how much a designer handbag costs - they just know it costs quite a lot.


Online, I've experienced being questioned about buying a handbag made of rubber (my Furla Candy bag), which was not an insult (at least I did not take it as such), but more of I guess someone not understanding. Well I usually respond that it's my money so... :D And then add on that I wouldn't judge others who choose to buy rubber bags as well, as it's their money too (which is a similar response as what someone else here also gave). And honestly - the Candy cost so little compared to my other premier bags that it was really almost refreshing (and yes, it was much cheaper probably because it's made of rubber). My Candy is also a summer bag, more for the beach, plus for rainy days (which we get a lot of regardless of season). It's not like I use that bag for the office. :P


I think nobody should care so much about how much a handbag one person is carrying costs unless the person is deeply in debt - even then, that might be none of our business altogether as it's their problem.
 
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Yes! Someone at Starbucks asked if my Balenciaga was a Guess bag. I didn't feel like explaining that it wasn't so I just nodded my head yes and she asked if it was about $50. I love how undercover my bal is but I was shocked it was mistaken for Guess. Oh well!
 
Yes! Someone at Starbucks asked if my Balenciaga was a Guess bag. I didn't feel like explaining that it wasn't so I just nodded my head yes and she asked if it was about $50. I love how undercover my bal is but I was shocked it was mistaken for Guess. Oh well!

Seriously?! :laugh: I don't think I ever would have mistaken a Bal for a Guess. Never mind, at least YOU know it's a Bal (which makes it a great bag, IMHO). Just enjoy her in good health :D
 
Seriously?! :laugh: I don't think I ever would have mistaken a Bal for a Guess. Never mind, at least YOU know it's a Bal (which makes it a great bag, IMHO). Just enjoy her in good health :D


I was with a coworker during lunch who knows my bag obsession, and he got a kick out of it!! He could tell I was dying inside lol
 
I was shopping at Holt Renfrew with my Mahina L and there was this family with a really fat woman, her husband and their baby. The woman gave me a nasty look and told her husband "Look at that Asian whore and her fake LV, so trashy!" I was so taken aback I turned to the closest SA and asked her if I really looked trashy. The SA said no, you look pretty today! The family left right after but I still could hear the husband saying "Why do you always have to be so mean with people you don't even know?"
 
I was shopping at Holt Renfrew with my Mahina L and there was this family with a really fat woman, her husband and their baby. The woman gave me a nasty look and told her husband "Look at that Asian whore and her fake LV, so trashy!" I was so taken aback I turned to the closest SA and asked her if I really looked trashy. The SA said no, you look pretty today! The family left right after but I still could hear the husband saying "Why do you always have to be so mean with people you don't even know?"


Oh wow - that is NASTY!!! So, so nasty. Using the w word on an absolute stranger, saying it so loudly - plus saying (incorrectly) that you were carrying a fake? Jeez. Some people.
 
I was shopping at Holt Renfrew with my Mahina L and there was this family with a really fat woman, her husband and their baby. The woman gave me a nasty look and told her husband "Look at that Asian whore and her fake LV, so trashy!" I was so taken aback I turned to the closest SA and asked her if I really looked trashy. The SA said no, you look pretty today! The family left right after but I still could hear the husband saying "Why do you always have to be so mean with people you don't even know?"


Wow! Good thing you handle it very well.
 
Thanks. Looking back, I should have came up with a snarky remark such as "If you would read more fashion magazines, maybe you'll know that it's a $2000+ high end handbag." Sometimes, I think that friends are great to have around, but they always try to sneak in an discreet insult when they can. I guess that applies to anyone really.



I get shocked sometimes when it comes to nasty comments as well. This guy is beyond rude..Maybe next time you should reply with something like, "For a guy, you surely do have a lot of time to talk about purses and girly things. Shouldn't you be watching sports instead of....Wait, are you gay?"


:shocked: :rofl:
 
I was shopping at Holt Renfrew with my Mahina L and there was this family with a really fat woman, her husband and their baby. The woman gave me a nasty look and told her husband "Look at that Asian whore and her fake LV, so trashy!" I was so taken aback I turned to the closest SA and asked her if I really looked trashy. The SA said no, you look pretty today! The family left right after but I still could hear the husband saying "Why do you always have to be so mean with people you don't even know?"


I don't quite understand why you feel it was important to mention the lady was 'really fat'?

Either way, she was beyond rude so you should just ignore her and enjoy your bag :smile1:
 
I just experienced this over the weekend at the mall. Not purse, but my brand new Chloe ballet shoes.
The SA was like...oooh was that H&M?? I saw some there and I'm dying to try one. Well I was polite when I said, aww no, this is from Chloe. After that her attitude changed. She basically said to me, Ohh they looked the same, but sure yours must be NICER (apply sarcastic tone here), then she walked away.
I'm so used to snide comments over my bags and shoes I never care anymore. But I still don't understand sometimes the need for some people to say that. She could have stopped after saying they looked the same. Why the insult towards the end?

I also got a lot of "you could feed a village buying that Chanel", "ooh poor husband" --> this used to irked me so much because my DH never bought me bags or expensive shoes because he thinks they are a waste of money. So having ppl said that to me p&%^d me off even more because I bought them all myself.
 
I just experienced this over the weekend at the mall. Not purse, but my brand new Chloe ballet shoes.
The SA was like...oooh was that H&M?? I saw some there and I'm dying to try one. Well I was polite when I said, aww no, this is from Chloe. After that her attitude changed. She basically said to me, Ohh they looked the same, but sure yours must be NICER (apply sarcastic tone here), then she walked away.
I'm so used to snide comments over my bags and shoes I never care anymore. But I still don't understand sometimes the need for some people to say that. She could have stopped after saying they looked the same. Why the insult towards the end?

I also got a lot of "you could feed a village buying that Chanel", "ooh poor husband" --> this used to irked me so much because my DH never bought me bags or expensive shoes because he thinks they are a waste of money. So having ppl said that to me p&%^d me off even more because I bought them all myself.


The shoes incident - I think at some level, the SA felt embarrassed that they ended up NOT being H&M (more expensive) while she assumed they were H&M. Also, the fact that SHE was looking at the H&M while you have Chloes. I know it seems ridiculous and shallow, but some people would feel insecure and bad about that, so I think her reaction reflected that.


As for the Chanel and other expensive bags/shoes comments - DH gets me some as gifts for special occasions sometimes (because people usually get other people things they love for occasions), but same as you, I pay for most of my handbags with my own money (I've always strived to be financially independent, even if DH makes more than enough for our family). You made me realize that there have been times people assume DH buys me all my bags but more in a teasing manner (usually no malice, at least I felt) - and yes, even if no malice was intended, I would feel irked myself just because I take pride in my financial independence.
 
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