Bag Insults - Ever Had One?

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Well this isn't so much of an insult of my bags but more of me, the person carrying the bags.

My coworker, who sits in the cubicle right across from me currently sells fakes to some people at the office. I've heard about this and was lucky that she never approached me.. thus far. Then one day I decided to carry my Speedy to work, and there she was, in my cube. She starts off by saying how she has a business of selling "designer" items that her brother gets from China. What they do is their own business, I won't judge nor do I really care. But what insulted me was when she said, Oh I didn't tell you about this business before, was because I'd assume you'd have contacts back "home" that would supply you with this kind of stuff (and proceeds to point at my bag and uggs). I'm sorry but it's one thing to insult someone's material goods, and it's another to assume based on one's nationality that they are a nation of fakes. Grrrr!



How rude of her!! That would bother me too.

Maybe show this to her next time she says something;

http://www.tribune242.com/news/09232...tbags_news_pg1

http://www.harpersbazaar.com/magazin...nst-fakes-0109_

http://www.usatoday.com/money/indust...rfeit_CV_N.htm

The Fight Against Fakes


Child labor, terrorism, human trafficking: Buying counterfeit designer goods is hardly harmless, Dana Thomas reports


By Dana Thomas
Harpers Bazaar

Every time I give a talk on the luxury business today and I get to the subject of counterfeiting, the same thing happens. The room grows absolutely silent as I put forth the facts: It is estimated that up to 7 percent of our annual world trade — $600 billion worth — is counterfeit or pirated; that fakes are believed to be directly responsible for the loss of more than 750,000 American jobs; that everything from baby formula to medicine is counterfeited, with tragic results; that counterfeiters and the crime syndicates they work with deal in human trafficking, child labor, and gang warfare; and that counterfeiting is used to launder money, and the money has been linked to truly sinister deeds such as terrorism.
No one utters a word, not a sound, as I recall the raid I went on with Chinese police in a tenement in Guangzhou and what we discovered when we walked in: two dozen sad, tired, dirty children, ages 8 to 14, making fake Dunhill, Versace, and Hugo Boss handbags on old, rusty sewing machines. It was like something out of Dickens, Oliver Twist in the 21st century.
Then I read the following passage from my book, Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Luster. "'I remember walking into an assembly plant in Thailand a couple of years ago and seeing six or seven little children, all under 10 years old, sitting on the floor assembling counterfeit leather handbags,' an investigator told me... 'The owners had broken the children's legs and tied the lower leg to the thigh so the bones wouldn't mend. [They] did it because the children said they wanted to go outside and play.'"
The audience gasps. From time to time, I see tears too. And afterward, I always hear the same response: "I had no idea." Always. Most consumers believe that buying fake goods is harmless, that it's a victimless crime. But it's not. It's not at all.
In the five years that I have been writing about this issue, I have seen two things happen: The illegal enterprise is getting stronger and more professional, and the consumer is slowly but surely becoming more aware.
 
I never assume based on ethnicity or clothing that someone's bag isn't authentic.

I know several multi-millionaires that dress like street people because it's 'comfortable'.

And I've heard that well-off people in Asian countries (because of the small homes and high incomes for the well-educated class) buy a lot of authentic luxury goods (one or two high-end items rather than 12-15 cheaper ones that they don't have room to store).

I read Deluxe also and it's a great book that anyone interested in designer goods should read - will put you off fakes if you weren't already.
 
On the selling in the office issue - we aren't allowed to sell anything in my office. If your child's school gives you candy to sell you can put it on your desk and sell it to anyone who approaches you, but not ask anyone to buy it.

I'd suggest you report to your HR department that someone is selling illegal goods on company time - If you are in the US or Canada they are required to investigate this even if it's an anonymous note.

I bet you'd love to see her and her fake bags escorted out by building security when she gets fired!
 
And furthermore, nothing annoys a rude person more than when you agree with their insult about you.


Absolutely! I do this all the time. Usually I say something like "Wow I'm so glad you told me that! You're SO KIND! I was just wondering what you thought of my bag! Now I don't have to live with the horrible suspense of not knowing your valuable opinion. Now maybe you'd be kind enough to tell me what school your fashion degree is from?"
 
I've had my fair share of them!

Whenever I bring a new bag into work the girls are always ready with snide remarks, commenting on how designer bags are so over-priced and how knock-offs are the exact same, if not better, and blah, blah, blah! I don't have a problem with people living within their budget, but if I can afford a nice bag, do not try to make me feel bad about my purchase.
 
I've had my fair share of them!

Whenever I bring a new bag into work the girls are always ready with snide remarks, commenting on how designer bags are so over-priced and how knock-offs are the exact same, if not better, and blah, blah, blah! I don't have a problem with people living within their budget, but if I can afford a nice bag, do not try to make me feel bad about my purchase.


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Tell them at least you aren't supporting child labor and terrorism by buying fakes!!
 
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Tell them at least you aren't supporting child labor and terrorism by buying fakes!!

Haha I should! It's unfortunate though, I doubt most of them would even care.

I forgot to meantion, my manager is the worst of them all! She has every knock-off under the sun and then passes judgement on me when I have a new bag.

*sigh*
 
My family knows I buy Coach. I do not buy any other brand. I usually go for the leather ones, which we all know are more expensive, usually. But I do not go into detail or even speak about my purchases to my family. They just do not understand. So, while they know they are expensive, they don't know how much I pay...or how many I have.
My sister...who is not in a position to buy bags like I can...nor knows anything about bags other than Target or what not...
Burst out with this little gem on Thanksgiving...in front of everyone!
"I went and looked at those Coach bags at the mall, and the price of them almost made me sick! $250 for a purse?!"
Which of course, is almost the cheapest price you could pay for a Coach...while she said this, I was holding my $500 Gathered Sophia. Right in front of her.
I felt SO humiliated! I started stuttering, because she had never talked to me like that, or called me out like that. Like I said, it is no secret what I carry, but I do not go into specifics. The last thing I needed was my father knowing how much I pay for my bags.
My husband looked at me and jumped to my defense, saying how we have enough funds to purchase any bag, really...but that I loved Coach! :D

Then (and here is the kicker)...she goes:
"I want a Dooney & Burke! Or a Juicy!"

:faint:

What do you say to that? LMAO!
It kind of repaired my feelings...in a rude mean way. LOL!
 
My family knows I buy Coach. I do not buy any other brand. I usually go for the leather ones, which we all know are more expensive, usually. But I do not go into detail or even speak about my purchases to my family. They just do not understand. So, while they know they are expensive, they don't know how much I pay...or how many I have.
My sister...who is not in a position to buy bags like I can...nor knows anything about bags other than Target or what not...
Burst out with this little gem on Thanksgiving...in front of everyone!
"I went and looked at those Coach bags at the mall, and the price of them almost made me sick! $250 for a purse?!"
Which of course, is almost the cheapest price you could pay for a Coach...while she said this, I was holding my $500 Gathered Sophia. Right in front of her.
I felt SO humiliated! I started stuttering, because she had never talked to me like that, or called me out like that. Like I said, it is no secret what I carry, but I do not go into specifics. The last thing I needed was my father knowing how much I pay for my bags.
My husband looked at me and jumped to my defense, saying how we have enough funds to purchase any bag, really...but that I loved Coach! :D

Then (and here is the kicker)...she goes:
"I want a Dooney & Burke! Or a Juicy!"

:faint:

What do you say to that? LMAO!
It kind of repaired my feelings...in a rude mean way. LOL!


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WOW. Not cool. Do you think she did that on purpose? Wonder why, if so. Has she seemed jealous in the past? Sounds like she wanted to throw you under the bus...but then turns around and makes herself look silly by saying she wants a DB and Juicy...which start at $200 right?

What did you say when she said that about wanting those bags?

I did not learn how jealous my sister was of me until a few years ago. I was shocked and hurt. I didn't know it but my mom was always talking about me, in a very proud way. So that didn't help and I think she took it wrong when my mom shared my successes with her. I talked with my mom and asked her to be careful about sharing certain details with my sis.

The thing is I did nothing to cause her to be envious. I have never been the type to flaunt, just the opposite actually. It really hurts when you learn some one you love is jealous of you.

Maybe your sis has an underlying envy going on.
 
She said it really nasty-like...and I know I am not "over analyzing"...as some women are apt to do.
But yes, that is what confused me...she said she wanted a D&B or Juicy, and they are around that same price! She did not say anything about wanting a Coach, which made me seem to think she was a little jealous, and maybe she felt if she DID have the money she would not buy Coach anyway (since I carry it). I do not think she wants or cares to have a nice leather bag...my bets are she would head straight for siggy anything (D&B or Juicy). If she had not been so nasty to me that day, I would have gladly given her my Fluffy, which I bought before I got into Coach two years ago. I don't use it anymore.
I don't know...this whole situation was weird and uncomfortable. It's sad that the only place I can share my happiness is TPF...my friends don't understand, family doesn't...DH is fine with it, he likes me to be happy.
And buying Coach makes me very very happy...I like having nice things. Not to impress, but to have quality, beautiful bags. Coach is like art to me. :D
If I wanted to impress, I'd buy an LV, Chanel or Hermes...not saying you all buy those to impress, just saying that is why I would buy them, personally. But even though I could, I don't; I would rather drool over them from afar. LOL! Coach is perfect for me, price wise and looks wise.
I just dislike that I was put into that position, as I am sure all of you would be too. It hurts...and family doesn't seem to think about that.
 
The "worst" insult ever, though it was totally innocent, was my from my husband to our friend who buys lots of designer bags. She was carrying a huge shiny black Chanel bag. He was helping her with her coat and picked up her bag as we were getting ready to leave (as he such a gentleman). The bag was huge and heavy. As he handed it to her, he asked why she carries a giant trash bag around. I was mortified, though it did kind of look like a trash bag - LOL.
 
I was at my dentist's office and the assistant picked my MJ up off the window ledge to put it somewhere else and commented, in a disgusted tone: "OMG, this is soooo heavy! Why do you carry this?" I was surprised that, first she would touch my purse without asking, and secondly that she felt she could make any kind of unsolicited negative comment to me, all while I'm sitting in her employer's chair. But I managed to just smile (a beyotchy smile, of course) and said, "Thank you. It's Marc Jacobs". She just blinked back and looked confused. I felt that not only did I not need to defend myself to her, but by acting as if it was a compliment I let her know that I was going to play.
 
This wasn't exactly an insult but I felt kind of weird about it. I have a cousin who's really into fashion like me and into designer items and also very into just going through anything I have and trying it out when she's over (neither one of us has a sister so we've always been like sisters and she takes liberties like that). I'm not really into heavily logo-ed bags but she is (and unfortunately for the flash of it, not even the design) so she was trying all my bags and when she got to my Alexander Wang and Balenciagas she was like "Do people know what this is? How can you tell it's Alexander Wang or Balenciaga?" and when I said well unless you know about them most people probably cant" and she almost immediately threw those back on my bed like "Oh". I felt bad for those bags (sometimes things I like a lot feel like people to me lol) I still love them even though they're not flashy! I just thought that was a little rude
 
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