Beenburned, I replied in red.
But having you ship to an address that's not her address on ebay or paypal record might cost you the case. (Where is your seller located? What state?) I'm concerned that if she claims non-receipt but tracking shows delivery to a zip code other than her own, you'll be stuck.
the seller created the shipping label herself and said, on the label, her name was "Nancy Bxxxxx" I'm not saying her full name for security reasons. The real Nancy in New York reached out to me via FB and said she got a purse and doesn't know why. Which tells me the scammer on Ebay is just using a random address and name and saying it is her address, when really the seller is living in Hong Kong and trying to scam buyers with fakes. She couldn't return the bag to Hong Kong or wherever this scammer lives probably because her fake address was used on Ebay for return purposes.
For this reason, I sure hope you funded the payment with a credit card because for the wrong shipping address, I'm not sure you'll win the dispute unless ebay sees a pattern in the seller's behavior.
I sure did. AND I shouldn't be punished for returning a bag to an address that the SELLER provided me. The shipping label was pre created and all I did was print it out. That is her problem, I returned it to the address provided by her. Ebay also said this was a first time seller and the money I paid has not been issued to the seller. New sellers will have a hold on their money until 21 days pass and everything is cleared. In this case, it wasn't cleared because I requested a return. So, technically Ebay has my money since Ebay has not released the money to the seller.
Next, regarding Nancy who is freaking out about her name and address being "known," she's unnecessarily worried. Without knowing Nancy's last name, I'm guessing that it's not an uncommon name and the seller probably googled (for examplar purposes) "Nancy Smith, Albany, NY" and used that name and address as the shipping address.
They gave me Nancy's full name, I just didn't mention it here because I don't think that it is right to say her full name. Nancy's full name was uncommon, it's a long last name, not Smith. haha