thanks....... it is nice to hear that other LVPHH exsist out there....
yes, maybe yours and mine are related somehow
thanks....... it is nice to hear that other LVPHH exsist out there....
...lol...too funny....I should share that with him.....
Pinki that is soo sweet of him. Maybe I went overboard this year with LV by getting 5 bags so dh is worried that I may want 5 new bags a year which I will not. I tried to explain that they are classic and that they will never go out of style and the prices go up a few times a year. Infact I chose iconic bags for the most part because I knew that they would be in style year after year after year. One bag a year sounds super reasonable. Maybe I will share your little story with dh and he maybe he will go for that one LV treat a year.
I just hate feeling so guilty over my handbags and hiding purchases.
Six year of marriage and listening to him say, "how much does that cost? You don't need that. Why would you want that?" about anything I buy (and I mean anything) has made me very resentful. He can buy a new computer every couple of years, and have TIVO, and have his little toy GPS, but if I buy something he gets really annoyed. Well, this year I bought 5 handbags and may buy one more (I want a Chloe paddy). I have also been eying an epi mandarin wallet. He argues that everything he buys "we can all enjoy." Yeah, but we really didn't need the TIVO. We have a VCR. It works. And trust me I will never use your little GPS because we almost NEVER GO ANYWHERE where we will get lost. And I always say, "oh, that's good." about his purchases. Now I don't tell him I bought anything until I break it out. Then he looks a little stunned and says, "Oh, OK," since now he knows better to say anything else.
I am teaching him slowly that it is better to let me buy a few things for myself than it is to get divorced.
Pug, DH used to say I should get 1 LV in every 5 years and gave me hard time anytime I got one. Anytime he said it's the last one sweety, I said yes it is .I made him believe that I agreed with him but I keep buying anyway. I told him those bags make me happy, that breaks his heart such as he can't make me happy, I told him he makes me happy too and even happier if you get it for me . So now he just support my habbit infact bought them for me sometime
Tips: Let him thinks that he won the case . Tell him that the bags make you happy. What hubby don't want to have happy wife. Happy wife = happy hubby . My DH knows it very well