Hi CatCat!
The bag looks beautiful... looks pretty smooth in the pics - and I think in general the leather of the fall season is thicker and maybe a bit harder than the previous seasons. I bet it will soften up with use - and age beautifully. It's not really a light color though - which may be a good compromise for you, wanting a lighter color but having kids and not being able to have a very light one.
I'd say live with it for a bit and see how you feel. I always stuff the bag with my stuff and parade around my apartment, trying it with different outfits (TMI?). This helps me figure out whether the bag feels like "me."
Try the hand massage, but hold off on products if you think you'll return it. I think the 50 Euros for return is better than the cost of keeping a bag that you are less than crazy about, you know?
The bag looks beautiful... looks pretty smooth in the pics - and I think in general the leather of the fall season is thicker and maybe a bit harder than the previous seasons. I bet it will soften up with use - and age beautifully. It's not really a light color though - which may be a good compromise for you, wanting a lighter color but having kids and not being able to have a very light one.
I'd say live with it for a bit and see how you feel. I always stuff the bag with my stuff and parade around my apartment, trying it with different outfits (TMI?). This helps me figure out whether the bag feels like "me."
Try the hand massage, but hold off on products if you think you'll return it. I think the 50 Euros for return is better than the cost of keeping a bag that you are less than crazy about, you know?