2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[BowieFan1971]

I picked up a denim Dooney and Bourke bag at a craft shop . It is not getting counted as it is a bit of a project bag . It has a bit of a musty smell and some scuffs on the handles but I think it is from how it was stored as the inside and outside fabric is pristine. I don’t think it has ever been worn. Any suggestions?

Show a pic or two of what you are talking about. I restore bags.

 

[whateve]

I picked up a denim Dooney and Bourke bag at a craft shop . It is not getting counted as it is a bit of a project bag . It has a bit of a musty smell and some scuffs on the handles but I think it is from how it was stored as the inside and outside fabric is pristine. I don’t think it has ever been worn. Any suggestions?

There is a Dooney rehab thread and a Coach rehab thread, which is more active than the Dooney thread.

Dooney rehab thread

I bought this bag for $13. It is so gross. It is so dirty but at least it doesn't smell! That was my biggest fear. After starting to soak it I realized the extend of grime. I decided to put it in the washer in a pillowcase. The water in the sink was a funky brown. Ugh why do people let their...

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Coach Rehab and Rescue Club

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[dcooney4]

There is a Dooney rehab thread and a Coach rehab thread, which is more active than the Dooney thread.

Dooney rehab thread

I bought this bag for $13. It is so gross. It is so dirty but at least it doesn't smell! That was my biggest fear. After starting to soak it I realized the extend of grime. I decided to put it in the washer in a pillowcase. The water in the sink was a funky brown. Ugh why do people let their...

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Coach Rehab and Rescue Club

Continued from here: http://forum.purseblog.com/coach-clubhouse/coach-rehab-and-rescue-club-624452-674.html Clubhouse thread for all things related to rehabbing your Coach finds!

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Wow thank you!

 

[dcooney4]

Show a pic or two of what you are talking about. I restore bags.

 

[cowgirlsboots]

I bought a New Lock , the larger sized hobo flap, in 2011 and you guys are right that the price started with a 2, but I think my larger size flap was closer to 3 than 2, but the more typical sized one was in the range you’re remembering
I am waiting on more navy paint to arrive to transform the white one to the darkest of blues. It feels oddly small to me, because I used to have the bigger one. But I love it and I only paid $350 on eBay.
My first Lotuff working tote arrived today. That is some serious craftsmanship!!!!! I will take pics at some point if anyone is interested.

The large size has been tempting me, too. The cheapest price I found so far was 700 Euro... a bit steep... I keept looking out for it.

 

[cowgirlsboots]

Thank you everyone for the warm, well wishes! I’m doing a little better today. It’s going to take sometime for me to feel totally better but a bit is better than nothing.

As for selling items, do you ever have a feeling when someone is going to be a problem? I received a page of questions from this buyer. When I looked at her profile, the reviews she left were oddly meticulous. She was making comments about one sellers listings being $5-10 bucks more expensive than comparable listings. I didn’t feel comfortable selling to her so I blocked her.

You made a wise decision to block this buyer, I think. We don´t need any trouble, especially none that comes with prior notice. Some people are just nitpickers at heart and ready to look for thesmallest fault instead of enjoying the beauty of an item. Once sellers start asking questions I find inappropriate for an item- especially when it is vintage- I end the conversation. I mean I don´t have anything to hide, but vintage is vintage. Not broken and dirty, but not brand new with a warranty, either.

 

[cowgirlsboots]

I get those feelings, but honestly I'm terrible at predicting who is going to cause problems. Most of my problem people are those who just did a BIN without any communication.

Oh, I experienced this, too. Once a lady bought a vintage dress without any prior conversation and after a month she left me devastating neg feedback- again without any prior conversation. The dress was totally fine... maybe it didn´t fit or suit her?

 

[SakuraSakura]

You made a wise decision to block this buyer, I think. We don´t need any trouble, especially none that comes with prior notice. Some people are just nitpickers at heart and ready to look for thesmallest fault instead of enjoying the beauty of an item. Once sellers start asking questions I find inappropriate for an item- especially when it is vintage- I end the conversation. I mean I don´t have anything to hide, but vintage is vintage. Not broken and dirty, but not brand new with a warranty, either.

I'm sorry to hear that, cowgirlsboots! Of course we don't have anything to hide but I think some buyers expect perfection at the fraction of the price. While I'm incredibly throughout with my descriptions, I don't like dealing with people who nit-pick. As I continued to flip through the love notes she has given, I saw her discussing private details of transactions such as people having delays in shipments and using their names. It was W E I R D. I'm picky when it comes to my items but it is when there is lots of undisclosed, noticeable wear on something.

 

[SakuraSakura]

Hey everybody. I've been quiet for the last few days due to having a mental breakdown. While I'm feeling a little bit better today, I'll be taking sometime off of regular life stuff even if it means I'll be a bit behind. My Natasha is set to arrive today (is it sad that is one of the things that's keeping me going?) Thank you for all the warm wishes. Having a mental breakdown really showed me who is there and who isn't going to be there for me. I messaged a friend about being at the hospital by myself but all she could say was "I see." Is it bad that I'm angry about it? Is it unfair of me to be so furious? I could see that she was online yet chose to not be there for me.

Things have been intense guys. I'm thankful that the people who truly matter have stepped up.

 

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Hey everybody. I've been quiet for the last few days due to having a mental breakdown. While I'm feeling a little bit better today, I'll be taking sometime off of regular life stuff even if it means I'll be a bit behind. My Natasha is set to arrive today (is it sad that is one of the things that's keeping me going?) Thank you for all the warm wishes. Having a mental breakdown really showed me who is there and who isn't going to be there for me. I messaged a friend about being at the hospital by myself but all she could say was "I see." Is it bad that I'm angry about it? Is it unfair of me to be so furious? I could see that she was online yet chose to not be there for me.

Things have been intense guys. I'm thankful that the people who truly matter have stepped up.

SakuraSakura, I am sorry to hear you had a breakdown. I am glad you got some help, you mentioned you’re at the hospital. You are courageous and strong. I was going to suggest reaching out to someone you could talk to. Yes, it’s absolutely disappointing the friend you reached out to wasn’t helpful. Try again, pick someone else. You are normal and the way you’re feeling/reacting is normal too. Be gentle to yourself. You never know what’s going on with people’s lives, right now. Lots of people have worries we know nothing about.

MBMJ Natasha is fantastic - I carried mine yesterday when I took my oldest DS to get a covid test. Best wishes for good physical and mental health to everyone.

 

[SakuraSakura]

SakuraSakura, I am sorry to hear you had a breakdown. I am glad you got some help, you mentioned you’re at the hospital. You are courageous and strong. I was going to suggest reaching out to someone you could talk to. Yes, it’s absolutely disappointing the friend you reached out to wasn’t helpful. Try again, pick someone else. You are normal and the way you’re feeling/reacting is normal too. Be gentle to yourself. You never know what’s going on with people’s lives, right now. Lots of people have worries we know nothing about.

MBMJ Natasha is fantastic - I carried mine yesterday when I took my oldest DS to get a covid test. Best wishes for good physical and mental health to everyone.

When I was at the hospital, I realized that all I really truly wanted was somebody to talk to and care about me. I felt really scared sitting there by myself, with the potential of being there for hours. I ran. I went out for lunch and read some books. While I’m doing better today I think this is a sign to seek out a therapist again. I need to remind myself that this isn’t weak, what I’m feeling is real and I require kindness just like any other human being.

 

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When I was at the hospital, I realized that all I really truly wanted was somebody to talk to and care about me. I felt really scared sitting there by myself, with the potential of being there for hours. I ran. I went out for lunch and read some books. While I’m doing better today I think this is a sign to seek out a therapist again. I need to remind myself that this isn’t weak, what I’m feeling is real and I require kindness just like any other human being.

I think that is a fundamental human need - to feel connected and loved. You have a high level of self awareness. I think therapists are wonderful, another resource to help us stay healthy. You are strong and you are resilient. Be gentle and kind to yourself. You’re doing great things to look after yourself. I spent an hour shovelling snow, I think I’m good for exercise today!

 

[whateve]

Oh, I experienced this, too. Once a lady bought a vintage dress without any prior conversation and after a month she left me devastating neg feedback- again without any prior conversation. The dress was totally fine... maybe it didn´t fit or suit her?

I had a buyer leave me negative feedback because the tracking showed her item was delivered but she hadn't gotten it. She was new to ebay so I guess she didn't know. Ebay removed the feedback for me. A few days later she got the purse and loved it, but couldn't leave any more feedback.

 

[whateve]

Hey everybody. I've been quiet for the last few days due to having a mental breakdown. While I'm feeling a little bit better today, I'll be taking sometime off of regular life stuff even if it means I'll be a bit behind. My Natasha is set to arrive today (is it sad that is one of the things that's keeping me going?) Thank you for all the warm wishes. Having a mental breakdown really showed me who is there and who isn't going to be there for me. I messaged a friend about being at the hospital by myself but all she could say was "I see." Is it bad that I'm angry about it? Is it unfair of me to be so furious? I could see that she was online yet chose to not be there for me.

Things have been intense guys. I'm thankful that the people who truly matter have stepped up.

I'm so sorry to hear this. Are you suffering from depression or anxiety, or both? If people haven't experienced these types of conditions for themselves, they don't know what you are going through. I hope you take some comfort in knowing that your pocket friends care about you. Also take comfort in knowing that these feelings won't last forever, even though it may feel like that when you are in the middle of them.

 

[papertiger]

I picked up a denim Dooney and Bourke bag at a craft shop . It is not getting counted as it is a bit of a project bag . It has a bit of a musty smell and some scuffs on the handles but I think it is from how it was stored as the inside and outside fabric is pristine. I don’t think it has ever been worn. Any suggestions?

My mother would have recommended leaving outside in dry weather, I can hear her say "let it air".