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When I was at the hospital, I realized that all I really truly wanted was somebody to talk to and care about me. I felt really scared sitting there by myself, with the potential of being there for hours. I ran. I went out for lunch and read some books. While I’m doing better today I think this is a sign to seek out a therapist again. I need to remind myself that this isn’t weak, what I’m feeling is real and I require kindness just like any other human being.
Mental illness is every bit as valid as physical illness and something you should definitely seek professional help for. Go and get what you need and don't feel shy or embarrassed to do so. :hugs:
 
Oh, I experienced this, too. Once a lady bought a vintage dress without any prior conversation and after a month she left me devastating neg feedback- again without any prior conversation. The dress was totally fine... maybe it didn´t fit or suit her?

I once had a buyer who asked my if my (originally very, very expensive) sheepskin apres ski boots were real fleece inside. They were less than 1/8 of the price worn only twice. I told her they were the reverse of the sheepskin, so yes. She returned them and gave me neg feedback stating that I lied and that they were wool inside. I had goat hair Emus and Uggs at the time so 3 pairs seemed excessive, even for me. They happened to be my oldest.

I was like, whah? What does she think wool is? The outside of the bl**dy sheep(skin).

I had a no returns policy then, I just think she tried them on and they didn't fit and couldn't think of another reason. It was so nuts, she was so nuts, I was worried she'd cut them with scissors or something. She was off the scale with the :cray:

Basically, they are my in Scotland snow boots now and I'm so pleased she retuned them. My father had bought them in Stockholm (although they're Italian). We get so much snow and ice and thank goodness I still have them.
 
When I was at the hospital, I realized that all I really truly wanted was somebody to talk to and care about me. I felt really scared sitting there by myself, with the potential of being there for hours. I ran. I went out for lunch and read some books. While I’m doing better today I think this is a sign to seek out a therapist again. I need to remind myself that this isn’t weak, what I’m feeling is real and I require kindness just like any other human being.

Yes you do.
Is there a counselling service at your uni? They are usually very good, understand the pressures and it shouldn't cost you so much as going privately.
 
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Are you suffering from depression or anxiety, or both? If people haven't experienced these types of conditions for themselves, they don't know what you are going through. I hope you take some comfort in knowing that your pocket friends care about you. Also take comfort in knowing that these feelings won't last forever, even though it may feel like that when you are in the middle of them.

Yes, I do suffer from anxiety and depression. I think I need to freshen up on my diagnosis though as it could be borderline personality disorder. It's really heavy. I feel like I'm shovelling snow but in a blizzard and I don't even have a shovel to speak of. I do take great care in that, thank you everybody. <3 I'm so blessed to have such lovely purse friends.
 
Yes, I do suffer from anxiety and depression. I think I need to freshen up on my diagnosis though as it could be borderline personality disorder. It's really heavy. I feel like I'm shovelling snow but in a blizzard and I don't even have a shovel to speak of. I do take great care in that, thank you everybody. <3 I'm so blessed to have such lovely purse friends.
I am so so sorry to hear you are suffering. I'm thinking of you.
 
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I went to counseling services when I was 18-19 in college, because a year later i still was not done with grieving a loss that happened right before college. I remember how much it sucked to have a broken heart and hysterics on the daily when my peers were loving college and could never relate. I'm so sorry for you l, dear girl. I am here if a stranger is of use.. You can private message if you like and I'll try to offer empathy over message or over the phone. But my experience with counseling services was great, and it really helped.
 
I went to counseling services when I was 18-19 in college, because a year later i still was not done with grieving a loss that happened right before college. I remember how much it sucked to have a broken heart and hysterics on the daily when my peers were loving college and could never relate. I'm so sorry for you,dear girl. I am here if a stranger is of use.. You can private message if you like and I'll try to offer empathy over message or over the phone. But my experience with counseling services was great, and it really helped.

I'm so sorry <3 I hope you're in a better place now. Thank you for offering an ear and your heart. I feel so stupid that I am not over a loss ( losses) I sustained a year ago. I'm also receiving no empathy from my family, the people who waited for the police to leave to tell me they could've hospitalised me as a vague threat. It's made things even worse to the point that I'm questioning what I'm doing with my life.
 
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Cute bag!

Wipe it down with baby wipes with light pressure, cloth and handles, inside too, until the wipes come clean . After it dries, use Kiwi conditioning oil with a cotton ball, comes in a tin. Helps cover scratches. If there are still scratches, use a permanent marker that matches to cover them. Apply and wipe to remove excess. Apply another application of conditioning oil just over the marked areas. If there is still a musty smell after wiping it down, put some baking soda in a sock and place it inside the bag, close the bag and put it in a pillow case in an open space.
 
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Cute bag!

Wipe it down with baby wipes with light pressure, cloth and handles, inside too, until the wipes come clean . After it dries, use Kiwi conditioning oil with a cotton ball, comes in a tin. Helps cover scratches. If there are still scratches, use a permanent marker that matches to cover them. Apply and wipe to remove excess. Apply another application of conditioning oil just over the marked areas. If there is still a musty smell after wiping it down, put some baking soda in a sock and place it inside the bag, close the bag and put it in a pillow case in an open space.
Oh wow ! Thank you! I will go look for the kiwi conditioning oil.
 
Hey everybody. I've been quiet for the last few days due to having a mental breakdown. While I'm feeling a little bit better today, I'll be taking sometime off of regular life stuff even if it means I'll be a bit behind. My Natasha is set to arrive today (is it sad that is one of the things that's keeping me going?) Thank you for all the warm wishes. Having a mental breakdown really showed me who is there and who isn't going to be there for me. I messaged a friend about being at the hospital by myself but all she could say was "I see." Is it bad that I'm angry about it? Is it unfair of me to be so furious? I could see that she was online yet chose to not be there for me.

Things have been intense guys. I'm thankful that the people who truly matter have stepped up.
So sorry to read this. I hope you can focus on yourself and your healing. Cherish and thank the people who show they care about you and don't even think about the other stuff right now.
 
I once had a buyer who asked my if my (originally very, very expensive) sheepskin apres ski boots were real fleece inside. They were less than 1/8 of the price worn only twice. I told her they were the reverse of the sheepskin, so yes. She returned them and gave me neg feedback stating that I lied and that they were wool inside. I had goat hair Emus and Uggs at the time so 3 pairs seemed excessive, even for me. They happened to be my oldest.

I was like, whah? What does she think wool is? The outside of the bl**dy sheep(skin).

I had a no returns policy then, I just think she tried them on and they didn't fit and couldn't think of another reason. It was so nuts, she was so nuts, I was worried she'd cut them with scissors or something. She was off the scale with the :cray:

Basically, they are my in Scotland snow boots now and I'm so pleased she retuned them. My father had bought them in Stockholm (although they're Italian). We get so much snow and ice and thank goodness I still have them.
Sometime the universe is looking out for us.
 
I'm so sorry :heart: I hope you're in a better place now. Thank you for offering an ear and your heart. I feel so stupid that I am not over a loss ( losses) I sustained a year ago. I'm also receiving no empathy from my family, the people who waited for the police to leave to tell me they could've hospitalised me as a vague threat. It's made things even worse to the point that I'm questioning what I'm doing with my life.
Sending you warm hugs dear!!
 
Yes, I do suffer from anxiety and depression. I think I need to freshen up on my diagnosis though as it could be borderline personality disorder. It's really heavy. I feel like I'm shovelling snow but in a blizzard and I don't even have a shovel to speak of. I do take great care in that, thank you everybody. :heart: I'm so blessed to have such lovely purse friends.
My husband suffers from clinical depression that, along with a messed up family/childhood, lead him to develop an addiction to alcohol and drugs in his teens. It took him a long time to get help and a long time and 2-3 attempts to get truly sober, but his experience and the counseling he received (along with the right meds) have helped him to become one of the most stable and empathetic people I know. He has had some dark days in his life, but he got help and did the work and has arrived at a place where he is happy and HEALTHY. He is never afraid to ask for help and see his therapist for “tune ups” when he needs them because he realizes that he is not “cured,” he is in maintenance mode.

if you think you may need to talk to a professional, then you need to talk to a professional. JUST GO! Sometimes we have things to deal with that cannot be best handled alone. No shame in that. You are worth it!!!! Your health and well-being are worth it!!!! Just GO!!!!

Sending big hugs!
 
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