2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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I picked up a denim Dooney and Bourke bag at a craft shop . It is not getting counted as it is a bit of a project bag . It has a bit of a musty smell and some scuffs on the handles but I think it is from how it was stored as the inside and outside fabric is pristine. I don’t think it has ever been worn. Any suggestions?
I rely on baking soda for musty smells. One of those "fridge & freezer" styles that opens on both sides. Put it inside the bag, close the bag up, and leave it alone for maybe a week. Fingers crossed, because it sounds perfect for a project bag!
 
When I was at the hospital, I realized that all I really truly wanted was somebody to talk to and care about me. I felt really scared sitting there by myself, with the potential of being there for hours. I ran. I went out for lunch and read some books. While I’m doing better today I think this is a sign to seek out a therapist again. I need to remind myself that this isn’t weak, what I’m feeling is real and I require kindness just like any other human being.
Seeking out help is ABSOLUTELY not weak! It is a strong thing to do. I hope you can quickly be connected to a therapist who will provide the support you need during this difficult time.
 
I once had a buyer who asked my if my (originally very, very expensive) sheepskin apres ski boots were real fleece inside. They were less than 1/8 of the price worn only twice. I told her they were the reverse of the sheepskin, so yes. She returned them and gave me neg feedback stating that I lied and that they were wool inside. I had goat hair Emus and Uggs at the time so 3 pairs seemed excessive, even for me. They happened to be my oldest.

I was like, whah? What does she think wool is? The outside of the bl**dy sheep(skin).

I had a no returns policy then, I just think she tried them on and they didn't fit and couldn't think of another reason. It was so nuts, she was so nuts, I was worried she'd cut them with scissors or something. She was off the scale with the :cray:

Basically, they are my in Scotland snow boots now and I'm so pleased she retuned them. My father had bought them in Stockholm (although they're Italian). We get so much snow and ice and thank goodness I still have them.
I know it was the opposite of funny at the time, but that is a hysterical story! "What does she think wool is?" :lol:
 
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here’s my mini natasha
The MBMJ Natasha was such a great style of bag. Mine is a regular size, but I just love your mini. It's super cute!

Here's a photo of my Natasha. I bought it back in 2012, before I knew anything about bags. I had been to a physical therapist for shoulder issues, and she told me I ABSOLUTELY had to start carrying a crossbody handbag. I was, like, "What's a crossbody handbag?" (I had only ever carried shoulder bags before.) The Hubster and I were on our way to San Francisco for our annual shopping & culture vacation :biggrin: so I bought this with Nordstrom Notes.

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I wore them together. The bag is just sitting on my lap. I really went for it, full on 1966 mod-a-Go-Go :lol:

If you look closely, you can just see.

I'm wearing white/red/blue wool trousers (from an vintage 1960s trouser/pant suit) olive cashmere jumper, red/green/blue woolly hat, Gucci green/blue/red/black scarf, Gucci bag to match, black chunky DMs, Hermes Chaine D'Ancre rg stud earrings and a little extra cross-body for my water bottle.
Wow! That sounds like a fantastic outfit. Thank you for the detailed description. :flowers:
 
Yes, I do suffer from anxiety and depression. I think I need to freshen up on my diagnosis though as it could be borderline personality disorder. It's really heavy. I feel like I'm shovelling snow but in a blizzard and I don't even have a shovel to speak of. I do take great care in that, thank you everybody. :heart: I'm so blessed to have such lovely purse friends.
:hugs: I'm sorry you're going through such a difficult time right now, I hope you connect with a s good therapist soon.:heart:
Seeking out help is ABSOLUTELY not weak! It is a strong thing to do. I hope you can quickly be connected to a therapist who will provide the support you need during this difficult time.
I agree!
The MBMJ Natasha was such a great style of bag. Mine is a regular size, but I just love your mini. It's super cute!

Here's a photo of my Natasha. I bought it back in 2012, before I knew anything about bags. I had been to a physical therapist for shoulder issues, and she told me I ABSOLUTELY had to start carrying a crossbody handbag. I was, like, "What's a crossbody handbag?" (I had only ever carried shoulder bags before.) The Hubster and I were on our way to San Francisco for our annual shopping & culture vacation :biggrin: so I bought this with Nordstrom Notes.

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The colour is beautiful!
Here's a photo I took for another thread of my Coach vintage collection. It's not the best picture; you can't see the details of some of the bags, especially those in the back.
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Beautiful vintage collection!!! :loveeyes: :love:
 
The MBMJ Natasha was such a great style of bag. Mine is a regular size, but I just love your mini. It's super cute!

Here's a photo of my Natasha. I bought it back in 2012, before I knew anything about bags. I had been to a physical therapist for shoulder issues, and she told me I ABSOLUTELY had to start carrying a crossbody handbag. I was, like, "What's a crossbody handbag?" (I had only ever carried shoulder bags before.) The Hubster and I were on our way to San Francisco for our annual shopping & culture vacation :biggrin: so I bought this with Nordstrom Notes.

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Crossbodys and backpacks are back saviours. I have a really hard time finding a crossbody that fits my odd body measurements and MBMJ are one of the only brands that work for me!
 
It sounds like you are having a really hard time. Be kind to yourself. There is no time limit to getting over lose and grief. No everyone understands. Living through a global pandemic means we are all on a heightened state of anxiety that throws things up in the air. It makes us more vulnerable to other issues in our lives. Finding someone you can talk too is definitely a good idea. Family often don’t understand as they are too close to see it. The right friend or professional at your university will listen.

I’ve not always had it simple myself. Sometimes flashbacks of things that happened 20 years ago still come back to haunt me. Recently, I had to open up to my line manager at work who is also a very good friend as I really wasn’t feeling myself and was really distracted. Talking and time helped.

My DH is a wonderful man. We got a puppy recently even though he’s not had a dog before because I love dogs. He loves her now. He also just bought me a new bag just because he’d noticed I “needed cheering up”.

Surround yourself with people and things that bring you joy. It will help you through the bad times. Finding the joy in life is not always easy but it helps. Sending you hugs.
Seeking out help is ABSOLUTELY not weak! It is a strong thing to do. I hope you can quickly be connected to a therapist who will provide the support you need during this difficult time.


I'm horrible at multi-quoting messages but thank you everyone. I understand that by now my words of gratitude may be trite but you guys have been a big help. I'm so grateful that I can turn to you all and ask for the help I've been needing. Today was slightly better but still difficult. Talking has been helping me get by. I lost a scarf the other day while I was eating dinner and nearly broke into tears when I was told they couldn't find it. Luckily they were able to locate it ( then I was told my "scarf is a wrap." Really? Same thing.)
 
Here's a photo I took for another thread of my Coach vintage collection. It's not the best picture; you can't see the details of some of the bags, especially those in the back.
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Whoa, what a collection! Thank you for sharing it with us. I've been putting mine out too to remind myself that there is beauty in everything.
 
The MBMJ Natasha was such a great style of bag. Mine is a regular size, but I just love your mini. It's super cute!

Here's a photo of my Natasha. I bought it back in 2012, before I knew anything about bags. I had been to a physical therapist for shoulder issues, and she told me I ABSOLUTELY had to start carrying a crossbody handbag. I was, like, "What's a crossbody handbag?" (I had only ever carried shoulder bags before.) The Hubster and I were on our way to San Francisco for our annual shopping & culture vacation :biggrin: so I bought this with Nordstrom Notes.

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I smile when you post pics of your Natasha because the colour is wonderful @ElainePG!
Here's a photo I took for another thread of my Coach vintage collection. It's not the best picture; you can't see the details of some of the bags, especially those in the back.
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Great Coach collection @whateve! The black bag with the top handle in the bottom left corner catches my eye - is it a Court bag, it looks similar to a Cassie? I was peeking at the Cassie online tonight. :lol:
 
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I smile when you post pics of your Natasha because the colour is wonderful @ElainePG!

Great Coach collection @whateve! The black bag with the top handle in the bottom left corner catches my eye - is it a Court bag, it looks similar to a Cassie? I was peeking at the Cassie online tonight. :lol:
Thanks! Yes, that's a court. It's actually navy. The room was too dark when I took the photo.
 
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