2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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How is everyone doing / feeling mentally and activity wise on shopping their closets vs. buying new bags?

I did get the black tote but, I’ve wanted that for a few years now. That being said, I do really want to try to stick and stay with enjoying my collection not buying new “just because”.

We’re only 38 days in. Lol! How are you feeling about your goals and your resolve to enjoy what you have vs. buying more? Are you on mission? Or are you lost in the bag searching / hunting / buying abyss?

I’m ok. I did placed orders on MM good bye sale, but I don’t think I’ll receive them soon. I won’t count them in until I receive them though. I also got a Chanel flap on a whim. [emoji28] It’s a cute jersey flap. Darn me for falling for an exorbitantly priced clothe flap, but it’s so cute and has a nautical theme which I secretly love, although I’m still too shy to wear my Chanel to work. But I’m sure it’s so cute and would be perfect for my weekend. With a small push from my friend, I slipped down that slippery slope. [emoji28] That’s my January in.

For February, one of my favorite local bag brand has a sale before raising the price [emoji28], so I jump on one of their bags I’ve been eyeing since last year. That’ll be my only February count, I hope.

I have a plan for March. It’s my birth month and I can reap a special birthday discount from another local brand on a bag I’ve been eyeing since 2 years ago so... if nothing wrong, I’ll probably get that bag.

I have a trip in April and plan to get that hammock I’ve been dreaming about since I saw it last year.

That’s my plan for this year. I hope that’s all until the end of the year. January and February buys are not in my plan, but March and April are. I hope nothing else come up. [emoji28]

I did get 2 out so far. Like sold them. Not donate or give away like I usually do. That’s quite a boost for me mentally. [emoji4]
 
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I’m ok. I did placed orders on MM good bye sale, but I don’t think I’ll receive them soon. I won’t count them in until I receive them though. I also got a Chanel flap on a whim. [emoji28] It’s a cute jersey flap. Darn me for falling for an exorbitantly priced clothe flap, but it’s so cute and has a nautical theme which I secretly love, although I’m still too shy to wear my Chanel to work. But I’m sure it’s so cute and would be perfect for my weekend. With a small push from my friend, I slipped down that slippery slope. [emoji28] That’s my January in.

For February, one of my favorite local bag brand has a sale before raising the price [emoji28], so I jump on one of their bags I’ve been eyeing since last year. That’ll be my only February count, I hope.

I have a plan for March. It’s my birth month and I can reap a special birthday discount from another local brand on a bag I’ve been eyeing since 2 years ago so... if nothing wrong, I’ll probably get that bag.

I have a trip in April and plan to get that hammock I’ve been dreaming about since I saw it last year.

That’s my plan for this year. I hope that’s all until the end of the year. January and February buys are not in my plan, but March and April are. I hope nothing else come up. [emoji28]

I did get 2 out so far. Like sold them. Not donate or give away like I usually do. That’s quite a boost for me mentally. [emoji4]
Would love to see all of these new bags you’ve added and are adding! Especially the Chanel and I’m curious about your local brands!
 
Thank you... that is such useful information! I agree: the PM would definitely be the correct size for me. I don't need yet another mini bag (I think I have too many, and may even rehome one this year) and the GM would overwhelm me.

I've had some spare time this weekend, and I've been roaming the blogs, studying up on "style tips for the petite woman." :lol: One that I found on every single blog was do not carry an oversized handbag. I don't, but it was good confirmation that my instincts are correct!
I have 2 tpm Evelyns that I bought before the mini bag trend in 2013 and I just looooove the size. I use them if I have to run out for an errand or take my kids somewhere where I do not need to bring much and I always bring one for travel - tuck it into another bag. It can fit my wallet, keys, sunglasses and lipchap. It is a great size fir those purposes. If you want an everyday bag definitely go for a pm - it is more of a regular bag size and it has an outside pocket for your phone - must have these days.
What colour are you thinking?
 
Finally! This is my favorite tote. It's a BV from 8 years ago, beautiful mustard yellow. The neat thing about it is that it's got zipper along both sides so you can zip up and make it a neat flat tote, or zip halfway to make it a more triangle tote, or unzip all the way and make it a slouchy tote. The handles are also adjustable so can be made to be long enough for the shoulder and short enough for hand carrying.

This is another one of those "if I knew they'd retire it I'd bought it in few more colors" bag.
Well I'll be darned! That's marvelous!
I wore my Jerome Dreyfuss bag again today . So now I have completed the three small bags wearing them two times each. How are you all doing with challenges.
Such a cute bag!
I've completed the opposite of yours - I've worn my 3 largest bags twice now.
The Longchamp Le Pliage, the Mulberry Blossom Tote, and the Camelia Roma Borsamano.
I'm thinking I might do yours too and wear my smallest twice as well.
 
I've been working my way through this book to try and get out of my "fashion rut." It's out of print, and I'm not related to the author, lol. Many used copies available on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-lis...p_used_olp_sr?ie=UTF8&condition=used&qid=&sr=

There are, I'm sure, a lot of books like it... I follow Brenda's blog, and I like her writing style, so I thought I'd enjoy this one. It's given me some good ideas, plus it's motivated me to do (yet another!) closet purge. AND I've been able to put together some cute new outfits out of clothes I already own! Woot!!! If you had asked me, I would have said that all my clothes were black. Certainly my pants are (except for jeans). And some sweaters, and some tops. But I do have a bit of color here and there; it was just a matter of combining things creatively.

I feel as though I've just gone on a shopping spree... and I haven't left my house all weekend! :giggle:

Has it arrived yet? You'll have to post pictures!
I love the way you discover under-the-radar designers... it seems to me that you posted your Polene here on this thread before it was written up on Purse Blog; isn't that right?
A 32cm Kelly is going to be gorgy! Have fun hunting. :smile:
I follow Brenda on IG, I like her look a lot and I'll check out the book.
I'm another wearer of mostly black, but StyleBook tells me I also wear navy, gray and white - those are my primarily worn colors - and then there are my scarves. How I love them! They are my color and my jewelry. Today I'm wearing black and gray and a flaming red scarf - FLAMING red!
The new bag hasn't arrived yet but when it does, I'll post it.
Honestly I don't remember if I posted the Polene before or after it was written up… but I read about it on the Current Good Quality Fair Price but Little Known Recommendation Thread
(Im not sure why this is in red!), and went to check it out!
 
Both of these are so beautiful! The Latte color of the Balenciaga looks like the perfect neutral. I see it going with every color of outfit. And the contrast stitching in the Baroque... I've never seen one with that before! It really amkes the quilting on the bag pop. Terrific look. I certainly do miss Marc Jacobs' quilted bags. Such a shame he stopped doing them. I have two left in my collection (the other two didn't work out... wrong size and color) and I'm treasuring them!

Thanks for the bag love, Elaine! :smile: I do like them both a lot and have tried both already as well. I just have to add some holes to the Town's strap bec. the bag falls a bit lower than where I want it to fall against my body. I'm a bit scared to use it though bec. of its light color. I was super careful when I used it when I went to the LV boutique last Friday. I was using public transportation and I was crazy careful for it not to touch anything with dark color, not even the colored bags of those seated beside me in the train. Haha! I know, too paranoid!

As with the Baroque, I love the contrast stitching as well. I think it the double stitching makes the bag durable as the outer is made of lambskin. The leather is buttery soft to the touch and I think without the double stitching, it will scratch easily and won't get the bit of structure that it has. But I do find the clasp fiddly and one the of straps tend to slip off. With the weight of that bag plus my stuff inside, the sudden falling of the bag off my shoulder is really irritating but I still like her. It just takes a little getting used to it, I guess.

There's a post up today on the Purse Blog today about whether no top zipper on a tote is a deal-breaker. For me it isn't, since I live in a small town. And even for my zippered bags (like my 3 Balenciagas) I never zip them up. But I understand where it definitely would be a concern for city-dwellers.

For me, a deal-breaker is a bag that doesn't have a zipped pocket on the inside, at the back of the bag. It doesn't have to be large... in fact, small is good. But it absolutely has to be there. It's where I put my car keys, my house keys, and my little mini-pen. Those are three things I use all the time, and I HATE fishing for them inside a handbag. :annoyed: And this is why, even though I adore the look of it, I will never own an Hermès Evelyne. :sad:

Any bag design deal-breakers for anyone here?
Deal-breakers for me are:
- big flaps (on a shoulder bag, they hit my face sometimes. My MJ Baroque is an exemption on this deal breaker bec. I truly love the look of it. Although the clasp hit me on the face 2x already :annoyed:)
- fiddly clasps (which I didn't know my MJ Baroque has until she came. She's an online purchase)
- open tote with no zipped interior compartment
- too heavy (couldn't wear my MJ Stella bec. of that issue; again I didn't know she weighs a ton as I only bought her online from a US consignment shop)
- patent leather (color transfer, fingerprints, discoloration/yellowing, sticks with plastic-covered notebooks or like materials)

My people! My people!
The heavens have opened :sunshine:

The search for my black tote is over!
:yahoo: :woot: :yahoo:
Here she is!! Yay!!
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Despite the crazy with the shipping box, there were no issues with the box or bag!!!
She’s perfect for me... Thank the purse goddess. I FINALLY have my black tote. Whoop!!!!!!! :woot:
Congratulations Sparkle! Glad to see nothing bad happened to her.. Now, the search is over. Enjoy her in good health! :smile:

Ha! I'm usually pretty good about not shopping for my fantasy life, but there's something about shopping while traveling that makes me pitch all sense out the window. OF COURSE I will spend all my days cavorting in front of historic monuments and eating only Michelin-starred fare and sipping lattes al fresco and dropping my dry-cleaning with the hotel valet. When in reality, once I'm home, I spend my days at the office with a take-out sandwich and a slightly chipped Starbucks mug and my mornings wondering if I really have to iron this shirt. So I definitely understand the travel goggles.

I get the shopping with traveling thing. Me and my kids have the privilege to join DH onboard the ship he's working for. We are allowed one family sailing per year. And I look forward to the shopping as much as I look forward to the sightseeing. No currency converting or I will not be able to buy anything, lol! But this year's travel was different. I got to control myself from buying a wallet from LV in Changi airport in Singapore. But DH eventually bought it for me at our local LV store in time for my birthday. I was super happy about it. But still, I get a different high when shopping overseas.


And here is my burgundy red (with coffee thermos for contrast). Glad that I squeezed it in and can't wait to show off my Yellow!

For the Color of February - Hermès Drag 2
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My second Extreme Team bag - Mulberry Blossom Tote - zomg the leather on this! And it also counts in the red category!
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(First ET bag was the LC Le Pliage Neo - carried twice while traveling [emoji38])

I only have 2 red bags now and 1 burgundy bag.
(“Stock photos” on my phone.)
Massaccesi midi Minerva.
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And Elaine’s red bag’s big sister, regular size Marc Jacobs 54. It’s a bit hard for me to wear this since she’s big and too red with too gold hardware. I listed her up in our local ebay for 2 months but no takers.
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And finally my Mulberry Zipped Bayswater in Oxblood. Love!
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Oh, and my wallet now is in oxblood too (Mulberry).
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I also use a Longchamp pouch for meds and lipstick and powder.
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Oh yes! I like that blue black.thanks for indulging me morebags! Apparently there are ink enthusiasts out there that like certain colors in certain brands for certain types of paper :shocked: OMG. I’m just happy that I am actively using my fountain pens again! I think you asked about how I carry my pen. This is just a cheapy velvet pen sleeve that is low profile. I have other leather ones that just add bulk and weight. Here she is with my calendar (yes, still paper) and notebook inside this red H cover, which I switched to for “red” month. And finally, one of my red bags, the Dior le Trente. I like its profile but it is annoying digging for things. I should put the little loose things into smaller pouches..as I have a zillion SLGs. I think putting SLGs into use needs to be one of my goals for the year. Next week:angel:
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Loving all the reds and burgundies! Valentine's is fast approaching and I feel it even more with your fabulous red bags! Keep them coming as I do not have one yet. Will just live vicariously through all of you! :biggrin:

Oh, I suddenly realized it's a new week already so new color week. Excited to see your yellows and oranges, which I think I do not have as well. Goodness!
 
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I’m way behind on color posts...think this belongs in last week’s red/burgundy showcase.
This is the Botkier Sasha from what seems like a decade ago. I’ve always been attached to this one..perhaps the color and shape? Anyway, Monica Botkier was a photographer and designed this bag as a cute bag to carry all her camera gear ..so it lays open so she can easily access camera gear. I will demonstrate with my SLGs all lined up crosswise so I also can easily access without it being a big black hole. Isn’t it nifty? I can see everything and they stay in place without a bag sorter. I just think it’s so clever! And it’s convertible to larger capacity by unlatching the belt underneath.
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Just for fun, I’m showing the contents of my daily bag..I am trying to rotate through my SLGs and have switched in the LV mini zippy (or whatever it’s called) for the week.
-Agenda with calendar and notebook
-LV mini zippy holds toiletries, makeup etc
-Orange passport holder holds tissue pack
-Wallet..the best design ..compact yet not thick, coin compartment, card slots and bill-slot (I still carry cash)
-My phone
-My key holder
-Pencil case holding distance and reading glasses (I hate having to wear and carry glasses!:annoyed:)
What a fantastic bag, smart design!
 
They are both so cheerful! I love the look of the Alto to but I am afraid of scratches as well.
Love this yellow Dior of yours!!
Beautiful yellow
Miss Dior is like a ray of sunshine - so pretty!
I don’t have any orange or yellow bags, so I will be on the side lines cheering everyone else on! [emoji4]
Great yellow Dior!


Your yellow duffle is a beauty!
I love both of these!!! That Miss Dior is stunning - awesome you got a good deal on something that unique!


Beautiful collection! That sunflower duffle is a perfect shade of yellow.


Oh my goodness these are both so lovely! Really that crevette is such a distinctive shade - I have seen one in person and was just smitten! I bet it's stunning with black outfits.
Thanks for all the likes and sweet comments on my yellow Dior. I was very happy to have found her and really enjoy wearing her. I find yellow and orange hard to wear so it’s extra special to have one that works for me.

I’m loving seeing all the yellow and orange bags. There are such unexpected colors and so beautiful!
 
You just reminded me that I had the best pair of emerald green velvet skinny jeans a few years back, they wore out since I wore them so much. I could not find another pair to replace them with. What is the brand of your Bordeaux ones? I need to replace mine.
I have velvet jeans from two brands. 7 for all mankind and INC (Macy’s house brand). Love them!
I am feeling good! But I only buy bags when I travel so it is easy to control not buying when I am home. Ask me again after my annual trip to Paris .
I am enjoying shopping my clothes, still have everything divided. I think this and tracking my bag usuage will really help me understand what I use, do not use and need more of.
I really need to track my clothing usage. I’m so spotty in doing so which is weird because I always track bag usage. I’m going to commit to starting today. :tup:
However, I am not doing well at shopping my jewelry and I foresee getting more items then planned this year. I am pretty sure this is where I will fail this year (since I failed last year too...). I do need to start tracking my jewelry wear so I can sell items I do not wear, but it feels daunting to track and then sell. So I keep pushing this off. Maybe i’ll Do this second half of year.
Jewelry is my weakness but I’ve grown very planful.

I finally decided to get serious with my everyday items - for me that means pretty, sparkly, non branded white gold and diamonds. I wanted 3 sets (earrings, bracelets, necklaces) that I can rotate and semi mix and match. Some selling, some buying and some restyling has gotten me to just about complete with that project.

And, because I’ve collected jewelry since my teens, I already have a number of yellow gold items from when that color was more popular. However, I sold / gifted a lot (anything 10k, 14k or generally blah) and only kept the best pieces. Most of what I kept were pretty chains for which I upgraded / restyled pendants so that the stones were a good size. One of my favorite is a yg drop pendant in which I set the 1ct diamond that was in my mom’s engagement ring. It means a lot to me to wear that. I have a couple pair of pretty yg earrings but, need to work on that a bit too.

And, I’ve sold off almost all my sterling silver (lots of Tiffany’s stuff) and just about all my colored stone jewelry except for one killler earring / necklace set I adore and one bracelet. Sterling silver gets on my nerves with the tarnish. Colored stones just don’t make my heart go pitty pat as much as diamonds. (Plus the price I’d rubies has gone through the roof. It was a good time to sell mine.)

What’s slowing me down is that I only want to add super extra special pieces at this point. And, most of those are 5 figures in cost. :faint: Not the kind of items I can just run out and impulse buy. :no: So, Mr. Sparkle has his marching orders and I expect him to look neither to his left nor right til he’s done. :lol:

Seriously though, I’m really not thinking more bags right now. I’m really focused on jewelry. I have about 12 pricey items at the consignment jeweler right now. :oh: I need some hungry buyers to buy so I can get moving with what I want to get. Lol!

I encourage you to sell what jewelry you aren’t wearing. It feels as good as getting rid of bags and clothes we aren’t wearing.
It's so nice to check in and read how everyone's doing! I've been well-behaved so far - only bought that one Longchamp pouch and no bags yet! I'm actually finding it much easier to avoid shopping this year, even though I was in an undeniable shopping addiction last year. I only see myself buying two bags in the next few months. My money tree is already ripe for the picking, but I am going to put off buying until I - knock on wood - get a graduate acceptance! Maybe I'll get a rejection, and in that case I'll let myself shop as consolation, lol.

On the other hand, I think I need to work on contentment with what I have. I have a wishlist about a mile long of bags I want. I think part of reigning in a shopping addiction is not just stopping the buying, but also stopping the browsing! At the same time though, window shopping is a really fun way of keeping up with fashion while not spending any money! Does anyone else have thoughts on the dangers or lack thereof of window shopping?
I can’t window shop or I will buy. So, I just have to stop cold turkey.

In contrast, TPF doesn’t tempt me. It helps me refine my choices so I make better purchases. It stops me from making purchases as I get the inside scoop on bags and learn of deal breakers. And, this thread gives me healthy peer pressure to resist buying into external buying / marketing / keep up with the Joneses messages. So weirdly, TPF stops a lot of my buying and makes what I do buy much smarter choices.
My yellows and oranges :biggrin:

My dream bag, a Faye in a color Chloe calls "dusty yellow".
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I only have one orange bag, but I LOVE it. I wear it all the time and I think it matches everything. I got it from the Coach outlet but the leather quality isn't bad, and I love that it's from the Keith Haring collection!
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One of my first purses, a gift from my mom from I don't even know how old I was. Funny how this monogram shoulder style is back in fashion again!
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A bag I thrifted when I was a student in London. I love that rectangular shape, the same shape as an LV Danube. I've been wanting a Danube-esque bag shape for a while (sans logos), but it's hard to justify when I have this bag! It has inner dividers though, which makes the interior really teeny.
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An honorable mention to my yellow colorblocked bags (some of which I already posted during the red week, so I won't talk about them again). One of the ones I hadn't mentioned yet is the canvas tote I got from the Tate Modern, where I got to see Whaam! by Roy Lichtenstein. I really love going to art museums, and I especially love art from 20th and 21st century!
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That orange bag is so happy!!!!
 
I used the pink birkin I have been considering selling today. I enjoyed using it. I wish it was a 30 vs. a 35 but it is not worth selling it at a loss to buy a 30 for more $ (costing even more to move to a 30). So I will keep it and try and use it again within a month. If I happen to buy a bag that takes it place at some point then I will sell but fir now it is staying. I loved wearing it with my pink shawl - it pulled the look together for me.
I honestly think you should stop trying to like this bag. It just is NOT for you. You shouldn’t even bother selling it.

Instead, you should allow me as your dear selfless friend to take this burden off your hands and spare you any further consternation or pain. :lol: Mail it to me today and be free of this bag!!! ;)
Congratulations on having a baby last year! I feel like I’ve already bought my push presents pre-baby! I purchased the pg letterwood VA earrings and I’m hoping my SA can find me the 5 motif bracelet to match, although there are no more available in the US. I am considering the 20 motif letterwood necklace but I feel that it will not be used as often as I would like to think. So, perhaps my next pieces after that will be the pg GMOP and pave bracelet and the guilloche bracelet and earrings. With a baby, what pieces do you use often and what pieces do you feel you don’t use much at all?
I’m totally feeling cheated over here. I had my kids when things like a babymoon and push presents weren’t a thing. All I got was a baby, private school tuition bills and a sprinkling of stretch marks. Lol!

Can I demand reparations? Maybe the kids should chip in too. :lol:
I've been working my way through this book to try and get out of my "fashion rut." It's out of print, and I'm not related to the author, lol. Many used copies available on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-lis...p_used_olp_sr?ie=UTF8&condition=used&qid=&sr=

There are, I'm sure, a lot of books like it... I follow Brenda's blog, and I like her writing style, so I thought I'd enjoy this one. It's given me some good ideas, plus it's motivated me to do (yet another!) closet purge. AND I've been able to put together some cute new outfits out of clothes I already own! Woot!!! If you had asked me, I would have said that all my clothes were black. Certainly my pants are (except for jeans). And some sweaters, and some tops. But I do have a bit of color here and there; it was just a matter of combining things creatively.

I feel as though I've just gone on a shopping spree... and I haven't left my house all weekend! :giggle:
Buying this book now. I love getting fresh ideas on how to play with my clothes!!!
That's so interesting! I didn't know that you were a "mostly black with brights" person. That's been me, except that I've been "mostly black with a bright H scarf."

And then you added grey, and after that, navy and bordeaux, which is exactly what I'm looking to do, encouraged by the Brenda Kinsel book I'm reading. Years ago I "had my colors done," but that was when my hair was dark brown. Now it's grey (oh, well...) and because my eyes and skin tone are light, I'm realizing that high-contrast looks (a black cardi over a white shirt, f'rinstance) aren't doing me any favors. I'd be better off with medium- or low-contrast looks, like a grey cardi over a pale pink shirt. Or a garnet-colored dress, instead of a black one.

Sorry to rave on & on about this book, everyone! :blush: It's just that I'm so excited to finally be doing something intelligent about my wardrobe.
I adore black, white and grey clothes that have beautiful design structure. :loveeyes: Adding colors in pops was easy peasy and natural for me to do too. They make strong statements and I like interesting clothes.

Adding in the other colors I wanted - navy, bordeaux, dark emerald green and clear (not dusty, pale or tea stained) pastels - was work. You can’t add plop one caramel piece in your wardrobe and not “support” it with other items. So, that’s why I started slowly. I had to buy in tiny clusters that worked together and with what I had.

I still never wear any camel colored (or burgundy) item near my face. It’s bottoms, shoes or accessories. And, I have zero desire to add true earth tones (rust, mustard, hunter, brown, blueish slate, etc) because they don’t flatter me and I don’t like them.
I’m way behind on color posts...think this belongs in last week’s red/burgundy showcase.
This is the Botkier Sasha from what seems like a decade ago. I’ve always been attached to this one..perhaps the color and shape? Anyway, Monica Botkier was a photographer and designed this bag as a cute bag to carry all her camera gear ..so it lays open so she can easily access camera gear. I will demonstrate with my SLGs all lined up crosswise so I also can easily access without it being a big black hole. Isn’t it nifty? I can see everything and they stay in place without a bag sorter. I just think it’s so clever! And it’s convertible to larger capacity by unlatching the belt underneath.
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Just for fun, I’m showing the contents of my daily bag..I am trying to rotate through my SLGs and have switched in the LV mini zippy (or whatever it’s called) for the week.
-Agenda with calendar and notebook
-LV mini zippy holds toiletries, makeup etc
-Orange passport holder holds tissue pack
-Wallet..the best design ..compact yet not thick, coin compartment, card slots and bill-slot (I still carry cash)
-My phone
-My key holder
-Pencil case holding distance and reading glasses (I hate having to wear and carry glasses!:annoyed:)
Oooh passport holder for tissues. Genius. I hate carrying tissues (but need to) because they get all crumpled and shed dust. I get a tissue pouch!! Thanks for sharing.
 
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