2018 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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I have been doing OK. This month one scarf out, one in. One bag out, one in (about a minute ago I bought this wicker bag which a friend just posted in Scarf of the Day LOL)
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And for the first half of 2018, I bought one scarf more than I sold, and I bought one bag more than I sold, so no celebrating. I hope to reverse that in the second half!
I LOVE wicker/straw bags!! Doing everything possible to NOT acquire one of these basket-type bags- though I carry the open-top straw often, for whatever reason I cannot imagine myself actually carrying the basket-type ones! They are soooo cute for summer!!!
 
Trip sounds good. Is she artistic at all? A Julian easel with some supplies would be an awesome gift.
No artistic ability. But if so, this would have been a great idea!
a bottle of fine wine/champs?
A day in SPA?
A ticket (-s) for a concert/opera/theatre?
Tiffany 'Eternity' silver necklace? (To commemorate your 'eternal' friendship)?
I don't know your price point, but hope, the ideas will help to move into right direction :smile:
I like all of these! (Although she’s more tequila shots than fine wine. LOL!) I wonder if I could get her to wear Tiffany’s if I stay with silver. :thinking:
This sounds like a good idea. Maybe a summer music-fest destination? Anything from Coachella to Tanglewood to the Newport Jazz Festival could fit the bill.

How on earth can you be BFFs with someone whose views are so different? I have friends I disagree with, and who have very different taste than mine, but not on everything! What do you guys find to talk about?
Jazz Festival - that’s a great idea! That is the only music genre we both enjoy. I completely forgot! :biggrin:

Lol! on how are we friends. We don’t agree on out frosting but have the same cake because we have the same values. So, if one of us has to make a decision or is hurting, we speak the same language and can be there for each other as a sounding board, advisor, accountability partner, etc.

Also, being so different makes things extremely interesting. She tends to date actors / artists so I’m always hearing about the technical aspects of art which I otherwise wouldn’t. I share info on business which she uses in her career. She is childless so she is always getting into something new which pushed my boundaries to try things (like rock climbing or salsa dancing). I have children and she’s enjoyed being an “auntie”. And, we love giggling at each other’s fashion choices. I’ve laughed til I cried when I’ve see her latest self created cocktail / club outfit. And, she regularly guffaws at me being “hoodwinked” yet again into spending 4 figures on fussy foolishness (handbags) that she swears cost $9.99 to make. So for the 23 years we’ve shared a lot of insight, support and fun we would have lost staying in our lanes.
Someone said something to me a couple of weeks ago (and about something not at all handbag related, “Sometimes you have to let things come to you.” I kind of feel like this is the way you should be with the black tote. :P Just stop looking for now, because it’s becoming a point of stress. And that’s not what handbags are supposed to be about!

If the black lamb single flap is what your heart wants, then that’s what you should get! You won’t stop thinking about it until you let yourself have it anyway, which means you won’t be able to decide on any other bags, either!

Glad to hear the eye surgery went well! There are worse things than going all Anna Wintour with the sunglasses while you heal! :cool:
Gosh, yes. I think you’re right. I can’t keep thinking of it. I just always need it when I need it which drives me buggy.

Thanks for the well wishes on the surgery!
I'm so glad it all went well-congrats! Heal up soon! :flowers:


That's so sweet, and a great idea!!! You'll always have the fun memories of celebrating!!!

agreed- me too!!! Being in NYC, I truly feel that I need to be able to actively run/speed-walk whenever I want/have to. These definitely fall under that category! Aldo anything...a resounding NO!!!


That is SUCH a great descriptor!!! I'm taking it!!!:lol:
Thanks for the get well!

one more idea - since you've been friends for quite a while i guess a Pandora bracelet with 2-3 (or more) charms related to important things/places/events you've gone through together would be a nice gift, too :yes:
She wouldn’t wear Pandora but it’s a great idea for someone else in the future!!!
 
No artistic ability. But if so, this would have been a great idea!
I like all of these! (Although she’s more tequila shots than fine wine. LOL!) I wonder if I could get her to wear Tiffany’s if I stay with silver. :thinking:
Jazz Festival - that’s a great idea! That is the only music genre we both enjoy. I completely forgot! :biggrin:

Lol! on how are we friends. We don’t agree on out frosting but have the same cake because we have the same values. So, if one of us has to make a decision or is hurting, we speak the same language and can be there for each other as a sounding board, advisor, accountability partner, etc.

Also, being so different makes things extremely interesting. She tends to date actors / artists so I’m always hearing about the technical aspects of art which I otherwise wouldn’t. I share info on business which she uses in her career. She is childless so she is always getting into something new which pushed my boundaries to try things (like rock climbing or salsa dancing). I have children and she’s enjoyed being an “auntie”. And, we love giggling at each other’s fashion choices. I’ve laughed til I cried when I’ve see her latest self created cocktail / club outfit. And, she regularly guffaws at me being “hoodwinked” yet again into spending 4 figures on fussy foolishness (handbags) that she swears cost $9.99 to make. So for the 23 years we’ve shared a lot of insight, support and fun we would have lost staying in our lanes.
Gosh, yes. I think you’re right. I can’t keep thinking of it. I just always need it when I need it which drives me buggy.

Thanks for the well wishes on the surgery!
Thanks for the get well!

She wouldn’t wear Pandora but it’s a great idea for someone else in the future!!!

Wow, you and your friend are really different! But the important thing is that you click. [emoji3]

Heal well!
 
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This month I stepped out of the box and tried some colored bags. I counted them but they haven't all come yet. I look forward to having some fun with them. I have you changed anything up in your collection lately?

I got myself a mini backpack!! I haven’t worn it again since my return from my trip, but I hope to do soon,
 
How did everyone do this month? I was an epic fail as far as shopping my closet though I like everything I bought.
Bags in 4
Bags out 3
slgs in 0
slgs out 0
Sports bags out 2
Sports in 0 This in includes travel etc. They still take space so I have started counting them. So it's actually 6 bags out total.
Not an epic fail. You are still getting bags that work for you and pruning ones that don’t. That’s a win to me.
This month I stepped out of the box and tried some colored bags. have you changed anything up in your collection lately?
Not buying??? :lol: Seriously, this drought is bugging me. I want something new. I just want it to be perfect!

The other things is an attitude shift. I used to be fine with preloved bags that were ok / good condition in order to get a “deal”. I also was ok with bags that were a little dated. Now, I’m not ok with this at all. I’ll let bag’s age in my collection but I don’t want to start out with it looking past it’s prime. I’ve sold (or am selling) every example of this I have. This is one reason 2 of the 3 totes weren’t moving me. They looked a little dated.

So, I’m now only willing to buy new OR preloved that is new unused or like new. I could make an exception for some super rare bag that could be sent to the spa and rescued. But, I don’t see that needing to happen. I don’t currently want any super rare bags.
I have been doing OK. This month one scarf out, one in. One bag out, one in (about a minute ago I bought this wicker bag which a friend just posted in Scarf of the Day LOL)
ava_f0125131915_wicker_3.jpg

And for the first half of 2018, I bought one scarf more than I sold, and I bought one bag more than I sold, so no celebrating. I hope to reverse that in the second half!
The good thing is you are clear on what you want / need to do.

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My stats are the same for the month and year.

Bags in: 0
Bags out: 1
SLG’s in: 0
SLG’s out: 0

I need to track a new category as well:
Bags still to be sold: 8
Bags still to be listed: 5

Has anyone had luck selling in FB groups? If so, was it local ones or international ones like the <brand> addicted pages? I haven’t had any luck.
 
I have been doing OK. This month one scarf out, one in. One bag out, one in (about a minute ago I bought this wicker bag which a friend just posted in Scarf of the Day LOL)
ava_f0125131915_wicker_3.jpg

And for the first half of 2018, I bought one scarf more than I sold, and I bought one bag more than I sold, so no celebrating. I hope to reverse that in the second half!

Yes I saw. I totally love it. Please say where it's from (unless you don't want to of course)
 
Not an epic fail. You are still getting bags that work for you and pruning ones that don’t. That’s a win to me.
Not buying??? :lol: Seriously, this drought is bugging me. I want something new. I just want it to be perfect!

The other things is an attitude shift. I used to be fine with preloved bags that were ok / good condition in order to get a “deal”. I also was ok with bags that were a little dated. Now, I’m not ok with this at all. I’ll let bag’s age in my collection but I don’t want to start out with it looking past it’s prime. I’ve sold (or am selling) every example of this I have. This is one reason 2 of the 3 totes weren’t moving me. They looked a little dated.

So, I’m now only willing to buy new OR preloved that is new unused or like new. I could make an exception for some super rare bag that could be sent to the spa and rescued. But, I don’t see that needing to happen. I don’t currently want any super rare bags.
The good thing is you are clear on what you want / need to do.

———
My stats are the same for the month and year.

Bags in: 0
Bags out: 1
SLG’s in: 0
SLG’s out: 0

I need to track a new category as well:
Bags still to be sold: 8
Bags still to be listed: 5

Has anyone had luck selling in FB groups? If so, was it local ones or international ones like the <brand> addicted pages? I haven’t had any luck.

I belong to a couple of vintage and mid-century modern groups but I've never tried.
 
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June Tally

On repeat. so again

Bags
0 in
0 out

I narrowed down some bag possibilities to 3 (from 4). This includes the Python Rebelle that has just come in at Gucci. I'd like another smart-casual take anywhere shoulder bag.

SLG
0 iin
0 out
BUT I do have an Asprey jewellery case put away

Lets not talk jewellery or scarves I bought 2 pair of earrings and a twilly. I may have to change the (Gucci) twilly because it's not quite long enough.
 
Not an epic fail. You are still getting bags that work for you and pruning ones that don’t. That’s a win to me.
Not buying??? :lol: Seriously, this drought is bugging me. I want something new. I just want it to be perfect!

The other things is an attitude shift. I used to be fine with preloved bags that were ok / good condition in order to get a “deal”. I also was ok with bags that were a little dated. Now, I’m not ok with this at all. I’ll let bag’s age in my collection but I don’t want to start out with it looking past it’s prime. I’ve sold (or am selling) every example of this I have. This is one reason 2 of the 3 totes weren’t moving me. They looked a little dated.

So, I’m now only willing to buy new OR preloved that is new unused or like new. I could make an exception for some super rare bag that could be sent to the spa and rescued. But, I don’t see that needing to happen. I don’t currently want any super rare bags.
The good thing is you are clear on what you want / need to do.

———
My stats are the same for the month and year.

Bags in: 0
Bags out: 1
SLG’s in: 0
SLG’s out: 0

I need to track a new category as well:
Bags still to be sold: 8
Bags still to be listed: 5

Has anyone had luck selling in FB groups? If so, was it local ones or international ones like the <brand> addicted pages? I haven’t had any luck.
FB Group but brand related. I have gotten rid of quite a few.
 
I have been doing OK. This month one scarf out, one in. One bag out, one in (about a minute ago I bought this wicker bag which a friend just posted in Scarf of the Day LOL)
ava_f0125131915_wicker_3.jpg

And for the first half of 2018, I bought one scarf more than I sold, and I bought one bag more than I sold, so no celebrating. I hope to reverse that in the second half!
This is adorable.
 
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How did everyone do this month? I was an epic fail as far as shopping my closet though I like everything I bought.
Bags in 4
Bags out 3
slgs in 0
slgs out 0
Sports bags out 2
Sports in 0 This in includes travel etc. They still take space so I have started counting them .So it's actually 6 bags out total.
Congratulations on your progress!

I tried a pale pink Swift Bolide Secrete. I have a blush suede Westwood bag and a Paul smith briefcase but nothing of significant value. I'm actually going to discount the little Bolide because of the colour. Mid-bright for handles and corners is light enough
This sounds beautiful and swift leather, yummy! :love: I look forward to seeing your styling pics when you get the chance! Congratulations on your beautiful addition. Or did you not pick this up? Apologies if I misunderstood.

I have been doing OK. This month one scarf out, one in. One bag out, one in (about a minute ago I bought this wicker bag which a friend just posted in Scarf of the Day LOL)
ava_f0125131915_wicker_3.jpg

And for the first half of 2018, I bought one scarf more than I sold, and I bought one bag more than I sold, so no celebrating. I hope to reverse that in the second half!
Great looking basket! Which scarf did you add this month?
 
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Not an epic fail. You are still getting bags that work for you and pruning ones that don’t. That’s a win to me.
Not buying??? :lol: Seriously, this drought is bugging me. I want something new. I just want it to be perfect!

The other things is an attitude shift. I used to be fine with preloved bags that were ok / good condition in order to get a “deal”. I also was ok with bags that were a little dated. Now, I’m not ok with this at all. I’ll let bag’s age in my collection but I don’t want to start out with it looking past it’s prime. I’ve sold (or am selling) every example of this I have. This is one reason 2 of the 3 totes weren’t moving me. They looked a little dated.

So, I’m now only willing to buy new OR preloved that is new unused or like new. I could make an exception for some super rare bag that could be sent to the spa and rescued. But, I don’t see that needing to happen. I don’t currently want any super rare bags.
The good thing is you are clear on what you want / need to do.

———
My stats are the same for the month and year.

Bags in: 0
Bags out: 1
SLG’s in: 0
SLG’s out: 0

I need to track a new category as well:
Bags still to be sold: 8
Bags still to be listed: 5

Has anyone had luck selling in FB groups? If so, was it local ones or international ones like the <brand> addicted pages? I haven’t had any luck.
Great stats Sparkletastic! Best wishes on surgery recovery and on celebrating your friend’s milestone bday! I am a fan of experience and jewelry. We recently went to Nashville to celebrate my girlfriend’s milestone birthday with a concert and a weeklong (6) girls’ getaway! So much fun! It was great exploring a new city together.

June Tally

On repeat. so again

Bags
0 in
0 out

I narrowed down some bag possibilities to 3 (from 4). This includes the Python Rebelle that has just come in at Gucci. I'd like another smart-casual take anywhere shoulder bag.

SLG
0 iin
0 out
BUT I do have an Asprey jewellery case put away

Lets not talk jewellery or scarves I bought 2 pair of earrings and a twilly. I may have to change the (Gucci) twilly because it's not quite long enough.
Fantastic stats papertiger. I think the Python Rebelle is so you, consistent with your style! You will rock this bag!
 
Congratulations on your progress!


This sounds beautiful and swift leather, yummy! :love: I look forward to seeing your styling pics when you get the chance! Congratulations on your beautiful addition. Or did you not pick this up? Apologies if I misunderstood.


Great looking basket! Which scarf did you add this month?

I miscommunicated. I loved the bag but I don't think I loved it enough for the maintenance. At east that's what I'm thinking now, I should go back ad see all the bags before making my mind up.
 
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