I agree with you on the wish for more sales. I'm not selling my nicer items even though they're pristine and I now have them listed at 5% under previous solids. I'm selling the crappy items I almost donated because I felt they might not be worth listing. Can't figure it out.
And, I'm glad you listened to yourself on pause v ban. You'll be happier and more successful than if you were forcing yourself one way or another.
I don't think I'll ever go on a real ban. As long I do a general pre-planning of what I want to buy during the year, pause
hard and critically assess each individual purchase, I make good decisions that I don't regret. It's when I do impulse buys that things fall apart. This is a relatively new approach for me (2-3 years) but it's working very well. I'm
finally getting away from the impulse item in / impulse item out merry go round I was on.
I actually think I'm one of the few people who would say TPF has saved me money. This thread definitely keeps me disciplined.

And, I see people doing money draining things I know I did and would have continued doing: buying multiple substitutes instead of the one bag I want, never using some bags, buying a bag that looks good but doesn't work for me...

Without TPF and my pocket friends, I know I would have at least 20-30 more bags that I didn't want or need. So I'm grateful for the sanity check I get here.