2017 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Being almost at year end, I was curious about what selling had done for me this year. So, I looked at my results on the platforms through which I sell: eBay, Tradesy, Poshmark, Vestiare, Facebook and Ann's Fabulous Finds.

Best Platform: Tradesy and eBay by far (although I HATE Tradesy). 75% of my sales were from these two sites.

Worst Platform: Facebook. I've only sold two bags there and was scammed on one of them. :cursing:

Honorable Mention: Ann's Fabulous Finds. Their staff is so helpful and friendly. The consignment process is a breeze and, most importantly, they give more of the proceeds back to the seller. I tend to sell on my own to maximize receipts. But, for the rare occasion I don't want to, AFF is great!

Total Number: I forgot one bag I sold so, I'm at 15 outs for the year v. 10 ins (of those ins, I've kept 8).

Total Receipts v. Total Cost of Bags Sold: I've done really well with buying and selling at good prices. I've had a total loss of only $183.91 (or $12.26/ bag) on the 15 bags I've sold. That is amazing since I've used all but two of these bags quite a bit. It's like I got the usage for free!!! :nuts: Most of this is helped by the fact that I buy the majority of my bags pre-loved or on sale.

This is why I don't care about cost per wear (CPW). When I'm done, I sell my bags and recoup funds. CPW for my bags - even though they may be expensive - is always pennies to at most a few dollars. The number that matters to me is total cost of ownership (COO).

I had been thinking about buying more bags new but, seeing this, I'm going to try to strike a balance and buy new bags on a great sale. And I'll keep with my strategy of buying preloved in new / like new / pristine condition for those bags that don't go on sale.

And, I really am not motivated to buy brands that tank in resale unless I pretty much know I can / will happily keep the bag til I "use it up". I'm still hairy eyeballing my Celine that dropped like a rock even though I got it for 30% of retail. I've owned it for only 18 months and it's now worth about 18% of resale. :cursing: Never again.

Total Receipts as % of Total Spend on New Bags:
What I've sold has only funded 11.22% of what I've bought this year. :whut: In contrast, in 2015, what I sold funded 86% of what I bought.

I'm not really surprised by this. The past few years, I was gutting my old "collection" (read crazy hodgepodge of random bags) and sold lots more bags each year. Also, I buy more expensive bags now. Next year things will settle as I'll be doing more of a one in / one out of bags at similar price points. That being said, seeing this number has cooled my jets. As much as I love handbags, I don't want to put a whole lot of new money into them. I'd rather use my play money disposable on travel or jewelry.

Wow, what an impressive analysis! I love how you’ve broken this down, even as far as seeing what percent of your incoming bags have been funded by your sold ones, and what that tells you about how you want to operate going forward. You seem to be really good at selling bags even though you say you hate it!

I’m always trying to find the balance between buying what I love while being mindful of resale value. I want to think I’m going to love a bag forever and that therefore resale shouldn’t matter, but it doesn’t always work out that way. While I do have a couple of “forever bags,” I don’t think it’s possible to build an entire collection of them (not possible for me, anyway!).

Thanks also for the info on Ann’s Fabulous Finds. I’ve only heard good things about them so the next time I’m thinking of selling, I will definitely get an estimate from them.
 
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Wow, what an impressive analysis! I love how you’ve broken this down, even as far as seeing what percent of your incoming bags have been funded by your sold ones, and what that tells you about how you want to operate going forward. You seem to be really good at selling bags even though you say you hate it!

I’m always trying to find the balance between buying what I love while being mindful of resale value. I want to think I’m going to love a bag forever and that therefore resale shouldn’t matter, but it doesn’t always work out that way. While I do have a couple of “forever bags,” I don’t think it’s possible to build an entire collection of them (not possible for me, anyway!).

Thanks also for the info on Ann’s Fabulous Finds. I’ve only heard good things about them so the next time I’m thinking of selling, I will definitely get an estimate from them.
Thanks for the kind words about my analysis.

Resale value has meant a lot to me because - more often than I'd like - I like to sell my bags and get something new. And, candidly, I'm really thrifty. LOL! So, I just hate losing or wasting money.

But, I HATE listing and selling. So, I'm trying to find bags that will make me happy as long as possible. I don't know that "forever" is a realistic goal for me. I'm just hoping to have the majority of my bags make me happy for 10 years-ish.

It's not easy. I'm really trying to have it all - bags that I love, are functional, have great resale value, and have style staying power. But, those things are reeeally hard to find in one bag!!! :huh:
 
Your post is really thought provoking for me.

But, first, why are you planning to go on ban? Is it something your truly want / need to do? I haven't tried to ban (before this last month) because I knew I was still refining my collection. It would have been frustrating to have a ban that got in the way of my curating goals. Now that I'm at the tail end of building and need to think about next steps a ban makes sense. I say all this because I want to encourage you to think about it and do whatever is good for you.

Now on to the second part of your post. You say you'll never have forever bags. For 90% of my collection is say YES! A thousand times YES! I like bags that are on trend. So I'm trying to buy more classics than not to avoid churn. But I know that other than possibly my Chanel and Dior flaps, nothing will be satisfying for me in 10-15 years.

How I plan to solve it is I intend to buy on a rotation. Every year I'll add a couple bags and sell / donate a couple of bags. That will keep my collection fresh.

But, I hear you in that your situation is unique. You don't have a good resale market so you can't recoup funds as easily. Perhaps the idea is simply to set a yearly handbag budget. (Like people do with any hobby like cars, playing blackjack or skiing) Then you can decide in any given year if you want to spend it all on an expensive bag or split it amongst 5 less expensive bags.
It's been a hell of a busy week so just responding to this now even if I read this earlier.
Why am I planning on a ban? Probably because all my recent 'out' were gifts to coworkers (the last 3 or 4). I got nothing back monetary wise. But on the other hand, I've added several bags, several bags even premier brands. So I need to wise up financially.
 
Dressing up a little for work (than usual) these last 2 days with my AMQ.
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msd, you have a black AMQ now! It’s lovely! Your taupe one is my favourite from your collection so I can totally see why you added another.

Speaking of adding duplicates, I did a lot of duplicating recently... Remember when I said I wouldn’t buy any more RM? That kind of triggered a mania for my favourite bag, the RM Cupid. I’ve been carrying my teal one lately and it sparks so much joy, and it works perfectly for my new lifestyle here. So I wanted another one and somehow ended with three. Haha, not sorry. I’m considering selling my two MAMs to make room.
 
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It's been a hell of a busy week so just responding to this now even if I read this earlier.
Why am I planning on a ban? Probably because all my recent 'out' were gifts to coworkers (the last 3 or 4). I got nothing back monetary wise. But on the other hand, I've added several bags, several bags even premier brands. So I need to wise up financially.
Ah! Makes sense. I can't recall which of your bags went out. Were they recent acquisitions?

We can ban together. As I mentioned, I need to figure out what I'd need to add next. And, I don't want to spend a lot on bags next year.
msd, you have a black AMQ now! It’s lovely! Your taupe one is my favourite from your collection so I can totally see why you added another.

Speaking of adding duplicates, I did a lot of duplicating recently... Remember when I said I wouldn’t buy any more RM? That kind of triggered a mania for my favourite bag, the RM Cupid. I’ve been carrying my teal one lately and it sparks so much joy, and it works perfectly for my new lifestyle here. So I wanted another one and somehow ended with three. Haha, not sorry. I’m considering selling my two MAMs to make room.
I hadn't heard of the Cupid so I googled. I love that bag! I saw a burgundy one in google images that's really cute. What colors do you have?

I don't know that I have any one bag that's perfect for my lifestyle. Different ones work for diffeeent things. But, it would be nice to know and have my singularly perfect bag. I need to consider what that would be. Hmmmm...
 
msd, you have a black AMQ now! It’s lovely! Your taupe one is my favourite from your collection so I can totally see why you added another.

Speaking of adding duplicates, I did a lot of duplicating recently... Remember when I said I wouldn’t buy any more RM? That kind of triggered a mania for my favourite bag, the RM Cupid. I’ve been carrying my teal one lately and it sparks so much joy, and it works perfectly for my new lifestyle here. So I wanted another one and somehow ended with three. Haha, not sorry. I’m considering selling my two MAMs to make room.

If it sparks joy, why not? Please share pics, the teal sounds pretty!
 
Ah! Makes sense. I can't recall which of your bags went out. Were they recent acquisitions?

We can ban together. As I mentioned, I need to figure out what I'd need to add next. And, I don't want to spend a lot on bags next year.
I hadn't heard of the Cupid so I googled. I love that bag! I saw a burgundy one in google images that's really cute. What colors do you have?

I don't know that I have any one bag that's perfect for my lifestyle. Different ones work for diffeeent things. But, it would be nice to know and have my singularly perfect bag. I need to consider what that would be. Hmmmm...

Going on a ban together will be nice! My initial target is 3 months. Hopefully that will be extended. But truth is, I'm dreading the Christmas/after Christmas sales!

1 bag that I gave away was the MbMJ nylon bag I bought for my Japan trip early this year. I realized that I prefer the Longchamp Neo with long strap which serves the same purpose. The other is the Tod's black bag that I bought for documents. When I got the Fossil bag I didn't need the Tod's bag anymore. Then finally a RM full size MAB that was already too big for me.

Speaking of RM Cupid, I had a full size one before and I liked it structured. I got it brand new so no problem with structure though I oftend wondered if it would soften with wear. I sold it during my big bag purge. I've not regretted the sale but it's probably one of the RM bags I would consider having again. It was in a beautiful Elephant Grey color.
 
msd, you have a black AMQ now! It’s lovely! Your taupe one is my favourite from your collection so I can totally see why you added another.

Speaking of adding duplicates, I did a lot of duplicating recently... Remember when I said I wouldn’t buy any more RM? That kind of triggered a mania for my favourite bag, the RM Cupid. I’ve been carrying my teal one lately and it sparks so much joy, and it works perfectly for my new lifestyle here. So I wanted another one and somehow ended with three. Haha, not sorry. I’m considering selling my two MAMs to make room.
I got this black middle of this year and it was also shipped to Singapore, from France. I was needing a black daily use bag and I found this on sale. And since the style really works for me then I could not resist!

I loved my Cupid too! But I want mine structured. [emoji3] And I had 3 minis. Pretty!

I sometimes see this bag for sale and I think of you.
Yay!! A bag associated with me. [emoji3]
 
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Going on a ban together will be nice! My initial target is 3 months. Hopefully that will be extended. But truth is, I'm dreading the Christmas/after Christmas sales!

1 bag that I gave away was the MbMJ nylon bag I bought for my Japan trip early this year. I realized that I prefer the Longchamp Neo with long strap which serves the same purpose. The other is the Tod's black bag that I bought for documents. When I got the Fossil bag I didn't need the Tod's bag anymore. Then finally a RM full size MAB that was already too big for me.

Speaking of RM Cupid, I had a full size one before and I liked it structured. I got it brand new so no problem with structure though I oftend wondered if it would soften with wear. I sold it during my big bag purge. I've not regretted the sale but it's probably one of the RM bags I would consider having again. It was in a beautiful Elephant Grey color.
The bags you gifted don't seem to be ones that were integral to your collection so it seems your heart is ok. But, I can completely understand being frustrated to have the money you spent go un-recouped.

I'm deliberately waiting for a ban til next year. My bday and Christmas sales are this month. I'm not making myself crazy by avoiding them if there is something I truly want. LOL!

I'm planning to go month to month on my ban - meaning that if I start a month in ban, I'll commit to finishing that month. I'd like to do 6 months but, I don't know if I can last quite that long. Especially since I'm currently over 4 months no buy. Adding this month and 6 more would make it almost a year with no purchases. That isn't realistic or even something I want at this stage of curating and enjoying my collection.
 
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I don’t have a photo of my teal one but here is the new-to-me rose gold Cupid that I’ve been carrying a lot. The two that are shipping soon are in forest green and iris pink. I really love the design of this bag because I can predominately carry it as a hand-carry bag, which I prefer, and then sling it on my shoulders when I board the bus or crossbody if i’m carrying my kid.C5B05E1B-4DB5-460B-AB29-87823DB5784B.jpeg

Going on a ban together will be nice! My initial target is 3 months. Hopefully that will be extended. But truth is, I'm dreading the Christmas/after Christmas sales!

1 bag that I gave away was the MbMJ nylon bag I bought for my Japan trip early this year. I realized that I prefer the Longchamp Neo with long strap which serves the same purpose. The other is the Tod's black bag that I bought for documents. When I got the Fossil bag I didn't need the Tod's bag anymore. Then finally a RM full size MAB that was already too big for me.

Speaking of RM Cupid, I had a full size one before and I liked it structured. I got it brand new so no problem with structure though I oftend wondered if it would soften with wear. I sold it during my big bag purge. I've not regretted the sale but it's probably one of the RM bags I would consider having again. It was in a beautiful Elephant Grey color.

The type of leather matters but I think all Cupids will soften over time with use, it’s inherently the style. So maybe it was the right decision for you to sell it. That said, if you had a new one and took care of it, it will likely keep its structure quite a while.
 
For those of you who live where you get severe wet or snowy weather what bag do you use on those days? I use my Mz Wallace but I am curious to see what else is good for this besides that and Longchamp pliage.

Mine used to be a top handle/shoulder bag from russle and Bromley; one of the most rugged bags I’ve ever owned. I gave it away because the bag had been used and abused, lol.

I tend to carry my mulberry old style bayswater or LV canvas bags during the rainy seasons now which I know is not a good alternative.

Russle and bromley leather tends to hold up well in wet weather. The one I gave away had that prada saffiano leather look and feel to it. I just had to wipe rain drops off and I was good to go. Haven’t found a style I like in recent months from the brand so currently waiting on them to release a style that would work for me.
 
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