Have you taken it out for the day or were you just putting stuff in ready to go out and realized it was too heavy?
Perhaps try leaving the ipad out. And do you need your charger for the day? Assuming you have a smart phone, you can eliminate the planner as well. That should help lighten the bag.
Thanks for ur kind opinion. I feel like these other ladies were bulling me this is my first Chanel I paid $6300 for bag n wallet. I would like to be happy. It's not too bad without the iPad mini. If I feel like its too heavy I will resell on eBay. I only put my stuff in it take pictures n see what u guys think. At the store people try them on n put their things in it so I don't understand why all these ladies say that I can't return it without knowing the full details.