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I'm all for this. I'm a mere 5 weeks, so I'm sure the next 35 will provide rich material for that thread.
Wholeheartedly agreed. I'll be 33 and my husband will be 44 when our baby is born (first child for both). Our kid is definitely better off for our maturity and years of careful planning. I feel like the comments people make in the direction of suggesting advanced maternal age come from an insecure place. My parents were even older when I was born, so they set the model and I am grateful for that.
Again, I am FIVE weeks pregnant... and a coworker rubbed my belly today! (I had to disclose at work because of Covid, which is fine.) My husband has the all-clear to do that as much as he wants, but my hip bones still stick out beyond my "baby belly," so let's not pretend there's a visual cue to rub there, you know?
This thread has been a great distraction from work tonight. Thanks!
I'm all for this. I'm a mere 5 weeks, so I'm sure the next 35 will provide rich material for that thread.
Wholeheartedly agreed. I'll be 33 and my husband will be 44 when our baby is born (first child for both). Our kid is definitely better off for our maturity and years of careful planning. I feel like the comments people make in the direction of suggesting advanced maternal age come from an insecure place. My parents were even older when I was born, so they set the model and I am grateful for that.
Again, I am FIVE weeks pregnant... and a coworker rubbed my belly today! (I had to disclose at work because of Covid, which is fine.) My husband has the all-clear to do that as much as he wants, but my hip bones still stick out beyond my "baby belly," so let's not pretend there's a visual cue to rub there, you know?
This thread has been a great distraction from work tonight. Thanks!
Always chic and gorgeous!
Hair is looking beautiful!
Thank you LadiesPerfection sweetie!!![]()
Congratulations on you new chapter!I'm all for this. I'm a mere 5 weeks, so I'm sure the next 35 will provide rich material for that thread.
Wholeheartedly agreed. I'll be 33 and my husband will be 44 when our baby is born (first child for both). Our kid is definitely better off for our maturity and years of careful planning. I feel like the comments people make in the direction of suggesting advanced maternal age come from an insecure place. My parents were even older when I was born, so they set the model and I am grateful for that.
Again, I am FIVE weeks pregnant... and a coworker rubbed my belly today! (I had to disclose at work because of Covid, which is fine.) My husband has the all-clear to do that as much as he wants, but my hip bones still stick out beyond my "baby belly," so let's not pretend there's a visual cue to rub there, you know?
This thread has been a great distraction from work tonight. Thanks!
When I was pregnant with my first, a co-worker told me she was sure I was carrying a girl, because they steal the mother's beauty...Isn’t it so funny what people feel comfortable to say to pregnant women ??? i should have written it all down and published a memoirs journal....
OMG I heard this too on my first...as well as it must be a girl because boys just show as a bump but girls pack the weight on you all over--hips, butt, face, etc...When I was pregnant with my first, a co-worker told me she was sure I was carrying a girl, because they steal the mother's beauty...
Wow!!! I consider 35 very young!!! I had both of mine in my 40's, ha ha. One at 40, the other at 44. I definitely got a lot of interesting comments.So far I have heard: oh your face is rounder! You definitely have put on fat in your face.
another one (friend ahem) - not bad for an old mom. Erm... thanks. I didn’t know I was an old mom at 35!
You look fabulous!!!
Oh I have heard this one! Thought it only exists among Eastern European countries? Apparently not!When I was pregnant with my first, a co-worker told me she was sure I was carrying a girl, because they steal the mother's beauty...
Congratulations!
Feel well !
Congrats on the new bun in the oven!! Wishing you the best!![]()
Thank you all so much!Congratulations on you new chapter!![]()
amazing ! - i would love to have a 4th (im 44) and my youngest is 4 ... unfortunately hubby is NOT on same page..One of the nicest things I heard on my journey from a fertility doctor was that if my goal was to be a parent, there are many ways to make that happen (although some are very expensive, of course). That comment had a huge impact on me and made me feel so much better and more in control. Good luck with whatever you choose!
I wanted a third and my hubby did not! We agreed to "not try to stop it" but with my history, another pregnancy was so unlikely. 4 would be so amazing!amazing ! - i would love to have a 4th (im 44) and my youngest is 4 ... unfortunately hubby is NOT on same page..
Absolutely!One of the nicest things I heard on my journey from a fertility doctor was that if my goal was to be a parent, there are many ways to make that happen (although some are very expensive, of course). That comment had a huge impact on me and made me feel so much better and more in control. Good luck with whatever you choose!