I originally came because this site's a good resource for info. on designer handbags.
I opted to stay because I've made a few friends and acquaintances, who I enjoy interacting with.
As far as having the red carpet rolled out for me, I never expected it. It's a group like any other and that means people will typically stick to those they know until they get to know you. Some will like you, others won't. You'll like some people and run to avoid others.
Just as is the case at a social event, some people will say things that are interesting to you and you will want to engage with them, others will make comments you find boring or inane and some will just drive you bonkers. The good thing is that you are not obligated to deal with any of them and vice-versa.