Amen Swanky. I am proud to rock some jeans, flats, and a tshirt with a nice bag. Heres my deal- my weight fluctuates SO much. I'm not at the size that i want to be, so i don't splurge all my money on clothes. I enjoy splurging on shoes, and bags because one i'm secure that no matter how big or small i am the bags i INVEST in are always going to be gorgeous!
What many people don't see is there are many reasons why people choose to dress the way they do, and carry the bags they carry... part of it is influenced by celebs, part of it is the $$, part of it is just doing what the hell we want to!
But yea- clothing wise i'm really thrifty but will never compromise on my bags! they make me feel good, and thats all that matters. I don't care how others judge me one bit. And probably sad to say, but probably the majority of the people judging you because they are jealous they do not have the same thing.
As far as fakes--- a couple of my coworkers know i'm really into bags, and some of them ask me for opinions on what to invest in. I had a coworker that paid $60 for a fake Dolce Gabbana and absolutely loves it. However when i explained to her the concept of "counterfeit" in general- whether it be designer goods, or electronics, or anything else she really felt disgusted and said she'd never buy a fake again! I think if many people just were INFORMED about the reality of counterfeits many would decide NOT to support the production of them.
I had another coworker that really wanted me to go to the
coach outlet with her because she can't really afford designer bags but she's wanting to invest in just 1 nice bag she can use over the years, and her boyfriend was like commenting on every single one of them we looked at saying he could find this for "$20" for her.... which is one reason i'm not into coach anymore because it is along with LV probably the most faked designer out there. My coworker was disheartened to hear her BF's comments and didn't buy a bag. I explained the reality of the counterfeits to her boyfriend, he actually listened too without rolling his eyes LOL, and two days later we all went out for dinner and he told me that he did a lot of "reading up" on this topic online, and he didn't realize what it was all about, and now he plans on surprising his GF with a REAL bag for valentines day this year!
LOL sorry to ramble but just wanted to share the story! Now ofcourse they still think i'm nuts for spending over 10-12K on my bag collection, but she did say she'd do the same if she could afford it!
