When I was a child, the bags used by people with middle and upper socioeconomic status in my city were usually LV. In the early 2000s, I first saw a Hermès bag in Istanbul (I’m from Istanbul). Since then, I’ve always had my eye on Hermès. Back when I was a young girl, models like B or K were definitely aspirational items that only very high-status people could own. They weren't as common as they are today, and the concept of reselling didn’t even exist back then. Even in Paris, there were long waiting lists for quite a while.
In just the last 10 years, the reseller market has rapidly developed. People have found ways to market these bags, and acquiring a B or K has evolved into something different from simply waiting on a long list and making a huge financial investment. In reality, nothing seems to hold its original value anymore. While the increased accessibility is nice, it feels like everything's value is quickly diminishing.
I started earning my own money at 23. With my first paycheck, I bought a Monogram Pochette. I still use it, and I carry it proudly because it's a reward for my hard work. Even though I had the financial means back then, I didn't feel mature enough to carry an H bag. Today, I don’t feel entitled to comment on those in their 20s who carry them, but I believe that one should have the maturity to understand the value of everything before owning it.
For this reason, I made my first Hermès purchase at 30. Between the ages of 30 and 35, I only bought Twillys and Gavroches. During those five years, I also tried to make an appointment. At 35, I bought my first B bag in my friend's name. Unfortunately, in the following three years, I faced cancer and underwent very intense treatments. This year, I was finally able to return to Paris after those three years. To start building a shopping history, I began purchasing only the items I love. My one-month summer vacation was adorned with two non-QB pieces. I returned home with a Picotin and a Constance Élan. Yes, I have a dream of owning a Kelly, and I’ve even added a Kelly Pochette or Élan to my list. But that's it. In other words, it’s not about being part of the shopping game to own more.
I've gained a lot of information from many friends in the forum, and it has greatly contributed to my personal development, for which I am grateful. Thanks to them, I’ve gained a different perspective on my fashion taste and developed new focal points. For example, while I love Hermès scarves, I learned that I can actually create M2M pieces from them. I’ve set this as a goal for myself. Let’s see who I will twin with on this journey. Loool.
Here is my Unpopular idea.
Carrying an H bag just because it’s hard to obtain, without understanding the meanings it carries.
I don't want to carry this bag just to prove that I can own it. I want it because it is a rare piece that maintains its delicacy in our increasingly synthetic world, allowing me to be part of the elegance it embodies.
I hope I haven't strayed off topic.
