What is the most frustrating thing for you when looking for a new bag?

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I usually have something I already know I want when I go buy a bag.** I've done my research and all that. What frustrates me most is the experience itself, if there aren't enough facts around about the bag. If I can't see it for myself, I need exact measurements, mod shots, pics from the inside etc. Many online retailers don't offer enough information on the products they sell. I need to do extensive research, stalk eBay sellers to see if their items for sale have the pics or info I need etc. I'd prefer to find all the information I need right there where I'm buying.
Since I do buy alot of preloved, I can easily ask for mod shots, measurements, feel of the material etc from the seller. If I do buy new, I still want some reviews to read to find out about the practicality and durability of the bag in question - I often find the preloved buying experience more up my alley, in addition to saving money it's usually more rewarding and satisfying.


**Except last weekend, when I was on a mini cruise with mummy dearest and somehow found myself at the register with a gorgeous black&grey Superdry canvas tote - I have no idea how that came to happen?!! :whut:
 
you can still find those wonderful leathers, the trick is, finding the brands which are using those leathers :smile:. Think of it as a treasure hunt.

I find you have to hunt within brands. Ferragamo makes some bags with great leather - and leather lined. But not all their bags are made that way - many are saffiano or thinner leather.

There are four wants in a great purse:
Great leather
Great design
Great hardware
Great construction

Finding all 4 in one bag is the search for the holy grail.
 
And, (not so many) years ago, you could get a bag with amazing leather at every price point - from sub contemporary to premier. Now, even the premier brands churn out bags with so so leather.

I have a reeeaaally old Coach work tote / laptop bag. The leather is amazing but the bag has seen better days (decades). I wanted to replace it but couldn't find anything with leather nearly as nice. And, with the exception of Hermes, I looked across just about every brand. Nada. I finally settled on a very functional leather Knomo laptop bag. Nice but, not amazing. :-s
If you want amazing leather look no further than Massaccesi. Enough said.
 
Honestly, I hate that it's hard to find a good bespoke bag here in the US. There are a couple, but if it seems like the majority are overseas. Not just with brick and mortar shops, but also personal sellers who make their own bags on Etsy.

Also, even if I do find someone who has great reviews and has great pricing, trying to find someone who makes a nice, well-made evening bag/clutch that's my style is even more difficult. Everyone makes tote bags; I already have enough totes and everyday bags. I want a unique, fancy purse to show off with on fancy occasions!
 
Honestly, I hate that it's hard to find a good bespoke bag here in the US. There are a couple, but if it seems like the majority are overseas. Not just with brick and mortar shops, but also personal sellers who make their own bags on Etsy.

Also, even if I do find someone who has great reviews and has great pricing, trying to find someone who makes a nice, well-made evening bag/clutch that's my style is even more difficult. Everyone makes tote bags; I already have enough totes and everyday bags. I want a unique, fancy purse to show off with on fancy occasions!

Two words: Laurel Dasso. She listens to her customers and makes what they want. Also a pleasure to work with, as I've heard.
 
Oooh, thanks! She's also in the same coast as me, which is perfect! :heart: I've never heard of her, but I'm always up for learning about new/private designers.
She has quite the reputation on tPF already - she's one of those Etsy sellers that has a steady fan base and I think her bags have their own thread also. :yes: Hope you get to create your own perfect bag with her!
 
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I just thought of another one. Finding a small, cute bag that does not have multiple credit card slots. I think I'm the only person who hates this so I understand this is weird, but that feature really bugs me. For starters, I have my own full-sized wallet, a card holder, and a key pouch. Also, my six-key holder has a card slot. I don't need my handbag to act as a wallet! Also, when I'm on the go, I only need 2-3 cards at most; there is no point in having 4-10 credit card slots.

I blame the popularization of the Wallet on Chain/WOC that has made designers create nearly all their evening/event bags with these slots. If I wanted to use my clutch as a wallet, I'd bring my wallet. If there was a way for me to cut out those credit card slots and just have a small bag, I would totally do it.
 
I just thought of another one. Finding a small, cute bag that does not have multiple credit card slots. I think I'm the only person who hates this so I understand this is weird, but that feature really bugs me. For starters, I have my own full-sized wallet, a card holder, and a key pouch. Also, my six-key holder has a card slot. I don't need my handbag to act as a wallet! Also, when I'm on the go, I only need 2-3 cards at most; there is no point in having 4-10 credit card slots.

I blame the popularization of the Wallet on Chain/WOC that has made designers create nearly all their evening/event bags with these slots. If I wanted to use my clutch as a wallet, I'd bring my wallet. If there was a way for me to cut out those credit card slots and just have a small bag, I would totally do it.

You’re not the only one! Sometimes you want a small bag that is just that, a bag, NOT a wallet. I personally hate changing wallets and want something that while small, I can just put my (pre-existing, already organized the way I want it) wallet or card case into.

Another pet peeve of mine is the way almost every bag now seems to have a center divider pocket. While I understand how this can make a large bag easier and more functional, why is this necessary in a small bag? All it does is limit my usage. Especially when said center pocket is too small to really hold anything you’d want to keep secure, like a wallet or phone. (I’m talking to you, Fendi Petite 2Jours — the center pocket is tiny and hard to get into, and meanwhile there are no other pockets, not even a little slip one for my cell phone.)
 
You’re not the only one! Sometimes you want a small bag that is just that, a bag, NOT a wallet. I personally hate changing wallets and want something that while small, I can just put my (pre-existing, already organized the way I want it) wallet or card case into.
OMG!!! I thought I was the only one! :lol::hugs: I am with you, I hate changing wallets and I already have pre-existing SLGs that do the trick for me when I'm trying to minimize. That is precisely the reason why I abhor these credit card slots in bags so much!!! I know these designers are trying to minimize "space" by inserting these slots, but seriously, these slots take up as much space as my pre-existing card holder, which does the trick, thanks.

Also, very rarely do I see any YouTube bloggers even use these slots as they use their own card holders/cles/etc. Sure, it is very easy for people to say to just "ignore" the slots and just use the item for what it is, but they bug me so much that I can't. :mad::lol: I want to rip them out!
 
1. Nice leather, suede or beautiful silk lining. I really don't care how great a bag is on the outside, crap lining is unforgivable. And don't give me that "now with our lighter lining" guff, I have a suede-lined BV hobo that I can pick up with my little finger. Getting harder and harder.

2. No logo or close to none. Iconic, signature hardware fine but sorry, I know where I bought my bag. I don't pay you so I get to advertise your name. Getting harder and harder.

3. Solid construction. Anything that wont last until the next millennium is not worth paying the same price as a second hand car. Getting harder and harder

4. Customer and aftercare service. I might need it I may not, but if it's not there you can keep your goods, the high price should include that deal. Getting harder and harder.
 
I agree with all you said there, @papertiger ! There used to be a time when paying a high price for an item meant - most of the time, anyway - that you got a high quality piece which included stellar service&after care and would indeed last for years, if not decades.
Now it just guarantees you get rid of your money. All else is completely up to the gods.
 
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I usually have something I already know I want when I go buy a bag.** I've done my research and all that. What frustrates me most is the experience itself, if there aren't enough facts around about the bag. If I can't see it for myself, I need exact measurements, mod shots, pics from the inside etc. Many online retailers don't offer enough information on the products they sell. I need to do extensive research, stalk eBay sellers to see if their items for sale have the pics or info I need etc. I'd prefer to find all the information I need right there where I'm buying.
Since I do buy alot of preloved, I can easily ask for mod shots, measurements, feel of the material etc from the seller. If I do buy new, I still want some reviews to read to find out about the practicality and durability of the bag in question - I often find the preloved buying experience more up my alley, in addition to saving money it's usually more rewarding and satisfying.


**Except last weekend, when I was on a mini cruise with mummy dearest and somehow found myself at the register with a gorgeous black&grey Superdry canvas tote - I have no idea how that came to happen?!! :whut:
I totally agree with you. Based on my location, I mostly have to do high end shopping online. So many websites don't have mod shots, etc. Just seeing a general picture and measurements (some sites don't even give measurements!) is NOT good enough! If you want to sell me a high dollar item, the least you can do is provide ample pictures and measurements. There are so many times where I have to search out pictures of the bag so I can see what it looks like being worn. Frustrating!
 
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