I try to only set my sights on something I know is attainable. For instance, I like most of you would LOVE a Birkin but it's not in my budget at the moment. I don't even know how easy/hard they are to get. I wouldn't even go that far until I know I have the $$$ to get it. It's more fun to me to pine for things you know one day (soon ... lol) you will have it!