I've learned that I shouldn't feel guilty for having Hermes purchasing habits just because no one in my family agrees with me about it, though their purchases are equally expensive, just different!
My single expensive purchase vs. my Mother's $4,000 a year nail care habit, my sister's $2,500 a year Starbuck's habit, my Dad's constant purchasing of antiques and equipment like an Argo...which he's used maybe once, etc. I refuse to feel guilty anymore just because my Hermes habit isn't up my family's alley!!!