Omg, you nailed it with "bonding ritual"! I've got my first thrifted bag (a station bag, Willis I think, 9927, I'm afraid to ask for authentication, I'm a rookie, don't know if I can handle the heartbreak yet) drying now after a bath to reshape, following some amazing threads here, thank you ladies, high five! And Im shocked at how excited I am to get to the conditioning and USING stage! We totally bonded in the bath!