Don't get me wrong, I want the item I've purchased, however the stress of being diddled again is actually making me feel physically sick. I could literally be panicking for nothing, but past experiences and further information are hampering any sort of excitement.
I would welcome any stories of successful purchases!
I have made both successful and bad purchases. My advice is always pay with PayPal. I was able to return one non compliant item even when I had payed with Amex. The return was smooth. It just made me so sad to return a fabulous Chanel necklace, knowing it had become damaged due to bad packaging (by Vestiaire or the seller). Some people are clueless as to how to pack fragile items.
Strangely enough, I have had good luck with shoes. And my purchases for my daughter have been great. Everything in new or near new condition. My second advice is only ever buy items in very good condition. And always check comments left by the community on the seller's other items.
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