Hiiii
Fellow Virgo and VCA lover here. I love the look of Tiger Eye, and I was born in Year of the Tiger. I dont own Tiger Eye since it is advised that Virgos stay away from it. I passed on the Lucky Alhambra bracelet because of the TE Butterfly on it…
I own a 25-30 crystals in various shapes and sizes, but never added TE to my collection.
If you’re anything like most Virgos, I believe owning the TE will do you more harm than good; It’s already in our brains “we should stay away from it…”, so whenever something negative were to happen
after owning the TE, your brain will always go back to the energy associated with the TE and Virgo/yourself….
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Did this happen to me because of the TE? Would things have happened differently if I wasn’t wearing it?”
The fact you that the Universe is telling you not to get it IS 100000% your reason to (unfortunately) not purchase TE. I believe your intuition knows but your brain is looking for loopholes, explanations, etc…
Now IF you didn’t believe that different stones types carry various energies, or weren’t into astrology, then it would be a little bit different; My sibling genuinely doesn’t care about
any of these things whereas I wouldn’t be able to get past it..
Onto The Husband -
My DH was the same with VCA in general


. I think some husbands take longer to warm up to certain things, like jewelry. You should complete your set, it seems your heart was set on it. I completed my set with my first 3 VCA purchases and I have no regrets! You will be happy with a full set, and then can move onto other pieces…
OR
Opt for RG Sweet earrings if your heart doesn’t want the Carnelian. (I was also going to suggest YG or RG bracelet instead of TE).
BTW, Did your Husband say why he hated the earrings?
I know how difficult it is to make a decision when your DH (or anyone close to you) makes a negative comment about something
you love

. You’re happy with your decision you made for yourself but then you second guess yourself because of someone you love.
One thing I have learned over the years is, whenever my heart is set on something but then I change it based on others opinions, I end up being unhappy.
aka - follow your gut!
I also understand how confusing it is when you learn you
should stay away from something

. I have wanted to add Malachite to my VCA collection, but various spiritual advisors suggested I do not wear that stone

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Overall, follow YOUR intuition. Only you know what feels right to you 
. You will be the one wearing it - choose what makes YOU happy!
I tell others “
your intuition knows the way, but it’s your mind that confuses you.”
And happy almost birthday season

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