Hi! Thanks for tagging me. I have the worst ear piercing, so I always need to make adjustments to my earrings.
I would be happy to share my thoughts, and of course, this is my opinion only as everyone has their own preferences.
Summary:
Yes, I do think you need to adjust both the tension and height as you mentioned. I will elaborate a bit more on each adjustment to provide more insight.
- Height: I agree with you. The earrings sit too high. This is because your ear piercing is high, hence you need to lower your earrings by using the top hole. You can see also in your third photo that you had to clip them on angled in order for them to fit your ear lobe. This make the Alhambra motif look like an "X" and not like a "+" sign. If you remove the earrings and hold them vertical, they are meant to be a "+" sign look. Like this photo below... see how her earrings are a "+" and not an "X"? In your second photo, yours are currently an "X". I would have VCA use the top hole to lower the earrings to allow more space for your earlobe.
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- Tension: Yes, I also agree you need to loosen the tension. Looking your third photo, for me, they would be a bit too tight. Even if they feel okay, the visual to me is a bit off. Why? Because it looks like the earrings now are "pressing" into your skin. You can tell by the edge of the earrings the skin there looks a bit "puffed up" (e.g. squished). For me, I like earrings to sit on top of skin, not pressed into the skin. I think when earrings are worn tight where it presses into skin, it makes the earlobes look fat and swollen. Kind of like when people wear rings that are too tight, you get that dreaded sausage finger look.
An earring example is when you sometimes see people wear tiny studs. They tighten the post so much, the stud is slightly sunken in, and the skin around the earring looks puffy. Earrings should not recess; but rather, they should be on top of the ear, showing off its beauty. I would also not want them to tight that they leave an impression on the skin from being squished.
Hope this makes sense, but yes... for me, I would loosen the tension a bit.
I personally prefer a very loose tension for some breathing space. The earrings are not going to fall off due to the French clip closing.
- Post Thickness: The post thickness will affect how sore your ear piercing is when you wear them for a while. I have the worst ear piercing. I did it at a mall when I was a kid. My ear piercing is very low, and the hole itself is small. This means if I wear the VCA standard thick post, my ears will get sore and sometimes bleed after wearing them for a day. Wear your earrings for a day and see how your ear piercing feels. If your ear piercing feels okay, no need to change to thinner post. If your ear piercing hurts/is sore/bleeds, then yes, I would suggest asking for a thinner post.
- Post Length: First, if you have to loosen the tension a bit, this does not mean you need a longer post. A longer post is not better if it's not needed. All you need is for the post to poke out a tiny bit from the back of the earring clip.
When putting on earrings, the bottom earlobe needs to go between the clip opening for the post to go through the ear piercing.
If your post is super long, it's going to be awkward and cumbersome to put the earrings on as you now have to angle them property due to the long post being in the way.
Let me elaborate on this a bit as it may be hard to understand. I posted three photos of my VA earrings. The first photo is my earring closed. You can see the post sticks out just a tiny bit, not too long. The second photo shows the clip opened. You can see how much "room" there is around the clip opening. You can just grab the earring and stick it in your ear piercing. The third photo shows a longer post which I extended as shown in red. The post is super long to demonstrate the point. See how long the post is now with that red added? Next, you will see a blue circle. That blue circle is now the opening your earlobe has to clear to put on the earring. This is what I mean by you now have to angle the earring to almost "thread" your ear piercing through the post.
With your high ear piercing, a longer post will make it worse as you have a lot of "earlobe" to clear.
I would suggest only lengthing the post if you need it due to the tension being a lot looser which I doubt. As I mentioned, I wear my tension pretty loose, and I do not required a longer post. I only need a thinner one.
Whew... sorry for the long post, but I hope this helps. Good luck with your earrings!
And... congratulations on your earrings! The YG MOP combo is my absolute favorite stone and metal combo. It just glows against the skin and face!
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