Thoughts on Purseonfleek’s latest video about Hermes experience?

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Like many others said I think she was a little too much with her emails...

But besides that...taking a huge step back...I just don’t get how anyone, influencer or not, goes on whining for an hour about the inability to buy a $$$$$ handbag that nobody needs. Just...think about how ridiculous it is when that is the biggest problem you encounter in your life. And in this case you then proceed to to put it out on the Internet to generate views and sympathy. Like...cmon. And I am like most of you here a huge fan of H products and after these bags myself. Still I cannot imagine why.

This, all the way!
 
It's just mind-boggling to me the amount of oversharing. I'm sure her SA is happy that she had a healthy baby, but why is she supposed to care about her nursing habits? I can easily see why a sales associate would be uncomfortable after getting these countless emails. She could have easily said, "I gave birth to a baby boy so I can't come in that often," but then she says that she would go in for her wishlist bag, so she actually can come in if it's worth it to her. I don't understand the point of the email other than to add onto her wishlist and to provide more emotional fodder.

I worked high-end retail before I went to law school. Not Hermes level, but it was the type of store where you had business cards, your own personal email, and your own client book and I also dealt with customers who made me uncomfortable. She reminds me of one customer I had who I would personal shop for as she lived in another state, but she would email me constantly about her life. She would tell me about her health problems, about her husband cheating on her, on her relationship with her daughter, and then she would put me through the ringer of sending her clothes and then her doing mass returns. I would often lose sales because she would sometimes call the store to talk to me about her life. It was emotionally draining for me and my manager at the time did not have my back because this client spent a lot of money and feared the client would go elsewhere as she only wanted to deal with me, so I was pretty much forced to put up with it until I quit.

So I feel no sympathy for her whatsoever and in fact, I'm happy that Hermes has their employee's back when so many businesses believe the customer is always right.
I worked for Nordstrom in the late 1970’s and early 80’s. Customers were rough.:whut: I applaude companies who rightfully back their employees.
 
Okay well putting aside the crazy wishlist and reselling tendencies in general, my first red flag is at 12:32. "my friend's SA got her a so black rodeo so can you confirm you haven't forgotten about me because I've been waiting longer than her" if I was her SA, I would have run right there and then.

14:58 - she starts to compare again what her friends have gotten through their SA's and guilt tripping her SA yet again. She also talks about needing to take a spending break due to splurging too much ($4k), feel like SA was doing her a favor with not offering her a bag that would have her spending at least 3-4X that. I don't think its fair at all for her to compare her experience to others and guilt her SA in such a way.

I also really hate how she puts in her wishlist dates of when she "originally requested" or put items on her wishlist, or the constant reminders of how long its been since getting something. A guilt trip is just so uncalled for to me, on top of the constant "I want to maximize my bag chances so tell me when it's best to come in the store" and then trying to say she's depressed because she's seeing others get bags and not her? I can see why H handle this the way that they did. Not healthy at all and I hope she gets herself some help or at least another hobby to preoccupy herself.
 
I think in the last couple vlogs she seemed quite desperate, even the depression she spoke of in this video was all a bit intense. I can’t even imagine what she was like with her SA in person based off her emails.
She did manage to get the mini rouli in barenia, the Oran’s and the bolide. I think they just didn’t sell her hard to get items like the quota bags and rodeos in one colour she requested due to the reselling.
She has a video up “how I sell my hermes bags” and if you look in the emails from the latest video she actually added the scarf cards to her wish list no doubt to sell on eBay. I think things like that coupled with the selling on eBay ruined her chances.
I think she needs to take a step back. Spending on stuff you don’t want and depression is not worth it for a bag.
I know this is off topic, but are Orans hard to get? You can order them pretty broadly online (in the US) in all colors and sizes. My SA has been able to get me whatever I wanted in all types of shoes, so I just don't know. It seems strange that Mel seemed to be pulling teeth to get hers.

She must not have wanted the mini rouli that badly. It's for sale on her eBay store as well.
I almost snorted my water when I read this. I knew she was suggesting selling it/trading it for one with GHW, but this just takes the cake. Like she JUST bought this one. Why did you make this purchase decision if you didn't really want it?!?
 
The more I think about this the more I believe HR was the right entity to contact Mel. If the employee or manager had talked to her, they risk being raked over the coals on YouTube and possibly harassed by a few of Mel’s enthusiastic followers who do not have both sides of the story. Who knows, maybe they did say something (passively), but her need for a B or K caused her to ignore the signals. HR interference also tells me there might be more to the story than we’re being told.

As for the passion for H Mel displayed- it was a little intense for me. I love Hermès bags. I’ve wanted a Kelly bag for 50 years. I‘m finally getting one as a gift to myself for beating a major health issue. I could be waiting a year, two years, or maybe five years. It’s just a bag. My life will go on- in the meantime, I will buy other bags I adore and when my dream bag comes in, it’s arrival will be a happy surprise. I’d love for Mel to appreciate and enjoy what she has and not spend her life looking ahead to the next new thing. I’m sure she’s a lovely person who needs to focus on spending time on post-Covid vacations with her family and other satisfying things.
So much congrats to you for beating those health scares! I hope you get the bags (and experiences and time) you would like soon!
 
Perhaps someone can answer this for me since I am in no position to purchase a Birkin or Kelly, but is it normal to constantly remind your SA that you want a B or K after you first ask about it?
No, especially not in the way described in this thread! @Yoshi1296, @cravin, and others above (and @Sourisbrune below) describe a considerate, calm, reasonable way to discuss it with an SA.

@jsmile, its been my experience that my SA doesnt have a problem if I buy vintage discontinued H from the secondary market and new from the boutique. (In fact, Claude the crafts person at H Madison. The SA and SMs used to be very complimentary re vintage that came in for spa). In addition, H staff doesn’t necessarily care if you donate, gift or consign stuff that turns out not to work for you (AKA cleaning our your closet) What H has an issue with is if you buy from the boutique and flip something for profit as the subject of this thread did. JMO of course. :biggrin:
 
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Perhaps someone can answer this for me since I am in no position to purchase a Birkin or Kelly, but is it normal to constantly remind your SA that you want a B or K after you first ask about it?
No. I buy what I like, treat my SA with respect and the offers have come. Hopefully one day soon I’ll have an offer in the color/size I want. I’m in no particular hurry- I’m lovin’ my new GP right now and looking at a Picotin Lock or Bolide 27 for summer.
 
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